u/Significant-Owl-1795

I’m really thinking about it.

Tell me all the fun stuff you have in your backyard!! I want our house to be the fun place

I feel like life would’ve been so much easier and chill if I never married my husband. Could live by family, probably wouldn’t be dirt poor living paycheck to paycheck. Wouldn’t have to move all the time or deal with tdys and deployments all the time. It makes me so mad when I do think about it.

Or am I a shitty mom/wife 😅

I’m trying to grow our instagram business so we are noticed a little more? But having a hard time getting any likes. Our views are at like 100-200 ugh. I got like two follows today lol. We’re looking for interior designers to work with

No one from my family has come to visit me except for 1 time in the 10 years I’ve been involved with the military (veteran turned spouse). But somehow in the beginning I made it a point to visit “home” once or twice a year, then I had a baby which was the one time my family came to visit for a couple days. Then it went to once a year I would go visit them and then this last year it was two years since seeing my family so I packed up and went to see them but I think I’m done going to go see them…

Most days I don’t want to do anything. Like it’s a struggle to get myself to clean the house (mostly the kitchen and our room with a family of 5 laundry pile). I have a 7 year old, 3 year old and 10 month old. We’ve been living in an airbnb since October for my husbands tdy…I just want my stuff back. Every day is like damn near 100 degrees out where we are. I miss my friends and family. We have no village and I have no friends because we have moved 8 times in the last 4 years.

Where are yall finding lighting like pendants, chandeliers, sconces, lamps etc. high end lighting. Went to icff in may but where else?

My husband owns a business and I’m a stay at home mom right now but about to start going to school (veteran) to help my family because we’re really struggling. Any other side hustles we could look into doing? We have two huge cncs, all the woodshop tools/ equipment you can think of. We have 3 small kids and 3 animals and literally living pay check to paycheck (kinda he’s also in the military and maxs out the tsp every month so that’s good). He swears the business is going to take off and is going to do everything he can to make it happen because well he kinda has to now at this point. 200k in the hole. Thanks for the help…

My husband and I were thinking about taking a trip to Hawaii, his parents said they would watch hour kids for us for 12 days but my husband was like I don’t think I want to be away from the kids that long but I don’t mind being away for that long 😅

My husband thinks he’s a stay at home wife because he’s running to the store real quick with our two boys to grab some Mike’s hot honey for our dinner that I accidentally forgot to buy, that I’m making for him 😂

We moved in the middle of her first grade year so she went to two different schools for 1st grade and I’m thinking about having her do 1st grade again because we’re moving to a new state again and will be going to a new school again 😭

The only good school is about 22 minutes away. I’m wondering if that is doable especially since my 1 year old will have to tag along

We have a business that is growing fast and I’m wanting to help him more which would mean traveling with him to like interior design shows but we don’t have any family that want to help us watch the kids. Also traveling wouldn’t be all the time. I would also be doing some work during the day but I also want to still be a sahm so would an au pair be the best choice? We have 3 kids 7,3 and 8 months

I would really like to start helping my husband with our business more which means traveling and what not but we don’t have family that really wants to help watch the kids for us.

She’s 6 almost 7 and she screams at the top of her lungs EVERY DAY sometimes multiple times a day when she doesn’t get her way or she gets in trouble. I send her to her room to calm down but even that barely helps with how loud she screams

She also never wants to play with her own toys. She just wants to play with her brother and his toys. And gets upset when he doesn’t want to play with her

That’s one way to make someone feel like shit. lol that’s the post