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I saw this man randomly on Facebook and god, I genuinely cannot stop thinking about him. 😭 It’s been two months since I saw him and somehow I still think about him way more than I should.

The funny thing is, I literally only know his name and his occupation. That’s it. I don’t know if he’s single, I don’t know what his personality is like, I don’t even know how old he is. I’m pretty sure he’s probably a lot older than me too, which somehow makes this even more ridiculous. 😭

But there was just something about him. I don’t know how to explain it without sounding completely insane, but he felt familiar. Like if I actually knew him, I could picture myself being so comfortable around him. And now my brain keeps wandering into these little daydreams about what life with him would be like.

I catch myself wondering what kind of husband he’d be, what he’d be like when he’s comfortable, what his laugh sounds like, what he’s like when he’s annoyed, all of it. And I DON’T EVEN KNOW THIS MAN. 😭

I genuinely didn’t want to get into the whole praying/wazifa/tahajjud thing because, hello, this is a man I have never even spoken to. But I can’t help making dua sometimes. Not even in a “this HAS to happen” way. More like… if there’s something good here, I hope Allah lets our paths cross properly.

I’ve never really felt this strongly about someone without knowing them. Maybe I’m just projecting an entire personality onto a handsome Facebook profile, which is entirely possible. 😭 But two months later and I’m still here, quietly wondering about him.

Anyway, I hope he’s single. That’s honestly the first plot twist I need Allah to clear up. 😭
I think what gets me the most is that it genuinely doesn’t feel lustful. Obviously I find him incredibly handsome, but that’s not even the part that has stayed with me. It’s more like I have this inexplicable feeling that I already know him somehow. Like there’s a familiarity there that makes no sense because I’ve never actually met or spoken to him. I don’t know anything about his life, yet I keep wondering about the person behind the face rather than just the face itself.

And I know realistically our paths probably aren’t going to cross. We have no obvious reason to meet, and I’m not expecting some movie-like coincidence to happen. But I still find myself wishing they would. Just once, I’d like to meet him properly and find out whether this strange feeling was completely in my head or whether there really was something about him that I somehow sensed from afar.

Accidentally deleted my last post 😭

I am 26 recently got done with my mbbs from one of the best universities in Pakistan. My step 1 is clear and I’ll take step 2 in sometime. Currently I’m doing house job and I’ve been in a thing with this guy from when I was 23. We have age gap of few years. We met at a family event. He’s great and I love him. No matter what I say ahead I love this man so much it hurts. It’s been 3 years since we are talking and there’s rarely been fights that lead to us thinking that we should call it all off. He comes from a great family, he’s wealthy and he joined his family business a couple of years back.

I have always wanted to do my specialisation at least from America and come back eventually to Pakistan because I want to serve my own people. I got into medschool at the age of 20 but I retook the examinations and restarted in another university just so I could easily clear Usmle. And it’s one of the best decisions of my life.

Recently, we started talking about doing stuff formally and get married. I have no rush of marrying but I’m not against it either. But his family wants him to get married because he’s the oldest son and he wants to get married because one of our topic of arguments is girls around him. Not many people know about our relationship so yea. So just as what a mature adult would do I bought up the conversation of me moving to USA. We have been talking about it for years and he has always been supportive of it. He inspired me to keep going, we didn’t even talk for weeks because I was buried in studying but now it just he felt a little reluctant. Our goal always was that we will get married, I’ll be living in USA and he will keep on living back and forth between Pakistan and US. His wealth and business allows him the freedom. It’s not possible for me to live 6 months in USA and 6 months in Pakistan. Because residency is full time. It’s not my OWN start up or generational wealth that no one will mind what I’m doing. It’ll take me at least 6 years full time In USA and he always knew this.

Now recently his mother told me that I should consider doing fcps. What for? And why? I spoke about it to him and he told me if the only reason you want to move to USA is because of earning better, you should consider staying in pakistan and he will provide that luxury lifestyle for us. He will give me the money and everything but money was never even a consideration. I could’ve stayed in Pakistan and lived off my brothers and dad too. But I wanted to broaden my horizons and have license in USA too. He always knew it idk why he thinks it’s up for discussion. I’ll get easily matched and I’ve already spent hell of money over this exam.

Even if I stay in Pakistan, I can’t be the perfect little trophy wife. I cant just play dress up all my life. And now that his parents want me to stay in Pakistan so my parents also think it’s perfect. I love his parents with all my life. They’re great people. They’ve always treated me like their own child. I love his siblings and his family and the last thing I would want is for him to be away from them. I’m not trying to snatch anyone’s son or brother. I’m just struggling to keep my ambition, my dreams and my man with me. And even if I stay in Pakistan I can’t be the perfect wife. It’s not possible for me because being a resident is hard and it takes long time.

He’s the first person i have ever been with. I never dated anyone before him. I don’t want to be with anyone else. Idk what to do and how to do. He didn’t tell me that you have to stay here in pakistan. He just told me to consider it but his mother was sooo confident about it.

I am 26 recently got done with my mbbs from one of the best universities in Pakistan. My step 1 is clear and I’ll take step 2 in sometime. Currently I’m doing house job and I’ve been in a thing with this guy from when I was 23. We have age gap of few years. We met at a family event. He’s great and I love him. No matter what I say ahead I love this man so much it hurts. It’s been 3 years since we are talking and there’s rarely been fights that lead to us thinking that we should call it all off. He comes from a great family, he’s wealthy and he joined his family business a couple of years back.

I have always wanted to do my specialisation at least from America and come back eventually to Pakistan because I want to serve my own people. I got into medschool at the age of 20 but I retook the examinations and restarted in another university just so I could easily clear Usmle. And it’s one of the best decisions of my life.

Recently, we started talking about doing stuff formally and get married. I have no rush of marrying but I’m not against it either. But his family wants him to get married because he’s the oldest son and he wants to get married because one of our topic of arguments is girls around him. Not many people know about our relationship so yea. So just as what a mature adult would do I bought up the conversation of me moving to USA. We have been talking about it for years and he has always been supportive of it. He inspired me to keep going, we didn’t even talk for weeks because I was buried in studying but now it just he felt a little reluctant. Our goal always was that we will get married, I’ll be living in USA and he will keep on living back and forth between Pakistan and US. His wealth and business allows him the freedom. It’s not possible for me to live 6 months in USA and 6 months in Pakistan. Because residency is full time. It’s not my OWN start up or generational wealth that no one will mind what I’m doing. It’ll take me at least 6 years full time In USA and he always knew this.

Now recently his mother told me that I should consider doing fcps. What for? And why? I spoke about it to him and he told me if the only reason you want to move to USA is because of earning better, you should consider staying in pakistan and he will provide that luxury lifestyle for us. He will give me the money and everything but money was never even a consideration. I could’ve stayed in Pakistan and lived off my brothers and dad too. But I wanted to broaden my horizons and have license in USA too. He always knew it idk why he thinks it’s up for discussion. I’ll get easily matched and I’ve already spent hell of money over this exam.

Even if I stay in Pakistan, I can’t be the perfect little trophy wife. I cant just play dress up all my life. And now that his parents want me to stay in Pakistan so my parents also think it’s perfect. I love his parents with all my life. They’re great people. They’ve always treated me like their own child. I love his siblings and his family and the last thing I would want is for him to be away from them. I’m not trying to snatch anyone’s son or brother. I’m just struggling to keep my ambition, my dreams and my man with me. And even if I stay in Pakistan I can’t be the perfect wife. It’s not possible for me because being a resident is hard and it takes long time.

He’s the first person i have ever been with. I never dated anyone before him. I don’t want to be with anyone else. Idk what to do and how to do. He didn’t tell me that you have to stay here in pakistan. He just told me to consider it but his mother was sooo confident about it.

I’m 19 and I’ll turn 20 this September. I’m taking the MDCAT this year, and hopefully I’ll get into a medical school—any medical school. But what’s been weighing on me constantly is the fact that I couldn’t get into my dream university.
The truth is, there isn’t another medical university in my city that excites me. Most of the available options feel mediocre to me. Ever since I was young, I’ve imagined myself studying at my dream university. It’s not just about prestige; I genuinely believe it would offer me opportunities, exposure, independence, and a kind of personal growth that I don’t think I’d find elsewhere.
Part of me wants to try one more time. But doing that would mean restarting my first year, which means I’d begin medical school at 21 instead of 20. That thought terrifies me. I’ll be older than most of my classmates, and I’ll probably graduate around the age of 25 or 26. I keep wondering—is that too late? Am I wasting time? Will everyone think I’m behind?
Then there are the other worries that never seem to stop. What will my relatives—especially my uncle—say? How will I convince my dad that restarting is the right decision? What if he doesn’t agree? I can’t even focus on preparing for the MDCAT because my mind keeps spiraling into thoughts about my future.
As a girl, the pressure feels even heavier. I worry about marriage, about finding someone who’s actually my type, about whether delaying medical school will affect my chances of pursuing residency in the USA, and whether I’m making a mistake that I’ll regret forever. Every possible scenario keeps running through my head until I’m overthinking the most irrational things.
I feel stuck between accepting what’s available now and risking another year for the place I’ve dreamed of my whole life. I don’t know which choice I’ll regret more, and that uncertainty is consuming me.

I’m 20 and currently in ziauddin. I’m in first year. The environment ain’t working out good for me. I’m having hard time adjusting but my studies aren’t too bad. It’s just I am not able to make a single friend and it just sucks to be me right now. The people there are not it.
I gave AKU test and if god wills, I’ll pass it but do you guys think It’ll be worth it?
I will have to restart entire first year and I will be 21 while starting uni. It literally is gnawing me rn because AKU has always been my dream university but I’m kind off in a dilemma.
also, to people who gave AKU interview test while being in another university, how did you guys do it? I mean were you honest to them during the interview about it?

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I’m going through one of the hardest phases of my life right now.
I was supposed to take the MCAT this year and finally get a chance to apply to my dream university. But the night before the test, my aunt passed away, and we had to leave for our village. Because of that, I missed the exam.
This was already my second gap year, and now I feel like my life is completely falling apart.
I’ll take the MCAT this year and, hopefully, get into a medical university. But the thought that it probably won’t be that particular university is eating me alive. It feels like someone has ripped my heart out. I can’t stop thinking about what could have been.
The biggest reason I’m so devastated isn’t just the university itself. I needed to leave my home. I come from a toxic family, and getting into that university meant living away from home and finally having the freedom to build my own life. Now it feels like I’ll be stuck here, and I honestly don’t know how much more I can take.
I’m constantly questioning everything. Should I get into any university this year and then try once more for my dream university? Would that be a terrible decision? Is graduating at 25 or 26 really that bad? I keep thinking about my career, finances, marriage, and my future, and it feels like my entire life has been turned upside down.
I know many people will say, “Just go to any university.” And I understand why. But for me, this isn’t only about the university’s reputation. It’s about escaping an environment that has been holding me back for years. I truly believed those few years away from home would help me break the cycle.
Right now, I feel completely lost. I don’t know what the right decision is anymore, and I’m on the verge of giving up. If anyone has been through something similar or has any genuine advice, I would really appreciate hearing it.
Even if I do get into that university next year idk what to tell people. My uncles and everyone and their kids will make fun of me and call me stupid for wasting so many years. And my dad probably won’t even let me switch. Please tell me what to do
Ive been sick ever since I missed the uni test and can’t stop anxiety attacks and gagging

I’m going through one of the hardest phases of my life right now.
I was supposed to take the MCAT this year and finally get a chance to apply to my dream university. But the night before the test, my aunt passed away, and we had to leave for our village. Because of that, I missed the exam.
This was already my second gap year, and now I feel like my life is completely falling apart.
I’ll take the MCAT this year and, hopefully, get into a medical university. But the thought that it probably won’t be that particular university is eating me alive. It feels like someone has ripped my heart out. I can’t stop thinking about what could have been.
The biggest reason I’m so devastated isn’t just the university itself. I needed to leave my home. I come from a toxic family, and getting into that university meant living away from home and finally having the freedom to build my own life. Now it feels like I’ll be stuck here, and I honestly don’t know how much more I can take.
I’m constantly questioning everything. Should I get into any university this year and then try once more for my dream university? Would that be a terrible decision? Is graduating at 25 or 26 really that bad? I keep thinking about my career, finances, marriage, and my future, and it feels like my entire life has been turned upside down.
I know many people will say, “Just go to any university.” And I understand why. But for me, this isn’t only about the university’s reputation. It’s about escaping an environment that has been holding me back for years. I truly believed those few years away from home would help me break the cycle.
Right now, I feel completely lost. I don’t know what the right decision is anymore, and I’m on the verge of giving up. If anyone has been through something similar or has any genuine advice, I would really appreciate hearing it.
Even if I do get into that university next year idk what to tell people. My uncles and everyone and their kids will make fun of me and call me stupid for wasting so many years. And my dad probably won’t even let me switch. Please tell me what to do
Ive been sick ever since I missed the uni test and can’t stop anxiety attacks and gagging

guys I’m sorry for the clickbait title but my cousin had her aku test tomorrow
Her dad isn’t ok, she won’t be able to take the test tomorrow.
She has already taken one attempt and if she skips the test tomorrow due to these valid reasons and email the university do you think her attempt will be safe?
She’s in a desperate condition right now and going through multiple panic attacks