Hi all, I'm going to be publishing a book soon and I'm looking for creative ideas using AI to create a buzz for the book. Any ideas regarding it?
Thanks in advance.
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I’m a woman in my 30s, and I’ve reached a point where I’m honestly not interested in chasing romantic relationships anymore.
I’m done with the uncertainty, the dating games, the emotional rollercoasters, and trying to convince someone to show up consistently. I don’t particularly want a husband or a boyfriend. What I do want is a person to share a life with.
So I’m wondering if there are other women who feel the same.
I’m imagining something like two friends becoming family, living together, sharing a home, splitting expenses, cooking together, travelling sometimes, watching movies on quiet evenings, taking care of each other when life gets difficult, and simply knowing that there is someone beside you.
No romance. No sexual expectations. No pressure to perform a relationship for society.
Just companionship, stability, affection, loyalty and the comfort of having someone who genuinely has your back.
I want a partner in the broadest sense of the word, someone who chooses to build a life alongside me.
I’m not looking for someone to rescue me, and I don’t want to rescue anyone either. I want two independent women who can support each other while still having their own lives, interests and friends.
Maybe we eventually rent or buy a place together. Maybe we create a beautiful little home, travel, adopt pets, have separate bedrooms and our own routines. Maybe we grow old together and become those two eccentric women everyone in the neighbourhood knows. 😂
I know this isn't the conventional idea of partnership, but honestly, conventional isn't particularly appealing to me anymore.
If you're a woman who has also wondered whether there could be another way to build a fulfilling life. I'd love to hear from you.
Looking for a life companion, not a romantic partner.
P.S. I request men to not DM me please, especially not pretending to be a woman🙏🏼
I am on a few dating apps, trying to find a guy I could spend my life with. But the problem I repeatedly face is a huge number of messages/requests but hardly anytime to go through each profile or talk to them all. I literally get thousands of matches a day. Is there a way I can solve this and find that one person? I find this so overwhelming that I have been single for a couple of years. Any ideas are welcome.
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I'm 35, based in India, and I thought I'd give Reddit a shot instead of another dating app.
A little about me:
Artist and writer.
I love bookstores, cafés, indie films, photography, psychology, and conversations that go beyond small talk.
I'm the kind of person who can spend an afternoon discussing why people become who they are, or disappear into a gallery for hours.
Ambitious, curious, and currently working on building a life that's creative, financially independent, and a little unconventional.
What I'm looking for: Someone between 27–37 who is emotionally mature, kind, financially stable, intellectually curious, and has their own ambitions. I'd rather talk to someone who reads, creates, travels, or is passionate about something than someone who's only interested in looks.
Also someone who's fluent in Hindi.
Looks matter to some extent, but chemistry, humour, emotional intelligence, and consistency matter far more.
Please be single, honest, and looking for a genuine connection. Long distance is okay if there's effort from both sides.
Tell me about yourself instead of just saying "hi." What's something you've been obsessed with lately?
Let's see where a good conversation takes us.
I have been dating someone with BPD and it's just been over a month. This man has broken up with me multiple times within this duration over what i feel is very trivial, like me bringing up how I feel. Or anything emotional. Suddenly, everything is about him and how he feels instead of the original issue I brought up. The rage is insane. He'd blame me, say I'm triggering him and that I'm not being accountable. I don't know what to say to that. Last week, I brought up me feeling anxious. I just wanted some reassurance from him, I was going through a lot. Lost my uncle. Memories of my mother's funeral. So many things happened and I just expected him to be there. And me saying I'm anxious somehow triggered him, and he kept saying I'm not being accountable. I didn't even understand what happened. Accountable for feeling something? For expressing it? I made sure to emphasize I'm not criticizing him or blaming him for how I feel. But it just got so bad that he said hurtful things to me, broke up with me and blocked me. This keeps happening so often. He'd calm down in a couple of days and come back and we resume being together.
But I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. If there's any way I can be a better partner to him. If he can trust me. I feel he hates me. How can he abandon me so easily? Can someone please help me understand all this? I want to be with him but he's making it so hard to do so.
He cannot afford therapy right now. So he's pretty much on his own.
Please help.
I have been dating someone with BPD and it's just been over a month. This man has broken up with me multiple times within this duration over what i feel is very trivial, like me bringing up how I feel. Or anything emotional. Suddenly, everything is about him and how he feels instead of the original issue I brought up. The rage is insane. He'd blame me, say I'm triggering him and that I'm not being accountable. I don't know what to say to that. Last week, I brought up me feeling anxious. I just wanted some reassurance from him, I was going through a lot. Lost my uncle. Memories of my mother's funeral. So many things happened and I just expected him to be there. And me saying I'm anxious somehow triggered him, and he kept saying I'm not being accountable. I didn't even understand what happened. Accountable for feeling something? For expressing it? I made sure to emphasize I'm not criticizing him or blaming him for how I feel. But it just got so bad that he said hurtful things to me, broke up with me and blocked me. This keeps happening so often. He'd calm down in a couple of days and come back and we resume being together.
But I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. If there's any way I can be a better partner to him. If he can trust me. I feel he hates me. How can he abandon me so easily? Can someone please help me understand all this? I want to be with him but he's making it so hard to do so.
He cannot afford therapy right now. So he's pretty much on his own.
Please help.