u/Silver_Test_1891

So im 26F . Lost 45 kgs ( 100 lbs ) naturally 10 years ago .
At my biggest , my weight was heavily distributed around my face . I had huge cheeks , non-existent jawline etc . When I lost the weight it took me less than a year of diet and exercise. So by the end of it i had alot of hairloss and my face was very yellow and I had an obvious double chin . Keep in mind i was 15 . I was so insecure about it .

At age 24 , it had mildly improved . But I finally decided to do something about it , so i did ulthera .
It got a little better but still not as shapely as I wanted .

So 18 months later , I got HIFU .

After doing these procedures , my face improved by maybe 30% .
I then read about how repetitive RF melts down your fat pad and could result in you looking worse over time .

Now im thinking about going 2 ways :

1/ Get chin lipo + renuvion to just aggressively get rid of the issue all at once

2/ Start getting softwave+ emface every 2 years

I also have about 10 more kg so I could reach my goal weight . So that might also change my jawline situation.

So anyone have a similar issue ? What did you do ? And what do you think is wiser ?

So I lost about 45 kg over a decade ago . Im 170 cm female ( 5”7 i think ) . Now i fluctuate between 74 to 78 kg . So my BMI averages around 27 which is slightly overweight . Anyways im planning on having multiple loose skin surgeries all over my body but am starting with my stomach . I naturally lose weight in my waist first and my thighs last so my abdomen region isnt that big but i still have fat . I have a B-shaped abdomen so I dont like how it looks without clothes but with clothes my waist looks small . About 70 cm . My concern is i want to lose 10 more kg to reach my ultimate goal weight . I strength train ,and watch what Im eating but have been mentally scared to lose those last kgs because im scared of getting worse . Also whenever im in a slight deficit I lose my hair and my period . You could say i traumatized my metabolism since I started losing weight from a young age . So my plan is to get the surgeries now , recover without and complications hopefully , then get back to the gym and start building some serious muscle to shape my body even more . Im willing to do anything it takes surgically so i could achieve the body I want . Lipo , loose skin removal , tightening devices .

My question is , will surgery at my stage be appropriate enough and get me good results ? Keeping in mind that i plan to get my first surgery done a little more than a month from now because thats the only available time in my life for a long time because Im going back to work .

سامعة عن د.سلمى الحمد ود.دانه بهبهاني ود.منيرة بن نخي . شرايكم فيهم ؟ وهل احد جرب دكاترة ثانين ؟ افضّل** دكتورة مو دكتو**ر .

قولو لي تجاربكم وتحارب ناس تعرفونهم بنات .

شلونكم بنات

ابي اتابع مع دكتورة جلدية شاطرة وعندها ضمير بالشغل عشان بشرتي . الحمدلله بشرتي مو سيئة بس ماعمري تابعت مع دكتورة دايماً** اروح عيادات حق تنظيف البشرة العادي وليزر إزالة الشعر . ابي دكتورة تعطيني خطة علاجية كاملة مفصلة حقي . مشاكلي الحالية مسامات واسعة ، حبوب صغيرة تحت الجلد وشوية آثار حبوب قديمة . يعني الوضع مو مأساوي بس ابي اصفي بشرتي اكثر وازيد النظارة . منو دكاترتكم وتنصحون بمنو ؟ اي صح وابي علاجات للتساقط انا على منوكسديل اساساً بس ابي ابر مثل PRP وهالسوا**لف .

Soo im a 26F that grew up assuming and liking the idea of having a bunch of kids . I would always buy baby dolls to play with , imagined having a loving husband and a big happy family etc . Then life hit me like a ton of bricks . I lost loved ones , suffered from mental conditions and health issues, was suicidal at one point . After that decade-long tornado , I decided im not having kids because i could never subject someone to this life . I made a list of reasons . I was like i want a partner that wants that as well . Recently , Ive been doubting that thought . You could call it my biological clock or some bs lol . But ive been thinking about getting married and popping out a bunch of kids . But now my criteria is finding the right partner .

Now im in doubt . I have a whole list of reasons NOT to have kids . I know the consequences. I know the 100 things that could go wrong . Ive been disillusioned. Yet I still have this part of me saying MAYBE I really will have a happy family .

How can i re-convince myself to not have kids lol

انا المفروض اني بعمر زواج بس الفكرة واقعياً تخوفني . يعني حتى لو كان شخص مافيه عيوب كبيرة مثل سوء اخلاق ، تعنيف ، امراض نفسية ، إدمان …. حتى لو كان طبيعي احس فكرة اني اعيش مع رجل ؟؟ فكرة غريبة . خصوصاً لو كان متوقع مني اطبخ وانفخ . احس راح امل . يعني الا اذا كان فعلاً مختارني وميّت علي صعب اعيش مع شخص لازم اتحمل اطباعه . شفت بنات بمجتمعي ذبلو وصارت حياتهم متمحورة حول فهم ازواجهم وكسب ازواجهم والتعامل مع الإهمال والقسوة وقلة تحمّل المسؤولية والبرووود . واخر شي يا انهم انفصلو او عايشين حياة كلها تنازلاااات .والله رعب رعب .

So ive been following and enjoying this subreddit for a while now .

Im 26F that had childhood obesity , my highest weight was 120 kg at age 14 then I lost it with changing my lifestyle and reached 74 kg as my lowest weight . Now i hover around 75 kg most years . Anyways Ive struggled with self esteem issues regarding my body since I pretty much have loose skin everywhere . The good thing is my figure is nice so i can get away with wearing certain styles that dont emphasize the looseness . I also strength train so that helps .

So I went to a plastic surgeon 2 years ago for a full assessment and told her I want everything done . She recommended a 2-phase surgery where :

Phase 1 - 360 lower body lift with FDL and back lipo + an arm lift

Phase 2 - Breast augmentation + thigh lift

Anyone have a similar journey ? I have so many questions . How to prep , post op pain , complications