u/Simple_Yoghurt_2681

So I have been talking to this girl for a while. We were kind of in a situationship and we’ve been on/off emotionally.

Recently she’ll say really sweet things to me (like calling me her favorite person, saying she misses me, etc.), which makes me feel like there’s still hope for us getting back together.

But at the same time, we’re not really together anymore, and her communication is pretty inconsistent. I don’t know if I’m reading too much into the nice moments or if I’m being kept emotionally attached without real intention.

How do you tell the difference between someone still caring vs unintentionally leading you on?

Any advice appreciated.

I thought I was sad being alone, and I was. But now, ever since you left, my life is in shambles. Every day is a blur, I feel so empty.

You broke up with me for no reason, saying that you were overwhelmed and shit, saying that you couldn't be in one.

But you had to be cruel, you keep me hooked like a fish. You tell me how you want to be with me in the future, how you miss and love me so much. But every time I ask to call, you never respond. Every time I text you, you leave me on read for hours and hours on end.

What do you want from me? Attention? Another option? I cant handle this anymore. I can barely sleep anymore, my heart constantly beats so hard, im under so much stress and heartbreak.

You never gave a shit, you just liked the novelty of it all, that was my first mistake, loving you.

I would do anything to erase you from my memory, and thats the hard thing, I stull cant fucking believe you did this, we were so happy together, i was willing to change my whole life for you, the nights I stayed up, hoping to chat, just for nothing to happen. How I flew across the country to see you. How I canceled doctor's appointments so I could see you during that time.

I fucking hate you so bad, I hope you fucking die in a goddamn car crash, I fucking hate you with all my heart. You never gave a fuck about me, its my bad for just realizing this.

I should block you, but im not strong enough, I can't, im hurting so fucking bad because I still have hope that we can be together. You were my everything, my best friend, my confidant, my girlfriend. Im starting to realize that you only wanted me, to just see what being in a relationship is like.

Yeah does he fuck with them tho? I get the feeling that he may like em lizard bitches fr🤑🤑🤑

I made a post in the past on r/lonely as my normal self, my post got under 3K views and most of the comments were demeaning me, calling me a loser who is an "incel" even though i shared none of that rhetoric.

However today I made the same exact post, worded slightly as if I were a woman and I got an extremely different response, all of the comments were supportive, in fact I got 10 comments and over 20dms within 5 minutes of posting.

Idk, its just upsetting that I finally realized that men are really that worthless

Its just so impossible, I cant even keep a guy talking for more than a month before he gets bored, I really just want to give up on dating as a whole, im worthless, I don't deserve anyone