should we use dead pronouns on people who think they "changed" themselves?

As a Christian, should we use their dead pronouns? Cause I feel like if we used the ones they want, that would reject what God has made him/her.

I mean I know we will get a lot of hate for using the "wrong" pronouns but It still feels wrong to use the correct pronouns. I've been so far just used the name and not used any pronouns at all.

So as a christian, how do we handle this?

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u/SkilletInMyHead — 7 days ago

Rate my new oc!

So, I created this oc, I would give you her full backstory, but since episode 9 from The Amazing Digital Circus isn't out. I will be keeping her backstory info private, since it involves leaks from the episode, which is in movie theaters for rn.

But I can say this, she is an AI like Caine.

Her name is Maya tho :>

feel free to let me know if I should change anything.

u/SkilletInMyHead — 24 days ago
▲ 580 r/NeuroSama

who is this turtle on the twitch homescreen for vedal's channel?

Is this supposed to be Camilla? I've been trying to figure this out lol if it was her or not or if it's an easter egg or if someone already asked about this lol

u/SkilletInMyHead — 27 days ago

As a Christian, what's the best way to handle this?/rant too

Hello! I need some advice on a situation I've been dealing with.

I used to be a moderator for a subreddit dedicated to a children's game. Things started going downhill when I began sharing my faith; the other mods were really upset and told me I shouldn't bring my religious beliefs into my moderation work. Later on, during a group conversation, I brought up the topic of Pride Month. I politely asked if we could avoid making it a huge focus on the subreddit for three reasons:

  1. The subreddit is for a kids' game.
  2. I knew it would cause unnecessary drama due to differing opinions.
  3. If they chose to promote it, I wouldn't be able to remain on the mod team because it goes against my biblical beliefs.

I had originally assumed some of the other mods were Christian, but I quickly found out that several of them are actually part of the LGBTQ+ community. After that conversation, the drama exploded. One of the mods created an alternate account to leak screenshots of our private mod chat, attempting to get me kicked off the team and banned from Reddit for being 'homophobic.' Reddit's admin team handled the alt account quickly and deactivated it, but this mod kept creating new ways to target me for a few days.

Once we figured out who was behind the leaks, the mod team decided to run a poll to see if she should get a strike. However, they also ran a poll on me for being 'homophobic.' I felt this was incredibly unfair, considering this mod created an alt account to harass me—which is technically ban evasion since her main account remained untouched while her alt was banned.

A few days later, they officially removed me from the mod team for the reasons mentioned above. I honestly didn't mind leaving, but they kept the mod who leaked the chats. They blamed me for the entire situation, claiming that if I hadn't been 'hateful,' none of this would have happened.

Weeks passed, and a friend of mine noticed that the subreddit updated its banner to celebrate Pride Month. My friend decided to make a post for users who don't celebrate Pride. The mods hated the post, but instead of handling it maturely by just removing it and moving on, they started arguing, debating, and harassing her in the comments. I stepped in and left a comment to try and defuse the argument, telling the mods (whom I previously considered friends) that they could have handled the situation much better.

In response, they permanently banned me from the subreddit, claiming that I was actually the owner of the alt account my friend used. They also muted me so I couldn't appeal or contact them. I didn't break a single rule; it feels like they just looked for an excuse to ban me because they disliked me.

What should I do? Should I just let it go? It has really been bothering me, and part of me wants to expose how unfair these moderators are. I do have some good news out of all this, though, which helps me understand why God put me in that position to begin with (I'll share that in the comments).

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u/SkilletInMyHead — 27 days ago

What would your oc do in Emily's fidget shop?

Hello! I just made a new OC named Emily. (Her info is on the first slide and the roleplay starter is on the second slide! 😊)

I'd love to see what kind of fidget toys your OC or avatar would own! If they want to buy a new one, just have your OC describe exactly what they are looking for, and Emily will bring it out for them! What kind of fidget do you think Emily would pick out as their very first one?

(Note: I might not respond right away, so please be patient with me! 💖)

u/SkilletInMyHead — 1 month ago

What is the motivation behind pride pins/armbands on avatars?

I figured it'd be good to ask here, since this subreddit is about roblox avatars. Lately, I’ve noticed a lot of people adding pride pins or armbands to their avatars on this sub, and I was genuinely curious about the reasoning behind it.

Aside from the obvious answer of self-expression, is there more to it? Sometimes I notice the colors don't quite match the avatar's overall aesthetic, which made me wonder about the choice to include them. I know June is coming up, but I've been seeing them a lot more frequently even before the month hits.

I also wondered—and I mean this respectfully—if some people add them just to troll or see how others react? I know that might not be the case for most people, but I figure there are always a few who do it for that reason. Or is it strictly a personal identity choice for the vast majority?

I know everyone has their own reasons, so I'd love to hear your perspectives! Why do you choose to include these details on your avatar?

Note: I mean other reasons other than self expression. I know most probs do it for self expression but I was curious if there was more to why people have these!

u/SkilletInMyHead — 1 month ago

I recreated the AI image of 49 years of fun, and made my own redesign of it with the avenger era!

I saw a post talking about this image and saw people hated it due to it being AI. So I created my own Verizon of this image so here is what the chuck e cheese post would of looked like if they were still in the avenger era! (

Credit to funtownfollies to for the avenger bella design. which you can find on instagram!

u/SkilletInMyHead — 2 months ago

If a moderator's secondary account is suspended, does their continued activity on a main account constitute a violation of Reddit's Content Policy regarding evasion?

Does a moderator’s site-wide suspension on an alt account create a liability for the subreddit they manage? I've found evidence of such a suspension and want to ensure our team is taking the proper steps to mitigate any risk of the community being banned for evading disciplinary actions due to the one person.

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u/SkilletInMyHead — 2 months ago

ask my young Lana and Lina questions! (From my lana lore au!)

Hey! So i've been working on an AU for a while. I don't have an official name for it yet! And I plan to make this au expand b letting people add their own ocs in it! of course this is fully my au. :) But to give you some simple info about young lana and lina.

Lana: She is a classic ambivert someone who can command a room but deeply values her solitude. This balance was forged in the halls of a rigid orphanage where she lived from the age of six. Under the stern, sometimes cold guidance of her caretakers, she was groomed for the fashion world. She pursued that dream all the way through college, fueled by their high expectations. However, life had other plans. After a string of failed modeling attempts, she discovered a different kind of artistry. Now, she channels her eye for fashion into her work as a nail tech, proving that success doesn't always look like a catwalk

Lina: Fifteen-year old Lina comes from a life of wealth, yet she has always felt like an outsider in her own family. An introvert by nature, she spent most of her childhood at the orphanage where her mother served as the head mistress. Lina was a fixture in the back row of the classroom, quietly observing and excelling in her studies—a habit that earned her a reputation as the "nerdy teacher’s pet."

When her parents pressured her into the glamorous world of modeling, Lina felt she had no choice but to comply. However, she secretly pivoted; instead of walking the runway, she secured a position as a backup nail technician. Desperate to maintain her parents' approval, she now lives a double life, keeping her true career a secret while they believe she is pursuing the spotlight

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You will be asking questions to young lina and lana! So they are not nail techs yet. right now. or if you want to know more about the au! feel free to ask me the creator 😄

u/SkilletInMyHead — 2 months ago

Wish Umoyae a goodbye! As she will be leaving the dti team.

Hey guys! wish Umoyae a goodbye, as she will be leaving the DTI team. <3 so wish her a goodbye in the comments! Or feel free to make posts and making outfits for her! It's up to you on how you want to wish her a goodbye!

u/SkilletInMyHead — 2 months ago

How would you style this theme?

I saw this theme and was so confused about it without looking at the desc, I'm guessing they did this due to roblox filter? but how would you style this theme if you didn't know the description for it

u/SkilletInMyHead — 2 months ago

anything i could change about it or any different hair/hats? (I will not change the shirt tho since I want it to be like that)

u/SkilletInMyHead — 2 months ago

Dress to impress has got 1M on youtube! Go congrats them in the comments or on any of their social media!

words from the official DTI team - "truly, thank you to all our baddies for supporting us and our videos 💕 you all mean the world to us - here's to many more buttons! 🛍️"

u/SkilletInMyHead — 2 months ago