u/SkyQuinny

I want to get over my crush. We were never in a relationship, and we weren’t even close friends, but I constantly think about him. It’s affecting my studies, and I can’t focus on anything else. How can I move on?

Hello, I am someone who is struggling a in GRE quant and I am thinking to give my GRE in next one and half month. I have joined an offline coaching but it's of no good still I don't feel confidence while solving question. My basics are weak….and math has never been natural to me. I want your suggestions on this…

AND is GRE in one and half month a doable thing ?

Thank you.

I was very excited about the idea of note taking on my iPad but when I actually tried
It was nota good experience…

what are your thoughts on digital notetaking as compared to traditional ones.

He’s not in college anymore, and we both don’t text that much… it’s usually only me who texts, and that too is study-related. I’m confused about whether I should text him or not. I really want our conversations to be more than just study-related…

I am so confused bout wishing him on his bday…

We both don’t text that much… it’s only me who texts and that too is study related… I am confused about should I text him or not…
I really want our convo to be more than study…

Have you ever had a crush where nothing actually happened, but it still kind of stayed in your head for a long time?

Like there were moments eye contact, small conversations, maybe a bit of awkwardness or awareness between you two but it never really turned into anything, and now it’s just… unresolved in your mind.

Is this something most people experience at some point, or do you usually just move on from things like that pretty quickly?

From a guy’s perspective, what usually separates normal friendliness from unspoken mutual attraction?

Roughly a year ago I got a crush on a guy from my college. We never dated or had a proper relationship, but over time there were repeated eye contacts, smiling whenever we crossed paths, some teasing or kinda joking during events, and phases where we awkwardly ignored each other and then became normal again.

Most of our chats were education-based, but in person he was usually more talkative with me when his friend group wasn’t around. The thing is, he also freely talked with my other friends, but with me I always felt a sort of awkwardness that I couldn’t fully understand.

Recently after I congratulated him on an achievement, he responded warmly and started interacting normally again. He has graduated now, so nothing really happened between us.

I’m mainly curious how guys usually interpret dynamics like this.

There was a guy…We never dated or had a proper relationship, but over months there were repeated eye contacts, smiling when we crossed paths, occasional teasing/joking during events, and some moments where we both became very aware of each other’s presence.

Sometimes he would talk more openly when we met alone, and there was a bit of playful interaction. But most of our communication was still situational/academic, and he never really initiated anything outside that consistently.

Now I’m confused:
Does this sound like mutual attraction that never developed into anything because neither of us acted on it?
Or is this just normal friendly behavior and I overread it because I liked him?
Would appreciate honest answers from a guy’s perspective.

There was this senior in my college. We never dated and we never even talked consistently, but over months there was this strange mutual awareness between us. We kept having eye contacts all the time, smiling whenever we crossed paths, teasing/jokey interactions during events, awkward phases where we ignored each other and then smiled again later like nothing happened.

But at the same time, he never really strongly pursued anything either. Most of our messages were academic and I was usually the one initiating.
Now I genuinely can’t tell if there was actually some mutual attraction there or if he was just a socially nice/helpful person and I ended up feeling too deeply.

People who’ve experienced almost-connections like this… what does this sound like to you? 😭

There was this senior in my college. We never dated and we never even talked consistently, but over months there was this strange mutual awareness between us. We kept having eye contacts all the time, smiling whenever we crossed paths, teasing/jokey interactions during events, awkward phases where we ignored each other and then smiled again later like nothing happened.

But at the same time, he never really strongly pursued anything either. Most of our messages were academic and I was usually the one initiating.
Now I genuinely can’t tell if there was actually some mutual attraction there or if he was just a socially nice/helpful person and I ended up feeling too deeply.

People who’ve experienced almost-connections like this… what does this sound like to you? 😭

Soooo....I have crush a this guy and it’s been a year now….he has already graduated,and we don’t really talk anymore except occasional academic messages (notes or help related stuff). We never had a proper relationship, but there was a subtle connection and mutual awareness.....

His birthday is coming up, and I’m wondering if wishing him would be okay or it would feel like I am one holding things...

I have never wished him or talked to him outside studies but I want to extend the connection... Will he feel weird ( dont know how guys feel )

I still have feeling for him and cant help...😭

Soooo....he has already graduated, and we don’t really talk anymore except occasional academic messages (notes or help related stuff). We never had a proper relationship, but there was a subtle connection and mutual awareness.....

His birthday is coming up, and I’m wondering if wishing him would be okay or it would feel like I am one holding things...

I have never wished him or talked to him outside studies but I want to extend the connection... Will he feel weird ( dont know how guys feel )

I still have feeling for him and cant help...😭