My watch is over
I checked my LO into a group home back in March, so I guess my watch was technically over at that time. Today however she has passed on.
I just can't believe how quickly it all went. Back in March she was very talkative and had a great appetite. She took a fall in mid March and broke her pelvis. Was in the hospital for about a week and then spent 20 days in rehab. After rehab she was still pretty talkative. I visited a few times in April and May and always assumed she had years left in her.
Then last week I get a text from her nurse saying the oxygen is now at 75%. They put her on an O2 machine to keep it above 90%. I visited her yesterday and she was pretty out of it, but still moving around and what not.
Then today I get a call that her fingertips had turned black and blue, which is a sign that it's getting close. She passed while I was driving there. Crazy thing is that I checked my dad into his own group home yesterday. Can't believe the timing of all this.
There's a lot of sadness now, but I also know it was her time and that she would not have wanted to be living the way she was. Fortunately she did not have long periods of pain. There was no horrible suffering or dehydration. She died late stage 6, early stage 7. She never forgot about me or my dad. We visited her last week and after we left she actually told the caregiver that she was happy to see both of us.