u/Someoneiguess2483

Mes vêtements ne déteignent pas, alors j'ai voulu faire une machine comme d'habitude en mélangeant le blanc avec le reste, en oubliant que j'ai acheté un nouveau vêtement vert foncé.

En sortant ma lessive, les vêtements blancs (coton et/ou lin) étaient jaune à cause du vert (coton).

J'ai essayé de faire tremper toute la nuit dans du perbarbonate puis 1 premiere machine, sans lessive, juste avec du percarbonate (2 cuilleres dans le tambour) à 40°.

Ça a aider un peu mais les vêtements sont toujours jaune.

Quelqu'un a déjà réussis à rendre les vêtements blanc à nouveau svp ? Devrais je faire une lessive avec savon + refaire tremper dans du perbarbonate ?

Je prends n'importe quelle astuce à ce stade svp

It’s simple. I’ve been practicing Stoicism for years. I’ve managed to cultivate a calm, automatic mindset, a way of reflecting on situations through a Stoic lens. When something bad happens, I ask myself: "Can I change anything?" If so, I act. If not, there’s nothing I can do; it’s out of my hands, so I stop thinking about it. I’m very good at that part.

But it seems to me we also have to accept that we’ll run into idiots, and that those moments (where the day gets spoiled) shouldn't really matter, because only I decided if they have power/impact over my life. That’s a simplification, of course. But there it is. That’s the part I struggle with.

Here’s the situation I encountered today: I saw a cat on the street. I tried to pet it; it was willing, so I did. Later, a car started up, scaring the cat away. That didn't bother me, I’d expected it, and I’d already given it plenty of cuddles. The driver even gave me an apologetic wave! But since the cat hadn't gone far, I went over to see if it wanted more attention. I was able to pet it again, and it even walked alongside me down the street. It stopped near a doorway; I suspected that was its home. The (garden) gate opened, and two teenagers came out. I looked at the cat, waiting to see if it wanted more petting. I petted it once more, then it walked a little further with me three steps, max before a guy called out to me. He asked if I knew whose cat it was (it didn't have a collar). I said no. He said it was his. I just said, "Oh, okay." And he looked at me again. He said, "So, you're not taking him, right?" I said no, that I was just petting him (I certainly wasn't going to steal that cat; besides, I’ve seen him around the neighborhood before it’s not the first time I’ve petted him). But he insisted that I shouldn't "steal" him, and he clearly stared me down until I left. As I was leaving, he laughed about me with his buddy, making a comment about my appearance as if I were disgusting. And that was it.

Now, that’s all I can think about, the accusation of stealing and that insult, even though I’ve had a thousand times more pleasant interactions with cats than with this human. And it was 15min petting vs 2min talking. And the insult ? I’d even been out with a friend earlier who had complimented my outfit. But now, whenever I think of the cat, I think of the insult. And it was just one sec turning bad a long petting session ! And the nice guys that apologied ! I know I’m the one giving it weight. I know it’s nothing. But I just can’t seem to apply Stoicism here.

My thoughts keep circling back to it, even though rationally I know better. Any thoughts? Experiences? Advice?

(I'm a girl, if that matter. Maybe they wouldn't have insulted me if I was a guy- just because they would thought about consequences, maybe ? They just had the confidence being 2 and being "better" so they can insult me (it was not said to me but him to his friend, but if was loud so I heard it))

I really love this sub, I just wanted to share my appreciation

I litteraly just have to search two words in this sub and - tons of fics served with trope explained ! Fics that I would never find on my own !

You, people that comment, are doing God's work. Thank you so much

You are incredible <3

Peu importe le métier, dès qu'il est en cabinet et en entreprise, j'ai l'impression que sans aide pour aller dans un cabinet, c'est impossible.

J'ai fait de l'alternance pour ma licence. Dans une entreprise (je n'ai pas trouvé en cabinet)

Pour mon master, j'ai a nouveau trouvé qu'en entreprise. Les cabinets voulaient déjà de l'expérience alors que j'étais dans une très grande entreprise. Je ne sais pas quoi faire.

En sortie de 2e alternance je serais obligé d'aller en cabinet si je veux continuer mes études (doctorat). Mais qui prendra quelqu'un qui a de l'expérience qu'en entreprise après le master ? Pour un poste junior qui s'affirme ouvert aux nouveaux mais qui ne l'est jamais ? Sans compter les juniors expérimentés de 2 ou 3 ans minimum...

Ceux qui ont réussit le miracle d'arriver en cabinet, comment avez vous fait (pitié ne me dites pas du piston). Sachant que je suis dans une petite ville qui n'a pas xxx cabinets non plus

Je cherche en comptabilité. Normalement je devrais valider mon DCG cette année (j'attends les résultats) et poursuivre en DSCG. J'aimerai avoir le DEC, c'est pour ça que j'essaye de trouver en cabinet, mais bon...

Avant je gardais la même toute la journée avec un petit flux, sinon quand je rentrais chez moi le midi je pouvais la changer.

Mais maintenant je commence un nouveau taf et je ne rentrerais pas le midi.

Je pensais porter le matin Culotte de regle + serviettes hygiéniques jetables, et le midi enlever juste la serviette jetable et garder juste la Culotte de regle.

Mais avec la canicule je me demande si ça va etre supportable.

Comment faites vous svp ? Des conseils ?

Hi,

Do you have "niche" fics where everything is good and nothing Hurt (or just a little, with confort?)

I will start a new job, so please I need a long, at least around 100k words, Fic, otherwise I will cry😭

I'm sure I have read the "most obvious" in this kind (I have 500+ fics read, so I'm searching fics with just a few tags or just not popular ?)

Please I just want domestic feeling, fluff, (established ?), explicit, completed, and if possible, NO dom Will graham (ok with dom hannibal), they can switch but I love when Hannibal takes care of Will :3

Please share your favourites!

Thank you <3

Hi,

I'm looking for fic with season 4 AU, where Hannibal is captured and go back to prison, and Will help him to escape.

One of my favourite fic is the sacrificial lamb so I'm searching fic like this.

(Completed, and If possible, mature or explicit ? And 30k+ words? )

Even if it's not season 4 AU, just Will breaking free Hannibal 🥹

Thanks :3

(Pls tell me if the flair is not correct)

Hi,

I'm learing rusian and I use anki to learn vocabulary (from my class). In September, I was motivated and I wrote in Excel all the vocabulary in my langage, then I used Copy paste to google trad, put in in another colon, verify it and export in Anki, so I didn't have to wrote with cyrilic, because it's very long to me.

But with everything, I didn't had time to use this method anymore, strating to be bad in class because of that, but just the process of making the cards stopped me to use Anki.

What do you use to create cards in another alphabet without time pls ?

Bonjour,

Je suis actuellement en dernière année de licence, DCG (niveau assistant comptable), et j'attends mes résultats mi-juillet pour savoir si je suis diplômée. Après ça, je veux continuer en DSCG, en alternance (niveau comptable)

J'en ai enfin trouvé une (youpi !) avec promesse d'embauche, dès septembre (si validation de mon diplôme, et franchement je suis pas sûre de l'avoir). On me propose aussi un CDD de 2 mois cet été.

Durant l'entretien, nous avons parlé rémunération, et la convention collective paie les alternants légérement plus que le minimum légal. On m'a aussi parlé d'intéressements, participations etc.

Par contre, nous n'avons pas parlé du salaire du CDD. J'ai reçu ma promesse d'embauche, et ils proposent le SMIC, pour un poste de comptable.

J'ai déjà 2 ans d'alternance derrière moi, travaillant aussi sur des agences etc, donc le travail sera sûrement similaire. Par contre, j'ai travaillé en tant qu'assistante comptable, et là, on me propose un titre de comptable en CDD. Pour être honnête, je vais signer vu que j'ai trop besoin de l'alternance ensuite, mais avant, pensez vous que je puisse négocier le salaire du CDD ?

Je peux présenter mon expérience et ma capacité de m'adapter etc, mais avez vous des conseils pour négocier ? Ou il vaut mieux accepter le SMIC, avec le marché du travail actuel, ne rien négocier avant l'alternance (j'ai aussi une promesse d'embauche à signer pour elle) ? Il est marqué accord de participation et d'intéressement, mais comment ça se passe pour un CDD ? Pour 2 mois, la prime de fin de CDD devrait être aux alentours de 300 non ?

Je précise aussi que je suis au chômage à 900€ actuellement, c'est pour ça qu'entre passer mon été tranquille et aller à 1h de chez moi pendant tout l'été pour le SMIC, c'est pas mon dada... Si je pouvais négocier 1800 net, ce serait incroyable, mais j'ai bien conscience du marché actuel...

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J'ai une forte poitrine, et je ne mets que des hauts "classiques", style t shirt, chemises, top basics, bref, on ne voit pas mon soutif.

Mais j'aimerai tester les hauts porte feuille, ou des tops à dos nu. Sauf que probleme : la poitrine.

Je ne peux pas ne rien porter, je n'aime pas, et franchement ça me fait mal assez rapidement. J'ai des soutifs, et parfois je me tape (uniquement chez moi).

Je trouve le tape genial, par contre ça me donne une poitrine assez "moche", comme elle est imposante, faut généralement beaucoup de straps et le sein aplatit n'est pas "lisse".

Je me dis que pour un haut porte feuille où on a un grand décolté, je peux mettre du tape, mais comment rendre la potrine jolie, tout en la maintenant bien ? Vous avez des conseils comment la tape ?

Pour les dos nus, pareil, est ce que quelqu'un avec une forte poitrine à ses astuces svp ??

Hannibal seems seing beauty in a particulary way (of course), from the esthetic itself more than the art alone.

Thinking about art and beauty, my thoughts went to Oscar Wilde. From The Portrait Of Dorian Gray, he says that we like art not only for a classic beauty, but by being chocked by it. We react to art because we are touched by it, not only because it's pleasant - gore can be art, even if you're disgusted, you react from it.

That's a particularly vision, and if you have read the book, or know Oscar Wilde, I hope you can see what I'm trying to explain.

I think his vision of art and Hannibal's vision can be quite similar, even if most of the time we only perceive Hannibal creation with something "beautiful". Yes, it's pleasant. But it's art because we react to it, more that from beauty itself, which can came from our research for perfection ?

(Sorry for my bad English. I'm pretty sure some "s" are missing. I tried lol)

All in the title ^^

I live in France, there is no Costo, and in Aldi the salmon frozen have a mention "do not eat raw" so... (And I'm in a small city, very not near Paris !)

If someone is in France too, where do you buy your salmon pls ?

Hi, I wanted to share my experience by studying alone to complete my first diploma after high school !

Honestly, I'm not completely honest, I will pass my exams next week, and have my results in July. But I'm so tired I wanted to share my experience to not feel this alone anymore.

I always was an high achiever, and during high school I learned how to learn, so I'm okay with how I know I memorize thing, I already knew how I could teach myself, wich helped a lot.

Second point, I can pass my diploma as external candidate. This licence was made in 3 years. Years 1 and 2, I was in an online school, and I worked half of the week. Year 3 ? Alone. Having a job was a must to be accepted to school, and I have to move end of year 2, and didn't find a new job in my new city : couldn't be at the school anymore !

But. It was online school. I was motivated because I could have access to professor, and I had a call with a referent every 2 weeks. I thought that I could complete the year 3 alone, since it was the same but this : me, alone at my desk, learning.

Year 1, I received manual for ALL the diploma, year 3 too. The bonus on online school was videos, live, being able to ask to a professor. But year 1, I didn't watch any videos, I just took the manual, learned it, and it went good. Year 2 ? Watched the video, tried to do more exercices, and it was worst. I even have to retake one of the exam.

So. How to learn for year 3 ? Since high school, I learn with anki. The goal was here : use the manual (I have a visual memory, and I despite watching videos because I can't concentrate), turn it into flash cards, and near the exam : exercices.

From September to January, I took note from the manual to my way to think : it was an etap before making flash cards because in year 2, at the end I just made flash card without decomposing it in my worlds before. I didn't understood shit. Flash card ? To remember. Not to learn. You have to understand the subject, then put in a flash card what the least that you can to remember it.

So, I took notes. I like to be direct, for me infos should be : context -> what need to be done -> how it will be. Something like that. Cutting all the bigs infos into small steps.

Then, from january to march : making flash cards + seeing everything a second time

Also, I have a good number memory, I tend to remember number before world, so I made card using this : it was not "How can I do X ?", it use "What are the 3 steps to do X?"

You have to learn how you remember things !!

Also, I tend to remember more when I write down : doing anki, I write the answer before revelating it. To learn, I try to copy it 3 times : one time to learn, one time where I watch when I'm not sure but using my memory, one time where I try doing it alone. It force me to not passive read it, but wanting to impregnate my brain with it.

And the last step : learning anki and doing exercice. From April to may (exam in May/ June).

It's tiring doing anki. That's why I'm frustrated now, I just want this year to end, and to pass.

The most tiring thing was being alone. I don't have friends in my major : in online school, it's not easy... My major is seen like a boring one (accounting) by reputation. But it's more than that (I don't even have an accounting exam this year, it's just finance and law things). So, my friends don't really like when I try to talk about school. It's okay, but I want to return to a real school to not have this gap anymore, making new friends in my major.

Having to wake up everymoring knowing no one will know how much effort you put. I didn't took a lot of rest day, it was more 1 week when I wanted to give up, then return to my desk because I didn't wanted to do one more year. Also, I live by myself : I was isolated. Going out to go grocery shopping and seeing friends when they were free. Otherwise ? Me. With my desk.

Also, you have to teach yourself. That's really tiring. Having someone explaining it to you, choosing how you should approach the thing... it's a lot !

The good point is : I made my planning myself. I prefer studying on night, when it's calm. So... I study from 6pm to 6am. Sleep during the day. No one can stop me, lol. I signed up to language class, (not online) to force myself to do something else. I have a lot of free time. I started doing more workout. When I'm overwhelmed, I just stop it for a week.

It's because it's my last year. Could I do this for year 1 ? I don't think so. First month are easy. But from September to June? Motivating yourself ?

Actually, I'm happy of this sub, and the study community online. When I saw everyone trying their best, I want to do it too. When I don't feel like it, I read a few post from here, then go to my desk.

If someone is like me, go for it !! Don't quit !! We can do it :)

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How can I change the second "1" to a "2", when I have used periods between ? Can we change it manually ?