Moving to Liberia soon - is there a social group chat I can join.

Hey,

I got a new job in Liberia - I am originally from the UK and spent a year in Sierra Leone. Just got a new role that will place me in Liberia. Looking for a group chat for social events and activities within the Monrovia.

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u/SpecialistPause2763 — 13 days ago

How would I mend these NB shoes

I have had them for about three years. I’m someone who, when I buy a pair of shoes, wears them religiously. However, I generally like the look of them, and they have been good for travelling. I’ve been backpacking for the past 11 weeks and they have done the job, so I don’t want to bin them when it’s just a few holes.

Would really appreciate any advice!

u/SpecialistPause2763 — 1 month ago

Case and screen protector recommendations that ship to the UK or EU?

Hey, I’ve been a long-time scroller and have finally taken the plunge after getting a gift card for switching phone providers. I’ve just bought an X3!

I’m now looking for a black case and a screen protector. I’d also like to attach it to my iPhone, as that’s where it’ll mainly live, so I’d really appreciate any recommendations for doing that too.

I don’t mind ordering from AliExpress, as Amazon UK has very limited options. Any advice or recommendations would be much appreciated!

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u/SpecialistPause2763 — 3 months ago
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It’s Eating Me Alive She Changed Her Mind in 12 Hours and Broke Up with Me

We broke up a month ago because I wasn’t as present as I should have been, and she felt I wasn’t really there for her. It was a valid reason, and she was kind enough to give us another chance after a week apart. We agreed to spend a month trying again.

Things were going well. We still had little disagreements about the small things but we had always done that, but I was showing her my love and putting in the effort. Three days before she said to me, “You know my answer,” we were planning trips and talking about our future together. I genuinely thought, “We’ve done it.” We kept having minor disagreements. She would wake up in a bad mood, and I would annoy her with little things that were getting on her nerves. Twenty-four hours before the break-up, she was still saying, “You know we’re going to be okay and move forward.” We were supposed to have dinner and discuss our future together.

At 2 a.m. on the day we broke up for 2nd time. I ate some chocolate and accidentally woke her up. That was it - the final straw. It wasn’t really about the chocolate, of course. It was the fact that she felt exhausted, and from the Wednesday onwards we’d been having petty arguments. I said sorry I forgot you were there - I think I was in my own world not able to sleep anxious about the talk - she was heartbroken she felt invisible. She went back to sleep and then broke up with me about nine hours later. I woke up early made her breakfast and bought her flowers to apologise. We never even had the dinner, and now it’s over.

I can’t stop crying. I feel numb. It hit me like a flashbang. She said I had tried my best and was sorry, but she couldn’t see her future being filled with these constant little disagreements. She was exhausted by me, and I understand why. After I moved country, my mental health suffered and I became distracted instead of being present.

I also became fed up with how mean she could be at times and how quickly her mood could change. She hated my new job because it brought uncertainty, and she felt they didn’t respect me - they didn’t. I was too scared to stand up to them because I was afraid of losing both my job and her.

Now it’s over.

I suggested that we have two months of no contact and then see where we are, almost as a reset, to see if there’s any chance for us in the future. She unfollowed me on Instagram after viewing my story this weekend, and that just made me cry even more. She doesn’t even want to see each other she wants it to be text - I think I know the answer and make soo sad.

I love her, and I’m heartbroken that she fell out of love with me. She was just exhausted and fed up feeling that way. She would switch and change her mood. If you are read this - you know who you are. I am sorry.

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u/SpecialistPause2763 — 4 months ago

It’s Eating Me Alive That She Changed Her Mind 12 Hours Later and Broke Up with Me Again

We broke up a month ago because I wasn’t as present as I should have been, and she felt I wasn’t really there for her. It was a valid reason, and she was kind enough to give us another chance after a week apart. We agreed to spend a month trying again.

Things were going well. We still had little disagreements about the small things but we had always done that, but I was showing her my love and putting in the effort. Three days before she said to me, “You know my answer,” we were planning trips and talking about our future together. I genuinely thought, “We’ve done it.” We kept having minor disagreements. She would wake up in a bad mood, and I would annoy her with little things that were getting on her nerves. Twenty-four hours before the break-up, she was still saying, “You know we’re going to be okay and move forward.” We were supposed to have dinner and discuss our future together.

At 2 a.m. on the day we broke up for 2nd time. I ate some chocolate and accidentally woke her up. That was it - the final straw. It wasn’t really about the chocolate, of course. It was the fact that she felt exhausted, and from the Wednesday onwards we’d been having petty arguments. I said sorry I forgot you were there - I think I was in my own world not able to sleep anxious about the talk - she was heartbroken she felt invisible. She went back to sleep and then broke up with me about nine hours later. I woke up early made her breakfast and bought her flowers to apologise. We never even had the dinner, and now it’s over.

I can’t stop crying. I feel numb. It hit me like a flashbang. She said I had tried my best and was sorry, but she couldn’t see her future being filled with these constant little disagreements. She was exhausted by me, and I understand why. After I moved country, my mental health suffered and I became distracted instead of being present.

I also became fed up with how mean she could be at times and how quickly her mood could change. She hated my new job because it brought uncertainty, and she felt they didn’t respect me - they didn’t. I was too scared to stand up to them because I was afraid of losing both my job and her.

Now it’s over.

I suggested that we have two months of no contact and then see where we are, almost as a reset, to see if there’s any chance for us in the future. She unfollowed me on Instagram after viewing my story this weekend, and that just made me cry even more. She doesn’t even want to see each other she wants it to be text - I think I know the answer and make soo sad.

I love her, and I’m heartbroken that she fell out of love with me. She was just exhausted and fed up feeling that way. She would switch and change her mood. If you are read this - you know who you are. I am sorry.

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u/SpecialistPause2763 — 4 months ago