Image 1 — Which set-up for my fall rustic cottage themed dinner?
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Which set-up for my fall rustic cottage themed dinner?

I'm hosting a dinner party at my house in mid-september. My theme is centered around a rustic fall cottage feel.

I'm not sure which tablescape to go with. I have included in the pictures the food I will serve except for the dessert.

The first photo I took tonight, but I used AI to help make the other photos so I could visualize what I can do as I don't have the centerpiece items. So, you will see a few differences between the pictures. I don't want it to look as plain as what I have in my first photo. I want it too look more intentionally styled and cohesive. But, I am limited as it is a square table and the food will be on the table for a family style meal.

Thoughts or suggestions?

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I have no background in art. Zip-zero-nada, but id like to learn how to create art pieces. I thought oil pastels would be a medium id be interested in learning. I looked locally and there are no live classes that teach oil pastels. So, I am wondering if anyone has any reccomendations for youtube videos, online courses, etc.

I am looking for something that will teach me techniques and provide prompts to use to practice. I'm not interested in copy me videos, like Bob Ross. I want to learn how to create my own pieces. Bring what I am seeing and imagining to life.

Theres just so much out there and I feel overwhelmed. Id love some better direction on who to actually use.

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u/Spiritual_Size_9997 — 3 months ago

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Now before I swing I find 3 practice swings is what I need before I feel confident or ready to swing on all shots except for short chips and putts.

First swing feels okay, 2nd swing I always hit the ground, 3rd swing I correct and feel better, then I hit the ball. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable and have to readjust my set-up. But I’m worried I am not practicing good golf etiquette and upset the people I golf with. I do a good job of keeping the ball moving forward and trying to keep the pace of play. If I can’t find my ball I usually just drop so as not to hold up the pace of play.

Now if there are people waiting on me and my group to hit I try to only do 1 or 2 swings.

Nobody has ever said anything to me or made passive aggressive comments or sounds, but I worry.

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u/Spiritual_Size_9997 — 3 months ago

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I only walk as it is cheaper, so I am wanting to get some more comfortable golf shoes as I feel like I am walking on cardboard now.

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u/Spiritual_Size_9997 — 3 months ago

Appropriate Guest Dress for a Formal Summer Wedding?

My post got booted over hear by the automatic moderator, so my apologies as this is not about a wedding dress.

I've been invited to a wedding in June with a formal dress code. This is my first wedding with this dress code and I don't want to go out and buy a new dress. Would this dress of mine work? I just don't know if it is nice enough.

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u/Spiritual_Size_9997 — 3 months ago

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u/Spiritual_Size_9997 — 3 months ago

I currently work in an operations role at a commercial bank, basically I service loans after they've been brought on and make sure they are in compliance in regards to their covenants. I am thinking about my future and what direction I want to take my career. I have 2 options I am thinking about: underwriring and compliance.

I know how to break into underwriting and have that oppurtunity approved in my department, but I'm not sure how to do that with compliance. Any reccomendations? The reason I am considering comppliance is because I feel it is more AI safe

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