u/StableDisastrous1331

Needing whatever the next level is, above a therapist..

Wondering if you guys can point me in the right direction, I don't even really know what to search for.

Wife and I are extremely toxic.

We both have our issues (I'll say that, she never will... Which IMO is an issue lol).

Neither of us want a divorce but neither is happy at all. We barely speak, and when we do it's 'score keeping' and a ton of tit-for-tat type back and forth. Never ever any productive or mature conversation.

Anyhow we tried two different couples therapist. One flaked out after about 8 visits. The other decided it is not productive and he'd rather not work with us.

Very scary that even the professionals are avoiding us :(

He said we don't need a therapist we need a referee. Says there is deep rooted resentment and trauma, piled on top of unresolved childhood traumas

So my question, is there like a next level? I feel like we need a mediator of sorts. We literally can't have a conversation that is productive, every one of them gets tossed all around with different blame games and other childish antics.

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u/StableDisastrous1331 — 18 hours ago

Who works on Harleys?

Motorcycle repair services?

With the downfall of Reggie Pinks (twice), New Rock, and now Empire Harley... Is there anyone local you guys are trusting to do your work?

I've heard of a place named prestige in elmsford I think?

Hoping I don't need to leave my bike in Newburgh whenever it needs something done :(

Not meaning regular maintenance most can do at home, I mean more involved work. Especially fairing work on these new glides lol

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u/StableDisastrous1331 — 4 days ago

How do you feel about lottery apartments?

I was living in White Plains for a while in one of those luxury high rises... It was just about $3k per month for a studio!

Half the building was empty, and it seemed like most of the tenants I spoke to were lottery picked

It really made me feel like a dumbass for paying full price, for something that everyone around me is getting for a 1/3 of that

I'm glad they have a way to help people in need, but I wish there was a way to confirm they're actually in need. Not one, but ALL of my friends I made there were gaming the system in one way or another.

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u/StableDisastrous1331 — 4 days ago

Playing vids

Hey all I remember hearing somewhere that there's a way to play music vids, or I guess YouTube on my traverse RS screen

May I have some info I can look up, thanks

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u/StableDisastrous1331 — 7 days ago

Motorcycle repair services?

With the downfall of Reggie Pinks, New Rock, and now Empire Harley... Is there anyone local you guys are trusting to do your work?

Hoping I don't need to leave my bike in Newburgh whenever it needs something done :(

Not meaning regular maintenance most can do at home, I mean more involved work. Especially fairing work on these new glides lol

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u/StableDisastrous1331 — 8 days ago
▲ 23 r/Harley

Thoughts about the future of HD?

I am curious what people think about the future of HD?

I drive a road king and love it, considering taking on a second bike (road glide) as well.

But as for the company, around me I see stores closing, not seeing new ones opening. The brand is powerful, but most people with more than 3 brain cells don't buy stuff directly from moco if they can avoid it.

I feel the new generations don't tool much, which makes maintenance and repair costs a much larger consideration, especially given the prices at the stealership

Even many of us who do own a wrench or two, are mostly lost with the increasing amount of electronics and new tech.

Just wondering if anyone has put thought into it.

Thanks

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u/StableDisastrous1331 — 9 days ago
▲ 7 r/NYguns

Ordering a lower, or an upper is not a rifle until it's assembled, right?

Does that mean if a cop stops someone and somehow sees they have a rifle in the car, but it happens to be separated.. They can't say anything?

Just asking out of curiosity. Wondering if that's true how does anyone ever get caught with an unregistered (besides those caught actually using it)

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u/StableDisastrous1331 — 9 days ago

I was asked for my ID to verify account, how do I UNverify my acct now?

Maybe 8 years ago my FB got locked up and it told me something like "we see you aren't using your real name, so we locked your acct until you show us proof of name"

I had my name as:

First: Stan

Last: Lee

(example)

So I sent my ID, and they said I need to change my name to match my ID, which is Stanley + last name

(using Stan lee/Stanley as an example, very similar to actual)

So I did, and it un locked me.

But since then I'm not able to change my name, says "sorry, you've already verified your name" and doesn't give any options.

I have a sensitive law enforcement job and cannot be shown as my full govt. But there is no option to change it.

First, why did this happen to me? I see billions of ppl with the most ridiculous names you can think of, why was I made to verify?

And how can I work around this somehow

Thank you

u/StableDisastrous1331 — 12 days ago

They've been cracking down on cardboard lately I think, more than usual. I had some garbage in a box which they removed and left the box. A bit far, but np I understand.

Then they took items that were in their own boxes, emptied the item out, and left the box???

I mean brand new items (not new, I mean fully packaged).

One such is attached, was fully in the box with Styrofoam and everything. They opened the package, took the product, just so they can leave the box??

Or maybe I'm out my damn mind, I feel like this is crossing a line, opening our garbage to pick and choose stuff

u/StableDisastrous1331 — 27 days ago