UK Is a Trap for International Students

Without Prejudice

If you’re considering coming UK, please think twice- you might end up wasting your money, time, and energy. Many students force themself into part-time jobs that barely support a decent quality of life. I’ve seen friends who finished their Masters and even extended their post-study visas become extremely thin, lose their hair, and eventually return to India because they simply couldn’t cope.

The issues go beyond health. The food quality, sky-high housing costs, unpredictable work hours, poor weather and even racism contribute to a decline in overall well-being. Your financial situation can also suffer, with your family often having to bear the burden.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 1 day ago
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Best place to learn swimming near Boudha?

Looking for a good swimming pool around Boudha/Chabahil area — preferably one with beginner-friendly instructors, not just a pool to rent.

Backstory: I never learned to swim. Went to a pool once or twice years ago and just froze up genuine fear of water, not just “never got around to it.” Didn’t go back after that.

Trying again now. Would help to know:

**•**	Pools in Boudha/Chabahil/nearby with actual beginner classes (not just open swim)  
**•**	Instructors good with adults who are nervous/scared, not just kids’ batches  
**•**	Anyone who learned as an adult and can share what worked

Feeling a bit alone in this since most people I know learned as kids. Any recs or personal experience appreciated.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 7 days ago

Why everything is hard and depressing in Nepal?

Do you guys also feel same like everyone is making others life harsh are trying escape this tapestry of life.

Like teacher going strict on checking student paper.
Manager being harsh over other staff. Doctor, engineering looking opportunity like waiting for potential client to rob blind hospital using doctor.

No one is intending to help for free. Everyone feels like they are using each other be it a relationship or anything? Is it same all around the world?

Why are people less helpful more focus on making money under given opportunity?

It’s like everyone is selling something like a dallal.

Paila yesto thyena jasto lagcha..

Gau ghar tira ta jhan danger cha so i would not just blame today generation.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 17 days ago

Please guys, go abroad when you can. Don’t wait move out.

The guilt of there is nothing I can do in this country not in the sense for the country, but for myself. I feel like tried so much but I have already lost to life.

  1. Dropped out of university due to daily bullying the bullies used to get the leaked exam questions beforehand.
  2. Opened a restaurant and it didn’t go well.
  3. Working somewhere with the same regret every single day is killing me.
  4. Girlfriend left me for another guy living abroad, and in between I made a few girlfriends but those didn’t work out either as most of their plans were to go abroad.
  5. Parents are getting old.

Hook or crook get out of this shit hole.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 17 days ago

Please guys, go abroad when you can. Don’t wait move out.

The guilt of there is nothing I can do in this country not in the sense for the country, but for myself. I feel like tried so much but I have already lost to life.

  1. Dropped out of university due to daily bullying the bullies used to get the leaked exam questions beforehand.
  2. Opened a restaurant and it didn’t go well.
  3. Working somewhere with the same regret every single day is killing me.
  4. Girlfriend left me for another guy living abroad, and in between I made a few girlfriends but those didn’t work out either as most of their plans were to go abroad.
  5. Parents are getting old.

Hook or crook get out of this shit hole.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 17 days ago

Got pulled into something shady reselling a product, not sure what to do need advice

I work as an employee (not owner) at a small business that sells a certain product/service to customers. The official price is 28.5k NPR, but I’ve been charging customers 29.5k and with VAT, the invoiced amount comes out to around 34k NPR, still close to or under the normal market price, so customers don’t question it much. If i do using my account in esewa. I do maybe 2-3 of these transactions a month for a year, usually through eSewa.

I don’t fully understand how I’m even able to get it at a lower rate in the first place. The only thing I know is that whoever supplies it to us pays in dollars or buys it in bulk somehow beyond that I have no idea how the chain works. The more I think about it, the more it feels like there’s something off possibly informal or unregulated money transfer channels involved somewhere upstream. I don’t know who’s actually behind it or how deep it goes.

I’m scared that if this ever gets investigated, my name and the eSewa transactions get tied to something much bigger than my small cut. Has anyone dealt with something like this? How do I get out of this cleanly, and should I be talking to a lawyer before this goes any further? Any advice appreciated.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 27 days ago
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Got pulled into something shady reselling a product, not sure what to do — need advice

I work as an employee (not owner) at a small business that sells a certain product/service to customers. The official price is 28.5k NPR, but I’ve been charging customers 29.5k and with VAT, the invoiced amount comes out to around 34k NPR, still close to or under the normal market price, so customers don’t question it much. If i do using my account in esewa. I do maybe 2-3 of these transactions a month for a year, usually through eSewa.

I don’t fully understand how I’m even able to get it at a lower rate in the first place. The only thing I know is that whoever supplies it to us pays in dollars or buys it in bulk somehow beyond that I have no idea how the chain works. The more I think about it, the more it feels like there’s something off possibly informal or unregulated money transfer channels involved somewhere upstream. I don’t know who’s actually behind it or how deep it goes.

I’m scared that if this ever gets investigated, my name and the eSewa transactions get tied to something much bigger than my small cut. Has anyone dealt with something like this? How do I get out of this cleanly, and should I be talking to a lawyer before this goes any further? Any advice appreciated.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 27 days ago
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Is everything getting hard ki malai matra I feel thinks are getting tough?

Anyone tired of anything lately. I am taking everything aa a tough I don't know if it's due to desperation that is causing this.

I lack reason to live.

Kaam ma ni kich kich, padai dhsto bhaisakyoo, umer lae Neto Kati sakyoo, jiban Sathi pani ciana. Kei garna pani sakya ciana I mean sabai ko life ma kei gareko dekhincha tara mero ta 10 barsa agadi je thyee Ailey pani tei naai thau ma chu.

Na paisa kamuna sakiyoo, na padna sakiya na jiban naai socheko jaato bhayoo.. kei naai bhayena.. infact ava ta daar matra lagcha.

Please share how is everything going in ur life.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 1 month ago
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Sudden increase in electricity bill?

Aru bela 1700 pughtyoo yo pali bill 3400 pugecha.

Patyuna maan lageko chaina. The only thing chagrs cha repair garda grill machine and drill maxhine yse gareko thyoo. 2 dats jasto.

Yetro bill

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u/StatusWar4541 — 1 month ago
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Anyone here who has been ruled out asthma?

What shall i do? Feeling like a shit huda huda kathmandu gave me asthma

I don’t wish to use inhaler

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u/StatusWar4541 — 2 months ago
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How do I use the Dolma website to check land ownership?

I ran into an issue during the malpot (land revenue) process and need to verify the citizenship jari miti land ownership details to identify where the mistake happened. I found the Dolma website but can’t figure out how to actually view the ownership records the information just doesn’t load for me.

Has anyone successfully used Dolma for this? If so, could you walk me through the process step by step? Any help would be really appreciated.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 2 months ago
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Unpopular opinion: Stop using someone’s social media as proof of their character

Who are the celebrities you’ve personally dealt with, worked near, or have credible firsthand accounts about who turned out to be completely different (and not in a good way) behind closed doors?

Let’s be honest social media is closer to a PR campaign than reality. Videos, posts, and clips can be edited, deleted, or carefully curated to shape whatever narrative someone wants to push. It’s basically a digital newspaper, and we all know how selective those can be.

Yet people will defend their favorite celebrity to the death based on a few Instagram posts and YouTube videos. That’s not knowing someone that’s knowing their marketing team.

Real behavior doesn’t live on a feed. It lives in green rooms, on set, in restaurants, in DMs, and in how they treat people who can’t do anything for them.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 2 months ago

Family panicking about uncle claiming our self-bought land is this YouTube fear or real?

So our family has been seeing a lot of YouTube videos lately saying "bakaspatra ma rakheko jagga ma pani ansa lagcha" and my parents are now seriously worried.

Here's our situation:
\- My parents (dad) bought land themselves (self-acquired, not ancestral/grandfather's property)
\- The land is registered under bakaspatra
\- My dad and his brother (uncle) have NOT done ansa banda yet (still joint/undivided)
\- Uncle hasn't said anything yet but parents fear he'll claim the land based on these "new rule" videos

From what I researched, self-acquired property cannot be claimed by uncle — only ancestral/purkheuli sampati can be divided in ansa banda. And uncle (daju/bhai) is not even a coparcener under Muluki Civil Code 2074.

But the nata sarkar and YouTube content has my parents genuinely scared. Is there actually a new rule in recently that changes this? Has anyone dealt with a similar situation or knows a lawyer who can clarify?

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u/StatusWar4541 — 2 months ago
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Family panicking about uncle claiming our self-bought land is this YouTube fear or real?

So our family has been seeing a lot of YouTube videos lately saying "bakaspatra ma rakheko jagga ma pani ansa lagcha" and my parents are now seriously worried.

Here's our situation:
- My parents (dad) bought land themselves (self-acquired, not ancestral/grandfather's property)
- The land is registered under bakaspatra
- My dad and his brother (uncle) have NOT done ansa banda yet (still joint/undivided)
- Uncle hasn't said anything yet but parents fear he'll claim the land based on these "new rule" videos

From what I researched, self-acquired property cannot be claimed by uncle — only ancestral/purkheuli sampati can be divided in ansa banda. And uncle (daju/bhai) is not even a coparcener under Muluki Civil Code 2074.

But the nata sarkar and YouTube content has my parents genuinely scared. Is there actually a new rule in recently that changes this? Has anyone dealt with a similar situation or knows a lawyer who can clarify?

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u/StatusWar4541 — 2 months ago

Best mask for Kathmandu’s seasonal cough — where to buy?

Dry cough season is back and I need a proper mask for Chabahil/Boudha daily use — not a surgical mask, something with actual filtration for KTM's dust/exhaust/pollen combo.

N95 vs KN95 vs reusable respirator — what are people using? And where do you actually buy a decent one in Kathmandu? Price range appreciated too.

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u/StatusWar4541 — 2 months ago

Best mask for riding in Kathmandu’s seasonal cough — where to buy?

Dry cough season is back and I need a proper mask for daily use not a surgical mask, something with actual filtration for KTM's dust/exhaust/pollen combo.

N95 vs KN95 vs reusable respirator — what are people using? And where do you actually buy a decent one in Kathmandu? Price range appreciated too.

What do i use?

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u/StatusWar4541 — 2 months ago