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Is it possibly someone is coming into my house?

Hi, so for some background info; I live in a rural neighborhood in Apache junction Arizona. I live in the hills on 1.25 acre lots there’s probably like 20-30 houses around. We DO NOT live in the rich area lmao our house is like sticks and mud situation and the front door doesn’t face the street at all so you have to come a good ways onto the property to get to the door because of that we don’t lock our house, that is about to change. I also have a fully intact 6 year old pitbull who is not very friendly or quiet when it comes to strangers and animals. He’s also very loud and excitable when he sees people he knows and likes. Basically anyone comes to the door we know bc he barks. There are 3 adults and a baby in the house and 1 adult living in a fifth wheel on the property.

The past month or two I have noticed small things that make me think someone is coming up to my house and my dog isn’t alerting and i don’t have cameras- that’s changing soon!

The first big thing is my husbands giant Milwaukee light got stolen from right by our front door, as far as we know nothing else was taken. Then a couple weeks go by I’m home alone and some old man in a white pickup truck come banging on my door. I don’t answer bc it’s just me and my baby alone in the house, I’ve seen this man once before. He comes bangs on the door and my dog barks he turns around and gets in the truck- even if I was gonna answer he never stays at the door long enough for anyone to answer unless they’re waiting for him. No one in my house knows who he is. After that I started thinking I was hearing my front door open and close, we have bells on the door, I would go check but no one would be there. I’d let my dog out and he wouldn’t alert to anything. I’ve noticed things moved or thrown away that weren’t before and I’ve noticed food going missing… all things that could be explained away by the fact that I live with other people right? Wrong. I am home alone 99% of the time with my baby. I know where everyone is in the house/property at all times. Today was the thing that made me realize that maybe I’m not just paranoid… all the adults in the house leave around 7am today except me and my baby and my dog. Well at some point my baby and I go into my room we close my door leaving my dog in the living room alone, all the doors are closed no one has opened any doors since 7 this morning. An hour goes by and my grandma calls me to tell me my dog is out in the front yard. All the doors are closed and she doesn’t know how or when he got outside. I have round doorknobs, ones you need thumbs to operate, ones dogs cannot open on their own… every single door was closed when I left him in the living room, we have no doggy doors, all the doors were closed when my grandma let him back in. And this isn’t the first time he’s just gotten out with no explanation, usually I’ll blame it on one of the people living here not closing the door all the way but no one was home when he got out.

TLDR; Is there a possibility someone is getting in my house and my dog isn’t alerting for some reason? He alerts to EVERYTHING he’s so reactive and honestly a little aggressive at times so it’s hard for me to wrap my head around anyone being able to get in without me knowing but I also don’t know how else to explain any of the things that have been going on. If I’m being crazy please tell me 😂

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u/Strugglingstoner2 — 5 hours ago

Detective sprite 🕵️

Yall said no AI and idk how to use photo shop all I could figure out how to do is turn the little guy purple 💀the rest was done in Microsoft word but hopefully you get the vision if anyone who is actually good at art wants to rework this into something beautiful please be my guest 😂😂

u/Strugglingstoner2 — 18 days ago

Aitah for how I came across

Okay I’m taking a huge chance here because I don’t even know if anyone involved has Reddit besides my fiance.
So for context my good friend is my daughters god mother, not legally there’s no binding paperwork but everyone knows this is her god mother. Well her kids 18 & 17 will often tell her they want me to come over so they can see the baby and I usually do and while I’m there I’ll cook for them to make it easier on their mom. The normal routine is they watch the baby while I cook. I come and check often and let them know that she may just need to held or maybe she’s hungry and I will clean her a bottle and come feed her in just a second.
Well the other day I was dropping off one of her kids after school and one of the other ones asked if I could stay so he could see the baby. I said no problem. Well then I’m there cooking. Not really much literally just a pot roast in a crockpot so I really wasn’t out of the room for too long. Well the baby is SCREAMING and not just an I’m hungry or my diaper is dirty or I’m bored screaming I mean she is screaming at the top of her lungs in pain. I peak over to see that she is in a walker/bouncer. I ask multiple times can you take her out please. They look me dead in the eyes and don’t even try to move. Then the kid keeps leaving without saying anything just leaving the baby alone STILL IN THE WALKER no mention of hey I’m gonna run upstairs the baby is alone. So at one point I get pissed because my daughter is in pain and no one seems to care so I bust in the living room snatch her out of her walker and go into the kitchen. Well the kids run to their room and slam the doors so I leave.
I text their mom this and ever since things haven’t been normal. The kids aren’t talking to me and their mom seems standoffish too. I genuinely was not trying to be rude but I was very upset that I told the kids my child is in pain please help her and they didn’t care to. They always ask when can they babysit and they always ask me to come over but they wouldn’t listen to me about my child when I was there so how can I trust them with her when I’m not there.
I’m genuinely upset that I’m probably going to lose this friendship and even more upset that it’s going to affect my fiance who is also pretty close with her. They don’t seem upset at him at all. Haven’t been any different towards him. Only me. If I was in the wrong I’ll take it because I already feel like I should’ve never said anything and just should’ve gone home quietly, my faience keeps saying I’m not in the wrong I was being an adult and express how I felt calmly and maturely and that we have a kid to look out for and they should understand that. I just need an outside perspective on this. The only response I got back from her was “okay I’ll talk to them thank you🩷” and that was the last of it.

And for added context I don’t normally just drop my kid with people and walk away. I usually am the first to respond to her but my hands were literally covered in beef juice and I was trying to get everything in the pot quickly so I could go take care of her

u/Strugglingstoner2 — 1 month ago

I don’t know what my hair needs

TLDR; my hair is constantly super tangled and staticky and semi poofy how do I fix it

Hi all. Idk if this is where to post but I am desperate and I need help. My whole life I have struggled with my hair being frizzy and staticky and sometimes poofy and ALWAYS tangled. I could brush my hair four hours and it’ll still be tangled the second I breath wrong and I don’t mean just little tangles I mean massive dreadlock type knots. I horrified so many hairdressers as a child before I knew how to brush my own hair and even still they don’t love me and I always end up brushing my hair out for them. It doesn’t matter what kind of shampoo or conditioner I use it doesn’t matter if I’m walking on carpet or on tile or how short or long I have my hair it’s just constantly like this. When I was younger a lady at the Walmart salon told my mom I have “baby hair” like it’s the same thinness and softness as baby hair I just have a bunch of it and that’s what causes all my problems and why it breaks so easy . The thing is I would say I have pretty thick hair and any time I’ve mentioned this to any other salon when they ask what kind of hair I think I have they look at me like I’m insane 🤷‍♀️ so I don’t really know what type of hair I have. It’s never gone full curl but it can be a bit wavy now and then and every now and then some hair closest to my hairline (around my face and back of my neck) the hair will curl into a full spiral on it own. Most of the time tho it’s just straight with the bottoms curled up just ever so slightly- like the picture. I just want my hair to be soft and not a rats nest all the time and not so staticky either. I am so tired of my hair always sticking to everything and making me shock everyone, I don’t even have any carpet in my house 😭

u/Strugglingstoner2 — 1 month ago

What does my hair want from me 😭

Hi all. Idk if this is where to post but I am desperate and I need help. My whole life I have struggled with my hair being frizzy and staticky and sometimes poofy and ALWAYS tangled. I could brush my hair four hours and it’ll still be tangled the second I breath wrong and I don’t mean just little tangles I mean massive dreadlock type knots. I horrified so many hairdressers as a child before I knew how to brush my own hair and even still they don’t love me and I always end up brushing my hair out for them. It doesn’t matter what kind of shampoo or conditioner I use it doesn’t matter if I’m walking on carpet or on tile or how short or long I have my hair it’s just constantly like this. When I was younger a lady at the Walmart salon told my mom I have “baby hair” like it’s the same thinness and softness as baby hair I just have a bunch of it and that’s what causes all my problems and why it breaks so easy . The thing is I would say I have pretty thick hair and any time I’ve mentioned this to any other salon when they ask what kind of hair I think I have they look at me like I’m insane 🤷‍♀️ so I don’t really know what type of hair I have. It’s never gone full curl but it can be a bit wavy now and then and every now and then some hair closest to my hairline (around my face and back of my neck) the hair will curl into a full spiral on it own. Most of the time tho it’s just straight with the bottoms curled up just ever so slightly- like the picture. I just want my hair to be soft and not a rats nest all the time and not so staticky either. I am so tired of my hair always sticking to everything and making me shock everyone, I don’t even have any carpet in my house 😭

TLDR; my hair is constantly super tangled and staticky and semi poofy how do I fix it

u/Strugglingstoner2 — 1 month ago

Mackenzie Shrilla

Do you think this is a case they’d be consider covering. It’s resurfacing again because of her Netflix documentary. People are saying compared to the other documentaries it’s very different. I’ve watched this YouTube video about it and there’s plenty other episodes about it like the killer cases season 4 episode 12 and then there’s the mean girl murders season 2 episode 7. I’ve heard a couple different opinions on how the case was handled. Some say one of the boys was alive when cops showed up but the officer said he was dead meaning he didn’t get help as quickly as he should’ve- this I have not found legit proof for so it could just be hearsay. I’ve heard some people really arguing the “medical episode” is to cause or the impairment is to cause. I have also heard some people arguing dom put the car into neutral at some point trying to stop Mackenzie but she put it back in drive and kept going- again I can’t find legit proof for this one either. I haven’t done too much digging honestly becuase I didn’t think there was a whole lot to it. It seemed pretty obvious from the looks of it that it was purposeful but now everyone’s arguing. There’s even Facebook pages run by her family called free Mackenzie shrilla and then of course netizens made a page that’s titled don’t free Mackenzie shrilla. Both have a pretty big following so I would love to hear Morgan and Kaelyn’s take on this case and on all the stuff that’s come out since she’s been arrested

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u/Strugglingstoner2 — 2 months ago

Crown Vic video

Hi :) so I know we all watched the crown Vic live stream at least for a minute or so- I mean how can you not it was intriguing 😂- I had it on pretty much all the time in the background and while I was asleep. Well the car died while I was asleep and while my husband was asleep so neither of us really know what happened. I tried to go back and do a rewatch of the live stream and it won’t let me. So I was wondering if they were going to do a video explaining what happened? I know he said they’re taking some time off because of all the events that have happened but do we think he’ll explain it at all later or do you think it’s just one of those things where you had to be there to see it?

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u/Strugglingstoner2 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/kindle

Adding covers to books downloaded via pdf

Hi all! So I recently found out you can download like any book for free via pdf, mostly like not mainstream books but like AO3 or wattpad type books that were free to begin with but not officially published thru Amazon or kindle. my only problem is when I download them onto my phone files there’s a cover for them but when I upload it to my kindle or even the iPhone books app there is no cover. Do I need to download it in a different format for it to work? Does it work better on computers? Any help is welcome. I know there’s gotta be a way to do it because I know people put their own works on kindle I just can’t seem to figure it out myself

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u/Strugglingstoner2 — 2 months ago