u/Stunning_Dream1734

So I was watching a movie with my bf. He fell asleep. Then, his phone buzzed, I saw it was a message from his friend talking about me. Curiosity got the best of me and I checked what him and his friends were talking about. I saw a message from him that said “I’m tempted to cheat. Why couldn’t I find a girl like that 7 months ago? All my coworkers are starting to have a crush on me.” Then the friend said at least you have a gf like Alyssa. What should I do?

It’s hard for me to break up with him because I’m in love with him

So I was watching a movie with my bf. He fell asleep. Then, his phone buzzed, I saw it was a message from his friend talking about me. Curiosity got the best of me and I checked what him and his friends were talking about. I saw a message from him that said “I’m tempted to cheat. Why couldn’t I find a girl like that 7 months ago? All my coworkers are starting to have a crush on me.” Then the friend said at least you have a gf like Alyssa. What should I do?

So I was watching a movie with my bf. He fell asleep. Then, his phone buzzed, I saw it was a message from his friend talking about me. Curiosity got the best of me and I checked what him and his friends were talking about. I saw a message from him that said “I’m tempted to cheat. Why couldn’t I find a girl like that 7 months ago? All my coworkers are starting to have a crush on me.” Then the friend said at least you have a gf like Alyssa. What should I do?

This guy I just met told me that him and his friends make racist jokes toward each other and he “likes saying the n word”. He is Mexican and his friends are various different races. They all apparently make racist jokes aimed at each others race and still consider themselves close friends. What is psychologically going on with these people? Does their joking mask inner feelings of prejudice toward different races? Is this dude racist? Do him and his friends have jokes that go too far?

Sounds like toxic friendship

This guy I just met told me that him and his friends make racist jokes toward each other and he “likes saying the n word”. He is Mexican and his friends are various different races. They all apparently make racist jokes aimed at each others race and still consider themselves close friends. What is psychologically going on with these people? Does their joking mask inner feelings of prejudice toward different races? Is this dude racist? Do him and his friends have jokes that go too far?