My support system is gone

I am genuinely terrified of taking to my dad about being trans like he is going to shun me for that reason because he never uses my pronouns or preferred name and I feel like I can’t change my preferred name because I told him Roxane but I feel like changing it to dove. My support system disappeared when my friend stopped responding to my texts until hours or even days later and existing it with “oh I didn’t see” or “my phone didn’t give me a notification” but she gets perfect notifications from everyone else of her phone. If anyone has anything they want to say to me or ask me go ahead in the comments

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u/Such-Definition917 — 18 hours ago
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Unrealistic wants

I have really bad dysphoria around my chest, and it makes me want a huge chest like anime levels of boobs. I know I will need to get implants for it but I feel like I’m fetishizing my own body when I think about it and it leads to more dysphoria

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u/Such-Definition917 — 1 day ago

Name suggestions

I decided on Roxane a while ago but now I’m second guessing it after one of my friends girlfriends called me dove it felt really nice so I want to hear some new name suggestions. It would be greatly appreciated thank y’all

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u/Such-Definition917 — 6 days ago
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Name suggestions

I decided on Roxane a while ago but now I’m second guessing it after one of my friends girlfriends called me dove it felt really nice so I want to hear some new name suggestions. It would be greatly appreciated thank y’all

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u/Such-Definition917 — 6 days ago
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Renaissance fair confidence help

I’m 17 mtf and going to a ren fair in my hometown next week on Friday to Sunday and want to get feminine and pretty items. I also want to wear my first public dress to the second day if I get one I like there. Does anyone have any help for confidence help or advice

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u/Such-Definition917 — 16 days ago
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Mom said I’d detransition if I got on HRT

I’m 17 MTF and asked my mom in the Native American tribe I am a part of will help with hrt like paying for the estrogen or the appointments. When I brought this up she got extremely angry and compared me to a disabled adult who she had taken care of at an assisted living center, the person was also mtf. I told her that it hurt and she continued to say they she knew more about detransition than I do when she only had researched enough to understand how to get hrt. I have spent the last four years studying hrt and its effects and she acts like I’m a child asking for bottom surgery. I just graduated high school and my job hasn’t even given me a schedule in two months and I can’t find a new one. Can anyone help me through this

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u/Such-Definition917 — 21 days ago
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Why don’t I feel dysphoria around the rest of my family

I 17 mtf have transphobic parents and I feel a ton of dysphoria when I’m around them an they call me son/he/him but when my aunts, uncles, and cousins call me bro or he/him I feel little to no dysphoria. I went to a funeral today and I felt no dysphoria around them even when I was in a suit, does anyone have any clue why this could be? as I have usually really bad body/name dysphoria.

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u/Such-Definition917 — 2 months ago
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I 17 mtf came out in February, and since then my parents have gone from being supportive to entirely transphobic to the point they open my packages. My best friend that I came out to has also become transphobic and has said to my face he hates trans people, he lives with me and my family and is my closed connection we play video games and watch shows together. I am scared to wear a skirt in my room that I bought for myself because of him and my family, I also haven’t had the best luck with dating recently being ghosted after a few months each with several men and women and I don’t know what to do as with how my rent is going to be I can’t afford anything more than gas and rent and not anything like hrt. Please give me advice

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u/Such-Definition917 — 2 months ago