I healed her...... Now scared of loosing her friendship.. What to do?

I healed her...... Now scared of loosing her friendship.. What to do?

I'll start from the beginning. I met a girl on Reddit, and we had great conversations about random things. Eventually, we exchanged Snapchats—she was actually the one who suggested it. From there, we started texting every few days. Most of the time when she reached out, she was sad, crying, or dealing with anxiety.

Out of nowhere, her Instagram profile popped up in my feed. I knew it was her because I had already seen her face from the Snaps she sent. When I brought it up, she said something like, "You know that's me, so follow!"

She had an ex-boyfriend whom she broke up with around six or seven months ago. More recently, she had a guy best friend she had fallen in love with, but he was toxic and ended things between them—even though she still wanted to be with him. Because of that, she often texted me about him, venting about toxic incidents while still missing him. She even had panic attacks during that phase, and we'd have late-night talks working through it.

Finally, she blocked him. After doing that, she seems genuinely happy now.

The thing is, I feel like she won’t talk to me anymore now that she's healed, even though this was the lowest point of her life. I really want to stay good friends with her and don't want to grow distant, but I have a feeling that’s about to happen. Am I cooked? (By the way, she’s gorgeous and gets hit on by people every day.)

u/Tall_Athlete4994 — 11 days ago
▲ 503 r/TwentiesofIndia+2 crossposts

She texted me after months... and I didn't expect it to hit me this hard.

Pata hai aaj kya hua ...I was just going about my day when I opened Reddit and saw a message from her. I genuinely froze for a second.

We met on Reddit. She's not from India, but somehow we became really close in a very short time. For around three months, we talked almost every day and night, despite my busy schedule with the gym and work.

Eventually, life happened and we stopped talking. After a month or two, I tried reaching out again. We talked for a couple of days, but it just didn't feel the same anymore, so we drifted apart once again.

Today, after all this time, she sent me a heartfelt message. Reading it brought back so many memories. We exchanged our final goodbyes, and honestly... it made me more emotional than I expected.

It's strange how someone you've never met in person can leave such a lasting impact on your life. I could write paragraphs about the memories we shared, but I'll just say I'm grateful our paths crossed.

(Used ai for grammar)

u/Tall_Athlete4994 — 3 months ago

Why do people delete acc?(I'm genuinely sad 🥀)

We had a very good Convo... She infact said that "you are sometimes awkward and funny and atleast not a creep"... I thought we had a good Convo and we can be good friends,..... But at last she deleted the account..

u/Tall_Athlete4994 — 3 months ago

Confused about the back case

So yesterday I bought this new back case for 500 rupees, it's pretty slim , it doesn't have raised corners to protect the screen.... At first I was excited, now I'm kinda scared to use it... Is it okay to use a case like this?

u/Tall_Athlete4994 — 3 months ago

This is how my life been few weeks🌾

Yep so my life was all about gym and work.. it's like i have no curiosity left in me.... Idk.... Man.. please help.....

u/Tall_Athlete4994 — 3 months ago