u/Tall_Singer_7357

I'm attempting to learn my types for certain systems, and I was wondering if there was a good test for big 5 since it's probably pretty hard to find out any other way.

For a while I thought I was an Ne user, but then I found that it might be from Ti instead. It's a big question for me.

I am an ESFP. I am generally too argumentative for my own good even though I don't normally enjoy it. I don't have a particularly strong need to stand out although I often get upset when there is a sign that I'm just someone who blends in the background. I lack discipline a lot of times and I hate doing extra work. I have always thought myself to be a 7w6 or 7w8. I am having trouble figuring this one out because I seek reassurance from people a lot but I HATE when people try and limit me or when things happen that are completely out of my control. I might be neither but I think it may be the best bet. If you have any more questions then ask, but this is what stuff I can think of on the spot.

I don't know Fe vs Fi in enough depth. Can anyone describe the difference?

I have been unsuccessful in finding my stack, so I realized it's because I don't know the functions enough. So this is my first step. Can anyone describe Se vs Si?

Nobody ever actually helps to find my type when I ask for it. Does anyone actually help?

I'm an ESFP. I constantly argue my point to get my way but I get uneasy afterwards. I constantly care what people think but it also makes me very mad knowing that there is always someone in the world who can control you. I would hate a normal suit and tie job (except Dunder Mifflin). I rely on having a circle of friends during certain situations. I can be aggressive sometimes with words or actions when I need. Ask questions if you need more.

Let's see who can figure it out. I am told I memorize things very quickly. I am also told for some reason that I tune out things I don't like hearing subconsciously. I really don't know if it's Se or Si though. Someone kind of has to quiz me because I have a problem with feeling like I relate to everything (because every function is obviously used by everyone) and not knowing which sit up highest. So anyways, I have a good memory of past events which I use to my advantage, but I am generally in tune with what is happening on the outside. So this is my first step towards finding my function stack and I wanna thank in advance whoever helps me find my stack (come on, INTP!)

Case for ESFP: I am definitely extroverted, I tag on to sensory details and remember things like names a lot better than most people. I generally use my heart over my head and I feel deeply.
Why not? Sometimes I find myself tuning things out. I am notoriously bad at listening.
Case for ENFP: I am more ambiverted than an ESFP which makes a good case for ENFP. I come up with wacky things and ideas. I just can't tell if I think these things a normal amount or if maybe it is Ne talking.
Why not? I don't look at something random and think about possibilities. I'm not creative enough to create something like a whole fictional universe (I've tried).
Case for ENFJ: basically gonna be the same as ENFP but I wanna throw this in here because I don't actually know if I am more judging or perceiving.
ESFJ can also be added here.
Obviously you probably need to ask more questions here but if you have any then ask and if you have any ideas for other contending types then go ahead and be my guest.

What am I most afraid of? Being a burden. Being unwanted.
Do I enjoy conflict? Complicated. I never cease to argue my point in situations, but I still hate conflict a lot of times. I argue so I can get my point across. That simple. I hate when pointless rules are put on me and I hate hearing (because I said so).
What type do I think I am? 7 or 3. I tend to find things to enjoy when I'm in rough places.
Contradictory trait? Well, I'm prone to mood swings. Sometimes I withdraw and listen to depressing music and all that jazz. (No jazz though. Only rock.)
My MBTI? Uncertain. ESFP and ENFP come up often. Even ENTP and ISFP.
My head triad? I think this is pretty simple. I'm most likely a 7 and 6 is the next most likely
Heart triad? Completely inconsistent here. I love to be needed but I also love being told I did something. I also have those moody times like type 4 where I retreat. Because of this rare balance I often care a lot, too much, about what other people think. Every second.
Gut? Also not very confident. I don't hold myself to a very high standard like a type 1 would. I said before I argue a lot but I dislike it. It makes me uneasy.
Flaws? I care too much what people think. I also act like I don't wanna tell anyone about my personal life when I really release secret cries for help to get people to ask.
I apologize for making this so hard but I would like to see if anyone gets it. Ask more questions if needed.

I am an ESFP 7w6, and I was wondering what my tritype was. I am having trouble with my heart triads and my gut triads.

Section 1: heart triads
This is where the most confusion shows up because I have all of it and I also have big things that contradict all of it. I could be a 2 because of my need to be liked and feel needed. But I hate doing chores or work for other people and I don't sacrifice my own needs most of the time. I could be a 3 because of how much I want people to see me as successful, but nobody ever has and I don't have any discipline. I could be a 4 because of my moody era that happens every day and my whole inner self that listens to Radiohead and gets depressed for no reason (deep inside, it's weird..) so I don't really know this one. If I were a 2 it would definitely have a 3 wing. If I were a 3 it could have either wing. If I were a 4 it would be a 3 wing. (Because I am definitely not a 1 or 5.)

Section 2: head triads
This one is very simple actually. I could possibly be a six but definitely not a 5. My money goes on 7. I definitely think I am a 7 for this section because nothing else really fits. The only thing that contradicts me being a 7 is that mood swing thing I was talking about. But I honestly don't know much about type 6. I have that anxiety, and I'm not sure if this helps anything for the type but whenever I see some little thing like being added to a group chat or being added to someone's close friend list, or being mentioned by someone in something random, that makes me outrageously happy for the rest of the day. It's that little thing about being important to a friend. So if I were a 7 either wing would be possible. If I were a 6 it would be a 7 wing.

And section 3: gut triads
This one is kind of in the middle here. I am not a 1, so keep that in mind. But I always thought I was an 8 here because I always argue. Sometimes for no reason. But I soon realized that all of that tension makes me uneasy. So it's a toss up. When I realize someone is mad at me I get tense. So I guess it depends on how you define each type but I'm pretty sure I'm not an 8 in that case.

So based on this I would like to know my core type and a little reasoning maybe. Thanks to whoever does it.