u/Tbhkhadia13

Hey i’m 13 and i wanna start building muscles by benching, I need advice as to where to start tho lol.

some info ig

I’m kinda weak

99 pounds

female

first time obviously.

I hope this is a supportive community since this is my first time posting workouts, any advice helps like where to start!

<3

Like 3 years ago when I was 10, I had this one family friend who 13-14 (maybe older) at a party my family hosted for their friends, she came.

For some context, we are all religious and I supported her and her gf but at that party she asked if I ever kissed a girl, told her I was straight.

Great, you would think she was done but after a while she started practically begging me to let her kiss me in which I refused MULTIPLE times.

She wouldn't stop tho, eventually after 2 minutes of arguing, she went under the sheets so i could kiss her.

She kept pulling on me so I eventually gave in to this girl I thought was cool and looked up to, and after I felt disgusting, not cuz i kissed a girl even tho i'm not a lesbian, but i felt forced into it by someone older, never told my family.

OH AND she still comes over and used that as blackmail.

We are friends still, it's moreover that she likes me, and i'm forced to hang out with this 16 yr old or she might actually go thru with her blackmail.

Idk what to do, I am still clearly affected by it. But I NEED validation, is it sa?

(repost since on teen vent I only got one guy saying it isn't, I need atleast 3)

I‘d like to start off saying i’m thirteen so I should be praying but I can’t get up to do anything, i’m a horrible muslim and I do stuff I shouldn’t like attempting and self harming. I am fully aware I can’t do this and I really do try making dua for support but I’m getting worse day by day.

What’s worse is I have a crush, I feel guilty and disappointed in myself and I dunno what to do, please give me advice!

Soooo like, just a month ago, my dad found out I cut, my parents kept yelling at me that day, and after, they never brought it up.

What I am saying is he didn't have the best reaction.

We finished lunch and he kinda just randomly said

"Next time you get a bad grade don't cut, just tell me so I could punch you."

He kept chuckling and ik im being sensitive asf but why bring it up near my three siblings???

Maybe if my mom was home, she might have defended me but idk.

Am I really just sensitive or is he insensitive?

Every time someone asks me my type, I immediately think of 2000’s skater boys or wtv, but all my crushes are no where NEAR my type? Like at all. I chose personality and humor over looks always, but anytime I tell anyone, I am suddenly a liar or pick me, it’s so frustrating because not everyone is focused on attractiveness.

I have this one guy friend (no yuri🥺) and I would always talk to him for hours on roblox or at school, I tried denying the crush saying he wasn’t my type but honestly he was perfect personality wise, so I told my friend and I could tell she was judging and now I feel horrible.

I feel like I could never fully love someone just cuz they are hot, personality is all that matters and I will live by that.

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Hey, if you don't mind me being thirteen, I am more then happy to tutor your kid online for free, if you are interested in my services then respond in comments.

Times I am available in EST (sorry if it's specific)

Tuesday (I can tutor in the time ranges of 1-5 pm)

Thursday (I can tutor from 5-7:30 pm)

Friday (I can tutor from 5-7:30 pm)

Saturday (I can tutor from 5-7:30 pm)

I will use Google Classroom, Teams or Zoom as a primary way to reach your child.

Please be respectful, I don't mind difficult kids but I will NOT do difficult parent unless I made a mistake.

If you are interested then make sure to message me or type in comments, you don't have to be an adult to ask, as long as your parents are ok with it.

I MAY be able to do 6th graders if I am told, I might reject though.

Ask as many questions as you need <3

Hey, if you don't mind me being thirteen, I am more then happy to tutor your kid online for free, if you are interested in my services then respond in comments.

Times I am available in EST (sorry if it's specific)

Tuesday (I can tutor in the time ranges of 1-5 pm)

Thursday (I can tutor from 5-7:30 pm)

Friday (I can tutor from 5-7:30 pm)

Saturday (I can tutor from 5-7:30 pm)

I will use Google Classroom, Teams or Zoom as a primary way to reach your child.

Please be respectful, I don't mind difficult kids but I will NOT do difficult parent unless I made a mistake.

If you are interested then make sure to message me or type in comments, you don't have to be an adult to ask, as long as your parents are ok with it.

I MAY be able to do 6th graders if I am told, I might reject though.

Ask as many questions as you need <3

I feel useless, I need a job so bad but i'm too young, ig i'll hopefully succeed with tutoring?

Wish me luck gng <3