When did you realize everything was about them ?

It took me a while to realize that the whole world revolved around my Nparent and their skewed sense of self.

I recently decided to apply grey rocking, and dramatically reduce contact. Needless to say they flipped the fuck out, out of nowhere they asked / said « You don’t find me interesting at all.» and « You don’t give a fuck about me or this family »

It dramatically reframed all the years of thinking they loved me, but didn’t know how to express it. I think they just love how we make them feel when we do good.

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u/Temperentia — 10 hours ago

med use everyday ?

Hey guys,

Just got switched a couple days ago to concerta, and i really love it ! Super smooth ride, and very light crash.

I was wondering if there was any counter indication to taking it everyday ?

I’ve not stopped taking medication ever since I started, cause my state when unmedicated was… hard to tolerate and I don’t know if there are any things i miss about it.

I’d love to hear how the people who take it only on productive days feel when off them as well !

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u/Temperentia — 11 days ago
▲ 3 r/leaves

Day 1

After 4-5 years of nighttime use, at almost 2-3 joints a day, I’ve taken the decision to quit yesterday.

I threw away all my stash yesterday, slept like shit ofc but who cares !

Any advice for the journey ahead ?

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u/Temperentia — 16 days ago

Conseil médicaments

Hello !

Diagnostiqué y'a quelques mois, on m'a prescrit du quasym 2*20mg, c'était génial, peut-être aussi à cause de la lune de miel au début.

J'ai récemment du switcher sur de la ritaline LP 2*20mg; et grosse dégringolade. Au début j'étais à 3*20mg, et je fonctionnais en mode zombie, super productif mais aucun affect émotionnel. C'est pratique mais pas viable dans mon cas.

Je suis redescendu a 2*20mg de ritaline, et c'est les montagnes russes, trop d'énérgie / de focus pendant 1h00, puis retour au TDAH puissance 10, puis retour a l'explosion d'énergie...

Je fais pourtant bien attention à la régularité des prises, mon régime, mon hygiène de vie, mais faire du 100 et du 0 tous les jours (que ce soit au travail ou perso) c'est vraiment pas facile.

Ceux qui sont passés par là, comment-avez vous franchi le cap ? Est-ce que un différent traitement / plan de traitement a fonctionné ?

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u/Temperentia — 25 days ago

ADHD and quitting

Hey guys, after 2-3 years of my daily one or two joints before bed, and a recent diagnosis of ADHD at 25 yrs old, i think it’s time i take the step of quitting.

I’m trying to use the meds to incorporate healthy habits, and get rid of unhealthy ones. I think now weed goes in the second category. Id still love to enjoy a joint with friends and properly enjoy being stupid for an evening, but not like this.

I’ve started going to the gym regularly, got my passion for cooking and for writing back, got in therapy, but damn is it hard to stop weed.

I was wondering if anyone in the same position had advice on how to help in this direction.

Thanks for reading and i wish you guys the best in your own journey.

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u/Temperentia — 2 months ago