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I just wanted to do this poll because I saw someone say that 98% of the Fandom thought Jax was a TRANS MASC, they had no evidence to suggest this.

So, I wanted to see if this was 😁

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So, I would like to mesh sweet scene, Hime/Sweet Lolita and Kawaii and I have no clue how. How would I start?

Also, I have no idea how but jfashion/sweet scene fashion because I live in Rural Scotland, where there is hardly any Jfashion business in the country, let alone in cities.

Sorry, I'm just really tired but I want to try and buy clothes that will fit me, as a bigger person (Size UK 18/L) but don't know how.

Thank you for the help 😊

(There may be spellings and/or grammar mistakes 😭)

I'm sorry but genuinely, what the fuck???

There are many things I want to rant about.

For example, how Jax's trauma is being glossed with shiny stuff while Ragatha's trauma is just put on the sidelines. Ragatha faced abuse from her Mother, and we clearly see it affect her throughout the WHOLE SERIES; she's a people pleaser, she's worried about losing people, hell her own character design is made to show she's seen as an object, rather than a person. She gets tormented by Jax, and when Pomini gets close to Jax, she fears that Pomini would face the same fate as Ribbit. While Jax's is mostly about how he thinks he might've killed his mum. Sure, he's dad wasn't in the picture and he's mother said pretty nasty things to him, but he SHOVED HER, leading her not to wake up, indicating she's seriously injured or dead. THAT is MANSLAUGHTER, and he would've gotten charged. Ribbit's reaction to it was FLAWLESS; she was clearly shocked about what Jax said (Who wouldn't be?) and was worried about him BUT still kept that thought in the back of her head. She knew it was bad. If I was in that situation, I wouldn't be talking to that person anymore. However, Pomini sees it and doesn't acknowledge it. She doesn't think it's bad, or that Jax is a bad person. She thinks about JAX first, which I believe is wrong. Not to mention, Jax does the similar thing to Ribbit (and potentially Kaufmo). Now, as someone who has studied media, the thing I hated about Jax's trauma was that it was almost there to "lighten" the effect of Ribbit. When Jax was isolating Ribbit, he KNEW what he was doing. He was doing it intentionally, he WANTED Ribbit to be lonely and have no one to talk to. Whether he intended for it to abstract her OR the isolation was used for that sole purpose of not trying to get the information out, IT IS STILL WRONG. "Oh but Jax has trauma about his mum, so you shouldn't blame him for this". WHY?? It was the SAME situation; Jax says something which makes him vulnerable, the person's reaction to it, the person receiving the information and acting on it, Jax freaks out and it causes one KNOWN death and an injury/death. Sure, trauma may be an explanation for why someone does this but that doesn't take away the actions. I have had similar trauma with Jax and I have NEVER used violence as a way to react or to protect myself.

Another is how since Jax is now transfem, he's the LGBTQ+ icon of the cast. What about Zooble? A cast member who's DYSPHORIA is mentioned with the series. A cast member who has a journey of acceptance within themselves. I know this may sound controversial but when I was watching the show, not ONCE did I think Jax was transfem - I thought he was a character who used toxic masculinity as a way to his himself from wanting to be a more feminine man, as he believed it was wrong to be a feminine man. "Oh but you seen Jax as a maid, that means he's transfem!" If I was put in a maid dress, no matter my gender or sex, I would be EMBARRASSED - you're infront of a crowd of people and your wearing a revealing piece of clothing which now has sexual conitiations with it. "Oh but Jax has a pink room with girly things". You can be a man and like feminine things: pink, flowers, princessessy things! Your gender doesn't equal whether of not your feminine or masculine, or your aesthetic. I'm not aligned my birth gender, yet any label is comfortable on me. I dress feminine yet I LOVE gaming, getting dirty, causing a mess! "Oh but Jax is transfem because he bullies women". Are you fucking hearing yourselves?? That means every man who bullied me is a transfem!! The reason WHY MEN BULLY WOMEN is because they tend to be weaker and more vulnerable than MEN. Science shows this. I respect Gooseworx's choice and I have nothing against the trans community, but like let's be for real. How many of y'all thought Jax was trans BEFORE Gooseworx mentioned it? I didn't, not until Gooseworx mentioned it. However, when it came to ZOOBLE I knew Zooble was part of the LGBTQ+ community from the START.

"But Jax is transfem! If you don't like him, you're a transphobe!!" Oh, and we're gonna pretend that when the TADC community was forming, all you Jax fans were HATING Zooble for disliking Jax to the point were y'all were being enbyphobic/transphobic to ZOOBLE? Like I know it's not most of the Jax fans, BUT IT WAS A LARGE PORTION. Like y'all are hypercritical?

And that leads me to my final topic. I have NEVER met a community where it was SO BAD where fans of a character accused people of being SERIOUSLY BAD THINGS for not liking a character. Like that makes me SICK. That's why I don't associate with the fandom or the show, only the characters I like. This show ISN'T a kids show, however I believe that there are kids watching this show, just like HH or HB. Like these fans have NO idea what it is like dealing with a transphobe or facing ANY type of discrimination because if they did, they would know to shut their mouth and CARRY ON. They tell us, if we don't like it, we should block them but it can't be like this for this group? It LITERALLY says "If you're a fan of Jax DNI and block the group". But yet, they STILL come here. Yet, they STILL accuse us of shit we haven't done in our life. And yet they STILL accuse us to shut us up for not liking a character. They have their ENDLESS merch of Jax, more than the rest of the cast, here and for the future, they have their many, MANY groups that allow Jax fans to talk about Jax all they want, in a Jax only group or not, they get Jax in every little advert that GLITCH makes about the TADC AND they have the FINAL episode about Jax. But what do we have? Sure, there is merch for the rest of the cast, but characters like Zooble and Gangle don't have much. Sure, there are groups for our fav characters, and this group, and TADC groups, but they're still infested with Jax x whoever ships of our fav characters and they try and get rid of us from TADC groups. Sure, we have our fan songs, but there are not many like Jax fans songs.

We mention we don't like Jax, and they try to silence us. They mention they don't like us and they get applause. They tell us that we compare Jax to Hitler, we get told we're crazy, told that we're not true fans or that we clearly haven't watched the show. Yet Jax fans say they LOVE Jax's tummy, even though he's skinnier than a HEALTHY HUMAN BEING, or that Jax isn't a horrible person even though the media tells us that he is.

Look, like your fucking character. Enjoy him or whatever but what PISSES me of is when you accuse us of being a TRANSPHOBE, or ABLEIST, or whatever because WE DON'T LIKE JAX. Sure, some people here might be like that but that doesn't define us as a community. If you had accused me of being a transphobe or anything like that a year ago, I would've fought for my innocence, deleted Reddit, make a new account and claimed I loved Jax and joined all the different groups. I would do this out of FEAR, not fear of being a transphobe but because these things are SERIOUS. People can get charged for this. People can get doxxed for this. People can be harmed by this. And I wouldn't want that. But now, I'm more confident than ever and I don't care what you have to say to me. You don't know me and I don't know you. A character I like or dislike doesn't define what rights I'm not fighting for. As someone who hasn't been really affected by transphobia but has with ableism, PLEASE JAX FANS, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, STOP ACCUSING US OF THINGS BECAUSE WE DON'T LIKE JAX!

Hiya, I (18F) have been having an identity crisis for almost a month now - I've been thinking I'm possibly trans.

The thing is, I'm unsure. Currently, I identify as a demi-woman and I'm ok with that identity. I'm ok with being called a woman, I'm comfortable with being called she/her, so I don't understand this. When I was younger, sure, I wanted to be a boy. I was a bit masculine - I loved playing football, I loved playing with dinosaurs and cars, and I loved playing video games. But now that I'm older, I LOVE dressing feminine, but I still acted a LITTLE masculine.

When I think about me being a man, it almost makes me repulsive, I genuinely don't know why. But when I think about Charlie Spring from Heartstopper, I love the idea of me being like him. I completely understand that I don't have to identify as being masculine, in fact I would be a feminine man, if that was the case.

I guess, I'm hesitant. I don't really feel dysphoric about my body. When it comes to my breasts, it's a lovely and hate relationship with them; sometimes I love having them, making my body curvy yet because of my sensory issues (I'm disabled and neurodivergent) I would rather not have them.

If I was to get surgery or treatment for me being trans, I couldn't get hormonal treatment for medical reasons - it could be fatal for me. And, I don't know about bottom surgery, sometimes I'm happy about it, sometimes I'm disgusted by it.

I know I want to look like a male, facially but I'm not sure about changing my sex. If I picture myself as a man, I feel a little bit of joy. I don't know about name changing or pronouns - I'm unsure about those and my name is meaningful to me, I was named after my two grandmas.

I hope you can help me, and that I've provided enough information. If more is needed, I will be happy to help.

Hi there! I've had a problem for the past 6 months to a year with my fursona.

When I first created my fursona, it was a Border Collie with not too bright colours all across the rainbow. I had created many art of it because it was easy to draw, however I felt it was "basic" and was lacking things that made the fursona me. For a long time, I added different animal parts, from an extra part of bunny ears, to making it more dragon-like, to adding extra limbs. I would like each different design for a bit, before changing it because it was too complicated. Honestly, it got so bad that the only thing I have ever done with my fursona now is trying to make a new reference sheet.

For me, making a reference sheet would help me make more art of my character and hopefully, fingers crossed, get a pursuit but I keep changing the design to where I barely finish the front view before scratching it and doing another. I want my main fursona to be about me, the colours, my favourite animals, all that. I've watched countless videos and looked at websites to help me, but I'm still struggling.

I recently made another fursona that was based on my theriotype (I'm a Border Collie Holothere) and I have made many designs of her because she's so easy to draw. Yet, I don't want this to be my main fursona. The Holothere fursona is just a portrait of me as my theriotype and that's not what I want my main fursona to be.

I've come up with a new concept, but I sure need help.

\- For the species, I know I want the main species to be a Border Collie x Poodle mix, which I want to make it clear in the fursona, with the secondary being a unicorn. I don't know if I want to add a Rudolf type nose or those giraffe horns too though.

\- The colours, I got them!

\- For the fur pattern, I have NOOOOOOO clue 😭. I keep trying different fur patterns but nothing peaks my interests. I know the theme of my fursona I want, it's like rainbows and clouds and stuff.

\- Personality wise and other non-design, I got that covered.

So, I would like your help PRETTY PLEASEEE 😭🙏. Advice, concepts (with visuals if possible, it helps me learn better), commentary or anything, even about reference sheets, is welcome in open arms 🤗

Thank you for your time! ❤️

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Hi there! I've had a problem for the past 6 months to a year with my fursona.

When I first created my fursona, it was a Border Collie with not too bright colours all across the rainbow. I had created many art of it because it was easy to draw, however I felt it was "basic" and was lacking things that made the fursona me. For a long time, I added different animal parts, from an extra part of bunny ears, to making it more dragon-like, to adding extra limbs. I would like each different design for a bit, before changing it because it was too complicated. Honestly, it got so bad that the only thing I have ever done with my fursona now is trying to make a new reference sheet.

For me, making a reference sheet would help me make more art of my character and hopefully, fingers crossed, get a pursuit but I keep changing the design to where I barely finish the front view before scratching it and doing another. I want my main fursona to be about me, the colours, my favourite animals, all that. I've watched countless videos and looked at websites to help me, but I'm still struggling.

I recently made another fursona that was based on my theriotype (I'm a Border Collie Holothere) and I have made many designs of her because she's so easy to draw. Yet, I don't want this to be my main fursona. The Holothere fursona is just a portrait of me as my theriotype and that's not what I want my main fursona to be.

I've come up with a new concept, but I sure need help.

- For the species, I know I want the main species to be a Border Collie x Poodle mix, which I want to make it clear in the fursona, with the secondary being a unicorn. I don't know if I want to add a Rudolf type nose or those giraffe horns too though.

- The colours, I got them!

- For the fur pattern, I have NOOOOOOO clue 😭. I keep trying different fur patterns but nothing peaks my interests. I know the theme of my fursona I want, it's like rainbows and clouds and stuff.

- Personality wise and other non-design, I got that covered.

So, I would like your help PRETTY PLEASEEE 😭🙏. Advice, concepts (with visuals if possible, it helps me learn better), commentary or anything, even about reference sheets, is welcome in open arms 🤗

Thank you for your time! ❤️

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Hi, so I'm new to Tumblr and honestly, I'm overjoyed and overwhelmed by the design options. I know about colouring the background, the font, the font type, but I have seen pixel banners, and animated images on blogs and have no idea how to do that.

How do I do them and what other customisations are there? And how do I use Tumblr in general?

I have dyslexia, so there may be mistakes in my post.

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I (18NB) have recently, for the past few weeks to months, been feeling that I wasn't both genitally for the sexes, and I was wondering if anyone has felt the same?

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I know I want to look like a male and a female together, however the only way I can see myself doing that is getting hormonal treatment, which I can't get for medical reasons. I have been considering surgery, but the surgery I keep seeing is for males who have the male genitally and want the female genitally. Is there anything that could help this and any advice at all?

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Sorry if this is too short, but thanks for any advice given. 😁

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