Men are more mature than women
not sure it even is an unpopular opinion, but i often hear that men are so immature and they should act more like women and that the women actually are mature. Obviously what i mean to say is that some women do it, not all or even most of them and that there are more immature women than immature men
but here is my point of view:
you can find many definitions of psychological maturity online, such as:
the ability and willingness to take responsibility, and a desire for success
the ability to maintain long-term commitments, exercise sound judgment, and express humility and gratitude
and overall its agreed that maturity just means acting like an adult, not a child, and how do kids behave? Emotionally, without rationality and they are controlled by their emotions, they do not communicate and never acknowledge their mistakes, they dont self reflect and if the truth hurts they wont accept it
women are much needier than men, they need someone to open up to, they need to be showered with praise and attention, they need a partner to be patient for them because they know they are controlled by their emotions and never rational so they need their partner to be able to handle their lack of maturity, instead of being mature themselves. This is the biggest thing for me, women being overly emotional all the time and never thinking. They will say a million words but never ask anything because they expect you to know what they want, they have no communication skills at all, all they care about is their emotions and how they feel, no the situation itself
I gave all these exemples of how kids act earlier and i see this behavior in many women, from my family, in dating or any other situation: they are emotional, impulsive, entitled because they excpect you to do everything while they just sit around, when they are angry they wont tell you why instead they will just be mad to be mad, they have no patience and expect you to be patient for them, they want to spend all day socialising instead of working more and be mad if you dont want to bedrot all day long(in romantic relationships) and when you argue with them and they realise they are wrong they will just cry or get emotional and now the argument is about them their feelings and how much attention they want and they wont self reflect or change despite knowing they were wrong, you wont ever see a woman apologising or admitting it
the main reason i think people say men are immature is because they often act goofy but they just know how to have fun, and for some reason women hate to see men have fun without them so they will throw random words at them and call it immature, because if we look at the definition, clearly the average man is more mature than the average woman
now is it a problem? of course not but it just makes me laugh when i see women who fit every category i told you say that men act like babies when they are the type to start arguments because they need attention, and i wanted to see if the subject is interesting to others
thanks for your time