I just noticed that almost all of the guys I’ve talked to are usually earth and water signs. It’s like I really don’t attract air or fire men. My last ex was a Virgo and this new guy I’m talking to is a Capricorn. I guess it’s just something interesting I’ve noticed.
I recently just got out of a relationship near the end of last year, and about a week ago I just started talking to this new guy. Although it was short lived, everything seemed to be going fine. We shared similar interest and etc, then he found out that I still haven’t slept with anyone (I’m 22) and he reacted in a way that made me feel “less than” I guess. He said “No that’s crazy, I thought I was a loser but you may have me beat.” It’s something I’m already insecure about because I just don’t feel comfortable enough to do anything like that, especially because I have a past of molestation/sexual abuse. He also said that it was sad that i haven’t traveled the world aside from going to a few different states, and also criticized me for having not done drugs or being an alcoholic, saying that when we meet up he was going to get me high “one of these days” and all that. this guy is around 26 years old so he kept talking about how he has more experience than me, and was almost fixated on the fact that I only have one ex and haven’t been with anyone sexually.
It became very obvious that we aren’t aligned when it comes to morals or different lives whatsoever, and when talking to him I recall feeling very uncomfortable, nauseous even. He texted me just two days ago and I left him with a simple message stating that I didn’t want to continue on with this potential relationship. I haven’t heard from him since, but I still feel guilty in some way. Am I wrong?
I don’t know what it is, but even as a child I always felt from deep inside that I didn’t fit it with my peers, or anyone for that matter. Whenever I go out I hear and see people laughing at me or just looking with general disdain; and I don’t mean this in a narcissistic or self absorbed way. When I was younger I used to think it was my looks that were being made fun on, but I’m in my twenties now and it’s still happening, and I still have that same feeling of being different from other people
I’m having a difficult time moving on from a breakup I had a month ago, my ex seems to be doing perfectly fine on the other end
(He’s the blue I’m orange) I was only in a relationship with this person for a few months, but we’ve known eachother since we were teenagers/friends. It was extremely fast moving and emotionally intense from the beginning. I’ve never felt more consumed by a relationship, and I’m really struggling to let go of it for some reason. We don’t talk anymore, but what was it about this person that I felt absolutely obsessive over?
(I’m the orange and he’s the blue)
I have never felt more emotionally disturbed and resentful towards a person than I do about my ex, even though we’ve been broken up a month now I still cry over him, he still has leverage over my emotions and he knows this. There’s so many things that are left unanswered and it’s driving me insane because he absolutely refuses to communicate with me at all.
Me and my ex dated for almost a year, but this was a very emotionally draining relationship for me. I assumed that us both being Virgos and our birthdays only being 14 days apart, that things would move along easily. In the beginning he was very obsessive over me, he even showed me multiple poems he wrote about me, how he’d been watching me the past couple years, that I was his muse. (We’ve been friends the past 5 years) but there were multiple times where he’d gaslight me into feeling insane for spiraling due to his behavior, times where he’d purposely ignore me for hours with no warning, shutting me out emotionally, not complimenting me anymore, or seeming irritated with me, he is a very critical person. he then turned it around and said that my “spiraling” scared him and that he felt like a “cigarette” to me, therefore the relationship was unhealthy, leading to our breakup.
It’s been a month since we broke up but I genuinely feel like I’m under a spell. we agreed to stay friends, but a few weeks after he started calling me more and becoming more flirty and even staying on the phone with me for hours. But suddenly he’s started completely avoiding me and talking to everyone else normally (moving on with his life I guess) while lying to me. I feel like I’m still tethered to him somehow, he can ignore me and I’m still thinking about him 24/7, I feel completely obsessive over him now while he’s completely indifferent. Is this normal?
(I’m orange he’s blue)
Me and my ex dated for almost a year, but this was a very emotionally draining relationship for me. In the beginning he was very obsessive over me, he even showed me multiple poems he wrote about me, how he’d been watching me the past couple years, that I was his muse. (We’ve been friends the past 5 years) but there were multiple times where he’d gaslight me into feeling insane for spiraling due to his behavior, times where he’d purposely ignore me for hours with no warning or etc, not complimenting me anymore, or seeming irritated with me. he then turned it around and said that my “spiraling” scared him and that he felt like a “cigarette” to me, therefore the relationship was unhealthy, leading to our breakup.
It’s been a month since we broke up but I genuinely feel like I’m under a spell. we agreed to stay friends, but a few weeks after he started calling me more and becoming more flirty and even staying on the phone with me for hours. But suddenly he’s started completely avoiding me and talking to everyone else normally, while lying to me. I feel like I’m still tethered to him somehow, he can ignore me and I’m still thinking about him 24/7, I feel completely obsessive over him now while he’s completely indifferent.
(I’m orange he’s blue)
Me and my ex dated for almost a year, but this was a very emotionally draining relationship for me. In the beginning he was very obsessive over me, he even showed me multiple poems he wrote about me, how he’d been watching me the past couple years, that I was his muse. (We’ve been friends the past 5 years) but there were multiple times where he’d gaslight me into feeling insane for spiraling due to his behavior, times where he’d purposely ignore me for hours with no warning or etc, not complimenting me anymore, or seeming irritated with me. he then turned it around and said that my “spiraling” scared him and that he felt like a “cigarette” to me, therefore the relationship was unhealthy, leading to our breakup.
It’s been a month since we broke up but I genuinely feel like I’m under a spell. we agreed to stay friends, but a few weeks after he started calling me more and becoming more flirty and even staying on the phone with me for hours. But suddenly he’s started completely avoiding me and talking to everyone else normally, while lying to me. I feel like I’m still tethered to him somehow, he can ignore me and I’m still thinking about him 24/7, I feel completely obsessive over him now while he’s completely indifferent.