I broke no contact and refollowed him on social media, he immediately followed me back and called me early the next morning mentioning the follow and etc.
I feel like with the knight of swords rv this was a very ego driven impulse; nothing of genuine substance. Seven of cups/ten of pentacles makes me think there’s some disillusionment (maybe coming from my end) and then self serving behavior.
I made a post like this last time and it got taken down so I’ll try to be more cautious of my wording. Speaking for myself, It’s a common belief that I see and hear enough in my daily life that in order to be black you need two black parents. Makes enough sense obviously, I also hear “if you don’t have four black grandparents you’re not black”. And it’s not that I don’t agree with it but the disconnect comes when there’s the opportunity of a biracial (let’s say black and Asian for example) person having children with a fully black person.
Therefore these children would be 3/4th black 1/4 Asian , and seen otherwise as fully black by others. However their biracial parent is not “black” due to the belief I stated previously. So how would these children be black if they have a parent who isn’t even considered as one? With this exact logic, Barack Obama wouldn’t be considered black but his daughters are. And something else to point out, these children are only seen as mixed if they have a more ambiguous leaning phenotype; if leaning more black it’s “oh you’re just black not mixed; all black Americans are 25% white”.
Me and my ex had a very emotional conversation that turned into an argument regarding our relationship and why it ended and whatnot. Long story short he blames me for why the relationship went left despite him pushing away/not communicating, and said that my reactions to his distance made him feel bad for going through stuff/seeing how I’d spiral over him while we were dating and that I would freak out over him doing this.
I’m completely stumped as to what knight of pentacles/ace of swords could imply here, but without a doubt it’s a toxic dynamic with the tower reversed, there’s still some emotions present (?) the two of pentacles rv would make sense as he literally told me that he had a lot going on as far as work and living situations
This is about my ex, we broke up some time ago because he told me he couldn’t continue to provide me with what I needed in the relationship. His living/family situation was a pretty big stressor as well according to him, but he still checks in on me and says he misses me and all. I’m just curious on whether he still has romantic feelings for me and if we’ll ever reconnect again in that way?
I want to know if I genuinely lost my mind over him for no reason lol
This is about a family member of mine who I was sexually abused by for about three years. I haven’t been in contact with him for two years, and I’m genuinely wondering how he feels toward me considering our last interaction was very explosive and messy.
We agreed after we broke up to stay friends and to keep communicating, it was all good for a few weeks after but then I started noticing distance and coldness on his end, suddenly making time for everyone else but me. As of right now he’s completely stopped reaching out. I feel like with the sword heavy reading this is a very ugly situation, with the two of cups rv and seven of swords maybe there’s some unresolved conflict or emotions coming from his side?
This morning my ex called me around 5am, and we stayed on the phone for hours just talking about life and catching up a little. (we broke up about two months ago for context) during this call he came across as being very flirtatious and vulnerable with me.
My interpretation is with the knight of swords this was something he did on a whim; or in the moment especially since it was pretty early in the morning. The page of cups to me is immature energy, but also signals fondness, caring, nostalgia etc, he probably called me because he was feeling nostalgic or lonely even. The king of swords signals to me that he still is letting his emotions get in the way of his heart maybe? He does have some issues with his ego that were very Detrimental to the relationship. What do you all think?
(It’s not pictured above but I asked for a clarification card on what feelings he has surrounding me, and I pulled the page of cups again)
I just noticed that almost all of the guys I’ve talked to are usually earth and water signs. It’s like I really don’t attract air or fire men. My last ex was a Virgo and this new guy I’m talking to is a Capricorn. I guess it’s just something interesting I’ve noticed.
I recently just got out of a relationship near the end of last year, and about a week ago I just started talking to this new guy. Although it was short lived, everything seemed to be going fine. We shared similar interest and etc, then he found out that I still haven’t slept with anyone (I’m 22) and he reacted in a way that made me feel “less than” I guess. He said “No that’s crazy, I thought I was a loser but you may have me beat.” It’s something I’m already insecure about because I just don’t feel comfortable enough to do anything like that, especially because I have a past of molestation/sexual abuse. He also said that it was sad that i haven’t traveled the world aside from going to a few different states, and also criticized me for having not done drugs or being an alcoholic, saying that when we meet up he was going to get me high “one of these days” and all that. this guy is around 26 years old so he kept talking about how he has more experience than me, and was almost fixated on the fact that I only have one ex and haven’t been with anyone sexually.
It became very obvious that we aren’t aligned when it comes to morals or different lives whatsoever, and when talking to him I recall feeling very uncomfortable, nauseous even. He texted me just two days ago and I left him with a simple message stating that I didn’t want to continue on with this potential relationship. I haven’t heard from him since, but I still feel guilty in some way. Am I wrong?
I don’t know what it is, but even as a child I always felt from deep inside that I didn’t fit it with my peers, or anyone for that matter. Whenever I go out I hear and see people laughing at me or just looking with general disdain; and I don’t mean this in a narcissistic or self absorbed way. When I was younger I used to think it was my looks that were being made fun on, but I’m in my twenties now and it’s still happening, and I still have that same feeling of being different from other people
I’m having a difficult time moving on from a breakup I had a month ago, my ex seems to be doing perfectly fine on the other end
(He’s the blue I’m orange) I was only in a relationship with this person for a few months, but we’ve known eachother since we were teenagers/friends. It was extremely fast moving and emotionally intense from the beginning. I’ve never felt more consumed by a relationship, and I’m really struggling to let go of it for some reason. We don’t talk anymore, but what was it about this person that I felt absolutely obsessive over?
(I’m the orange and he’s the blue)
I have never felt more emotionally disturbed and resentful towards a person than I do about my ex, even though we’ve been broken up a month now I still cry over him, he still has leverage over my emotions and he knows this. There’s so many things that are left unanswered and it’s driving me insane because he absolutely refuses to communicate with me at all.
Me and my ex dated for almost a year, but this was a very emotionally draining relationship for me. I assumed that us both being Virgos and our birthdays only being 14 days apart, that things would move along easily. In the beginning he was very obsessive over me, he even showed me multiple poems he wrote about me, how he’d been watching me the past couple years, that I was his muse. (We’ve been friends the past 5 years) but there were multiple times where he’d gaslight me into feeling insane for spiraling due to his behavior, times where he’d purposely ignore me for hours with no warning, shutting me out emotionally, not complimenting me anymore, or seeming irritated with me, he is a very critical person. he then turned it around and said that my “spiraling” scared him and that he felt like a “cigarette” to me, therefore the relationship was unhealthy, leading to our breakup.
It’s been a month since we broke up but I genuinely feel like I’m under a spell. we agreed to stay friends, but a few weeks after he started calling me more and becoming more flirty and even staying on the phone with me for hours. But suddenly he’s started completely avoiding me and talking to everyone else normally (moving on with his life I guess) while lying to me. I feel like I’m still tethered to him somehow, he can ignore me and I’m still thinking about him 24/7, I feel completely obsessive over him now while he’s completely indifferent. Is this normal?
(I’m orange he’s blue)
Me and my ex dated for almost a year, but this was a very emotionally draining relationship for me. In the beginning he was very obsessive over me, he even showed me multiple poems he wrote about me, how he’d been watching me the past couple years, that I was his muse. (We’ve been friends the past 5 years) but there were multiple times where he’d gaslight me into feeling insane for spiraling due to his behavior, times where he’d purposely ignore me for hours with no warning or etc, not complimenting me anymore, or seeming irritated with me. he then turned it around and said that my “spiraling” scared him and that he felt like a “cigarette” to me, therefore the relationship was unhealthy, leading to our breakup.
It’s been a month since we broke up but I genuinely feel like I’m under a spell. we agreed to stay friends, but a few weeks after he started calling me more and becoming more flirty and even staying on the phone with me for hours. But suddenly he’s started completely avoiding me and talking to everyone else normally, while lying to me. I feel like I’m still tethered to him somehow, he can ignore me and I’m still thinking about him 24/7, I feel completely obsessive over him now while he’s completely indifferent.