u/Top_Star_1098

I have a boyfriend who’s genuinely a great guy, he’s very kind and he loves me a lot but the sex isn’t that good. There’s another guy I occasionally hook up with, and the sexual chemistry between us is honestly amazing. And whenever I have sex with my boyfriend, I can’t help thinking about the other guy afterwards. I don’t know what to do..what should i do😭😭

Recommend me best pizza place in Manchester!!
I’ve already been to rudy’s

I met this guy on Hinge and we had our first date at a pub. He walked me home afterwards, and I felt like there was something between us. We had our first kiss outside my house and it felt really nice.

We met again four days later( he asked me to meet again) He asked if I wanted to go into town or go back to mine, and I said we could go to mine. We had sex, then cuddled and fell asleep together before he left.

About a week later, he texted me again. We met in the evening, had sex, and he stayed the night at mine.

After that, he would occasionally message me things like “How are you?”, “You doing much this week?” or “What are you doing this week?”, but we never actually made any proper plans. The conversations would usually go on for a bit and then just die out. However, he would still message me every 1–2 weeks, and I’ve never initiated contact with him.

There was one time when he was supposed to come over to mine in the evening, but he just didn’t show up and didn’t message me at all. I didn’t message him either. Then, after that, he randomly came back as if nothing had happened, asking things like “You been up to much?”

Then yesterday evening, he suddenly messaged me again, came over to mine, and we had sex. Afterwards, he asked if I wanted him to stay the night, but I told him he didn’t have to.

I genuinely have no idea what he wants or how he feels about me. Does he actually like me, or is he just keeping me around for sex? I’m finding his behaviour really confusing.
He’s 26 and I’m 22.
This has been going on for almost three months now, which makes the whole situation even more confusing to me.

This keeps happening with guys I sleep with. They’re not virgins, but when they have sex with me for the first time, they sometimes lose their erection and then get hard again and lose again like this..Why does this keep happening? Could it be because of me?
Add: He’s hard during oral, but when we try to have sex afterwards, he goes soft, gets hard again, then goes soft again. It keeps happening like that
For more context, I’m 21 and blonde. Not to brag, but I don’t think I look too bad And they’re the ones who approached me first, and this still happens i am so confused

First day at Burger King in UK tomorrow 😭 someone please give me some tips, I’m proper nervous haha. It’s my first ever job 😭