u/Traditional-Door-194

ive had bad pain on my lower right side for three days but she just wont fucking take me. im too scared to call an ambulance myself because it costs money and she’ll be so so so angry at me but it hurts so fucking bad. i dont have anyone else to take me, either and im 17 so theyd just call her. it gets worse when i lift my leg and jm so terrified i know i sound like a pussy but it wont stop. i cant stop crying i just wish she would help me instead of getting angry. should i just wait until monday when she goes to work and fake a story ???? wedont have ubers or busses around here either and those cost money too

edit: hey guys, it was a bowel obstruction. finally got her to take me and as i suspected there was something wrong and i wasnt crazy

i know easy solution “just cut it anyway” but i feel guilty because yeah, it does look good on me — the grown out mullet, but i feel like it hinders my passing. short hair doesnt look the best on me i will admit but i got misgendered less irl. it just sucks so bad i wish i didnt care about how attractive i looked and just did things for myself. everytime i do something that i feel makes me look more masculine i notice people are more disappointed with me, it sucks.

materials used: small rubber band, bikini straps (any string works just make sure its strong), band of old boxers

what i did

1. cut a band off of an old pair of boxers, make sure its not loose. i made sure mine was tight

2. cut down the middle

3. cut off the strings from something, make sure its strong and easy to stretch. i used bikini straps

4. poke a hole on the sides where the middle was cut, only big enough to take the strings through. i barely left any room for mine

5. take the rubber band and the unused side of the string, knot it to the rubber band on each side very tightly

6. get into it, adjust the part of the string that went through the hole to make it fit your body. i made sure it was tight. adjust to liking

7. tie a knot, TIGHT

8. once youre sure its secure, cut the excess string off

9. put your packer through the rubber band, if it has balls make sure its behind the band with the penis over it ykwim

10. wear it! i jumped around a lot to make sure it was fine. i wore this under a tight pair of briefs for extra security before sliding on an actual pair of boxers

this might not work for everyone, but i hope it can help! this is just what i had on hand and what worked for me

i had a picture but i couldnt find a sub that allows them ;; sorry