u/Traditional_Bat_7477

This makes me sad to say but I have to say it. Due to my busy schedule and me getting bored of training the same things over and over again after almost a decade, I've decided to stop training Karate to make time for other martial arts that interest me more.

It sucks that I don't have time to do it anymore since I've been training at the same place for a long long time since I was a kid but I'm also really looking forward to trying new things.

Just wanted to rant.

I was talking to this girl for a couple of weeks and hung out a few times with her before our first date. For some reason, she blocked me right before we were supposed to meet up and never showed up. I feel so sad because we actually got along really well. She made it very clear that she was interested in me romantically with the reels she sent, body language and reciprocating when I flirted. She texted me good morning and good night every day.

I don't know why she would block me right before we are supposed to go on our first date. I assume her parents found out, even though they knew I existed before but maybe they didn't know we had a romantic thing going on. I've learnt to move faster when she was giving me clear hints.

One of my regrets is that I didn't trust my gut and made her wait too long, though she didn't really seem to mind.

My deepest regret is that the last time I saw her I didn't say goodbye properly. I was in a rush to get somewhere and I said a brief "See you later." She said "Bye" to me 3 times and then walked away. 3 Times. If I'd have known it was the last time I'd see her I would have turned around and gave her a proper hug and looked at her face properly and said goodbye properly. I deeply regret not doing that and I will never forgive myself for that.

I was talking to this girl for a couple of weeks and hung out a few times with her before our first date. For some reason, she blocked me right before we were supposed to meet up and never showed up. I feel so sad because we actually got along really well. She made it very clear that she was interested in me romantically with the reels she sent, body language and reciprocating when I flirted. She texted me good morning and good night every day.

I don't know why she would block me right before we are supposed to go on our first date. I assume her parents found out, even though they knew I existed before but maybe they didn't know we had a romantic thing going on. I've learnt to move faster when she was giving me clear hints.

One of my regrets is that I didn't trust my gut and made her wait too long, though she didn't really seem to mind.

My deepest regret is that the last time I saw her I didn't say goodbye properly. I was in a rush to get somewhere and I said a brief "See you later." She said "Bye" to me 3 times and then walked away. If I'd have known it was the last time I'd see her I would have turned around and gave her a proper hug and looked at her face properly. I deeply regret not doing that.

Do you guys think self taught martial arts a good? In my opinion you need a good coach to get good at martial arts but then again some people like Andy Le from martial club are really good yet is self taught.

What do you guys think?

Almost a week ago after she saw my short action film that I acted in and directed she DMed me and we hit it off. We message for around 2 hours a day. I want to hang out with her first and then maybe ask her out on a date eventually. She's showing all the good signs; texting first, rescheduled when we couldn't meet up, and invited me to her birthday party. I try to ask some deeper questions so we have a deeper connection.

But she calls me 'Bro' sometimes, very rarely so I don't know if that's a good or bad sign. We do some light flirting like I called her pretty once and she wants to hug me when we do meet up.

What do I do from here? How do I make her not lose interest and eventually date her?

I think it's Jam since everybody picks it to dance to but what do you guys think?