Hi! My Fiance got into the Crime & Intelligence Analysis Program and I wanted to make him a gift basket as a congrats. I can't find any hoodies for this program specifically and custom will take over a month to get. I wanted to make him this gift this week. Any tips? Anyone with a secondhand hoodie I can buy in a Men's Medium-Large?
Salam,
My husband and I are trying for pregnancy. Tomorrow we are going in for a blood test. I’ve made lots of dua, but I did want to ask for anyone here to make dua for me and my husband that we receive a positive test inshallah and inshallah a happy and healthy child.
If there’s anything I can do right now to aid in my duas please let me know. I am extremely anxious about it. I am also confused on how to make dua for when you give charity (sorry I’m relearning Islam, my family was not religious growing up and my husband is a revert so we are learning together) and any advice anyone would have on that.
Jazakallah ❤️
I have so many symptoms and had spotting two days ago. I know it’s probably just PMS anyways.
So I am currently around 8-10 days DPO and I feel insane. I have the worst pressure cramps in my hips, lower back, and abdomen, I had light spotting, I feel so insanely fatigued like after 2 steps I felt like I was gonna pass out and today I had over 10 hours of sleep and feel like I could pass out any minute. Yesterday morning I had an insane gushing feeling which was this super watery milky discharge that looks like throat mucus that I’ve never had before and there was so much it started going on my thighs. And for the two days before that I had insane vaginal dryness that I’ve never had before. I had a crazy vivid dream last night too where I was pregnant but ALOT of weird shit happened and I could feel a touch everything it was so real. I’m also so all over the place, I literally can’t think straight. I’m peeing like 3 times every two hours. I’m super gassy. It’s driving me crazy. I thought you don’t really have symptoms until a missed period.
I have no idea why this is happening, has anyone else experienced this? I went to the doctors and they’re recommending a full blood test in 1-2 weeks. I’m scared though I’m just gonna be disappointed again and get my period :( I’ve literally just never felt like this before, especially at this point in my cycle it’s so irregular for me.
I also had unprotected sex twice the day after I had egg white discharge and he finished both times.
Salam everyone,
My husband and I are trying to have a child and have been facing some difficulties. I would really appreciate it if you could keep me in your duas, especially that Allah blesses me with a pregnancy this month, inshaAllah.
I trust in Allah’s timing and know He will grant what is best when the time is right, but I would be so grateful for your prayers during this time.
Jazakum Allahu khayran 🤍
My partner is 32 and is recovering from both of his patellar tendons tearing completely a little over two years ago. He had surgery and has come a long way since then. He can walk normally now and is pretty active again, but things like stairs still bother him, and running has been really difficult.
The issue is that his job requires him to be athletic and able to do dynamic movements like running and quick direction changes, so this is kind of essential for his career. He works out almost every day and is really consistent with doing what he can on his end.
From my side, I have been trying to support him however I can:
I just feel like there has to be more I can do to actually help his recovery and not just the basics. I do not want to miss something that could make a difference, especially since it has already been a long recovery.
If anyone has experience with patellar tendon injuries, especially full ruptures, or has supported someone through it:
Would really appreciate any advice or insight.
I’m posting this for my friend because she’s really stressed and I honestly don’t think she’s crazy for questioning this.
So here’s the situation:
My friend has been seeing this guy for a while. He’s been on testosterone (TRT) for several months.
During that same time:
- He was also seeing another girl from late last year until around February
- They only saw each other about every two weeks for a couple days
- That girl says she was on birth control (pill or IUD) the whole time
- They had been having sex for months even before he started testosterone, and her birth control never failed before
Now here’s where it gets weird:
My friend:
- Actually moved in with him during this time
- They were having unprotected sex basically daily for months
- She was not on birth control at all (never was)
- They were also hitting her fertile window regularly
- She has regular cycles, no known fertility issues, and women in her family tend to get pregnant easily
- She still never got pregnant
Now suddenly:
- The other girl is claiming she’s pregnant from January/February
- This is also about 2 months after she found out my friend had moved in with him
Which is basically when things between my friend and him got more serious. I’m not saying anything is impossible. He doesn’t use condoms (ICK), so yeah, pregnancy can technically happen.
But from the outside, this just feels like a lot of unlikely things lining up at once:
- TRT lowering fertility
- Birth control randomly failing when it hadn’t before
- Them barely seeing each other
- Meanwhile nothing happening with my friend despite basically daily, unprotected sex
- And the timing lining up a month after she found out things got more serious with my friend (she always knew about her, situation is messy I don’t like it. They’re both dumb asf)
I’ll be honest, I already think the guy is kind of an ick and I’m trying to convince her to leave him regardless 😭 but I still want to give her fair, realistic advice. I have no idea if the other girl kept the baby or not or is still deciding.
So from an outside perspective:
Does this actually make sense biologically, or would you also feel like something is off here? Like to me it makes no sense. Like oh you both are some crazy statistical anomaly? Idk man
I’m posting this for my friend because she’s really stressed and I honestly don’t think she’s crazy for questioning this.
So here’s the situation:
My friend has been seeing this guy for a while. He’s been on testosterone (TRT) for several months.
During that same time:
- He was also seeing another girl from late last year until around February
- They only saw each other about every two weeks for a couple days
- That girl says she was on birth control (pill or IUD) the whole time
- They had been having sex for months even before he started testosterone, and her birth control never failed before
Now here’s where it gets weird:
My friend:
- Actually moved in with him during this time
- They were having unprotected sex basically daily for months
- She was not on birth control at all (never was)
- They were also hitting her fertile window regularly
- She has regular cycles, no known fertility issues, and women in her family tend to get pregnant easily
- She still never got pregnant
Now suddenly:
- The other girl is claiming she’s pregnant from January/February
- This is also about 2 months after she found out my friend had moved in with him
Which is basically when things between my friend and him got more serious. I’m not saying anything is impossible. He doesn’t use condoms (ICK), so yeah, pregnancy can technically happen.
But from the outside, this just feels like a lot of unlikely things lining up at once:
- TRT lowering fertility
- Birth control randomly failing when it hadn’t before
- Them barely seeing each other
- Meanwhile nothing happening with my friend despite basically daily, unprotected sex
- And the timing lining up a month after she found out things got more serious with my friend (she always knew about her, situation is messy I don’t like it. They’re both dumb asf)
I’ll be honest, I already think the guy is kind of an ick and I’m trying to convince her to leave him regardless 😭 but I still want to give her fair, realistic advice. I have no idea if the other girl kept the baby or not or is still deciding.
So from an outside perspective:
Does this actually make sense biologically, or would you also feel like something is off here? Like to me it makes no sense.