Was thinking of getting some subtle raccoon stripes in my hair but unsure of where to go? Anyone know of someone that's really good with color in corvallis and comfortable doing something like this? I tried looking at different galleries but didn't see any stripes.
For some context: Im house sitting with my boyfriend while my parents are away. Last night i found a June beetle and let it crawl on my face and wanted to take some cool album cover pictures of it because i thought it would be cool. I havent seen the pictures my boyfriend took on his phone but some of the ones i took turned out cool.
Fast forward to today we are hanging out in the living room, hes playing guitar but stops to send me a photo he thought was cute/funny based on how he was acting when sending it. I look at my phone but noticed it was sent to a groupchat we are in which is just our roomates who im very close with, we have all known eachother since highschool. I look at the picture and yeah, its just me with a june bug on my face and im taking a picture of it with my phone. Idk like it wasnt anything special and i just didnt really like the way i looked in the photo so i asked him if he could unsend it and not share it. I also told him if he wants to keep it its fine i just dont want it shared. He then tasked me why i wanted it deleted and i told him again i just didnt like how i looked in it. I dont think he understood that because he told me i looked beautiful and happy and i shouldnt feel that way. Which i then said that i understand thats how he feels but i feel differently about the picture and i just wanted it unsent. We kind of got stuck in this loop because he kept asking for a reason and i kept telling him i just wanted him to respect my wishes and i felt like that should be a good enough reason. I cant remember this next part in full detail but he told me if thats the only reason he will then use that same reasoning for future arguments that he feels like he just want his boundaries respected? And i mean thats fine but what does that have to do with this situation? He also brought up past arguments saying i did something and him saying he just wanted his wishes respected wasnt enough? Idk its hard to remember all the fine details. I started breaking down here because it just felt like no trust was being built and he was going to use something against me in the future. It didnt feel like the situation was being solved. I told him this while i started crying and covering my eyes because i didnt want to be emotional i just wanted to say what i felt like i needed to say. He then gets up and tells me i need to calm down and hes taking space. So here i am on the couch typing this out and crying.
Oh i forgot to add somewhere in there he said this is why he doesnt post me on social media/instagram. I told him that if he wanted to post me i would like him to show and ask me if its ok to post that picture of me. And i was also confused on why he felt that way because prior he has told me he doesnt post me on social media because he doesnt like sharing his personal life and doesnt use it often. Which is totally fine, like it would feel great to be posted and seen but since he never really ever liked posting on social media, its ok. Idk this whole thing just sucks.
My bf tried rubbing what we thought was substrate off of her mouth with a q-tip, but nothing came off. Im worried its the start of mouth rot. Her humidity stays around 80 while the warm side is 88 and cool side is 76. Shes in a bioactive enclosure with organic manure free top soil mixed with coconut chips, spagnum moss and play sand. There are tons of plants and hides, she stays in her warm hide and doesnt use the others( atleast during the day, she lives exploring at night). Shes also a super well eater and has never refused a rat.
So i looked in my ball pythons enclosure and ants decided to move in. I took her out and i just dont know what to do. They mustve done this over night i had seen no sign of them prior to this. Theres eggs. Is it over for me? Do i need to redo the entire enclosure? Can i jusy set out ant traps outside the enclosure and wait for them to all die and then put her back in? Please help.
Is this worth it? He said he would deliver to me for 200 total. I just dont know if that carburetor is fixable or if the hole in the deck is a major problem