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We have been together for almost a year, we met in our friends group. A few weeks ago he accidentally hurt me during s*x and I lost my interest in continuing the act. He first apologized but then started to make me feel bad about stopping by saying "don't be like that, it just hurted for a moment"... then when I still refused to continue, he started to get angry and in the end he said "then f.. someone else".

A few days ago we also argued about some bullsh… and he said to me that my ex probably left me cause I'm always arguing. When I said it wasn't true, he said "then beg him to take you back". He also pointed out how much money he spent on me (delivery food etc which was always his idea) and said “I guess u didn’t mind thaaat”

Since I'm finishing university in a few weeks and I need to study in peace, I asked him to move to his family until I graduate. Of course he said he was sorry and he didn’t mean it and that “he is not like this and he wants to prove it”. I still sent him away..

I mostly think about breaking up but honestly, I'm somehow still not sure..

We have been chatting every day since,and I can see him trying really hard to earn my trust back but I just can’t believe that he could change.. I believe he is a nice guy but this is just unaccaptable for me

TL;DR: is this verbal abuse? He’s 27M and I’m 25F

We have been together for almost a year, we met in our friends group. A few weeks ago he accidentally hurt me during s*x and I lost my interest in continuing the act. He first apologized but then started to make me feel bad about stopping by saying "don't be like that, it just hurted for a moment"... then when I still refused to continue, he started to get angry and in the end he said "then f.. someone else".

A few days ago we also argued about some bullsh… and he said to me that my ex probably left me cause I'm always arguing. When I said it wasn't true, he said "then beg him to take you back". He also pointed out how much money he spent on me (delivery food etc which was always his idea) and said “I guess u didn’t mind thaaat”

Since I'm finishing university in a few weeks and I need to study in peace, I asked him to move to his family until I graduate. Of course he said he was sorry and he didn’t mean it and that “he is not like this and he wants to prove it”. I still sent him away..

I mostly think about breaking up but honestly, I'm somehow still not sure..

We have been chatting every day since,and I can see him trying really hard to earn my trust back but I just can’t believe that he could change.. I believe he is a nice guy but this is just unaccaptable for me

TL;DR: is this verbal abuse? He’s 27M and I’m 25F

Long story short: We have been together for almost a year, we met in our friends group. He is handsome but not my usual type, BUT it didn't matter cause I felt like he makes me laugh, he seemed emotionally intelligent. It's also important that maybe I started to date him too early (6 months) after my previous relationship (3 years) ended. I felt like my ex was the perfect man for me and we never hurted each other, he just "lost feelings". My current bf knew from the beginning that I have a hard time letting go of my past, since I felt really "myself" in that relationship. Maybe it's not fair but I wanted to try and have a new relationship and also being honest about my struggles.

So a few months ago, I started to really feel that me and my bf are not really a match. Not in music, not in an intellectual level etc. A few weeks ago he accidentally hurt me during s*x and I lost my interest in continuing the act. He first apologized but then started to make me feel bad about stopping by saying "don't be like that, it just hurted for a moment"... then when I still refused to continue, he started to get angry and in the end he said "then fuck someone else". He also pointed out how much money he spent on me.. (I never asked for anything)

A few days ago we also argued about some bullsh*t and he said to me that my ex probably left me cause I'm always arguing. When I said it wasn't true, he said "then beg him to take you back".

Since I'm finishing university in a few weeks and I need to study in peace, I asked him to move to his mother until I graduate. The thing is, he leaves in a few days, but since I told him this, he started to act nicely and apologized for his behaviour.

I mostly think about breaking up but honestly, I'm somehow still not sure. Do you think he is going to act like this in the future? Cause I do..

Long story short: We have been together for almost a year, we met in our friends group. He is handsome but not my usual type, BUT it didn't matter cause I felt like he makes me laugh, he seemed emotionally intelligent. It's also important that maybe I started to date him too early (6 months) after my previous relationship (3 years) ended. I felt like my ex was the perfect man for me and we never hurted each other, he just "lost feelings". My current bf knew from the beginning that I have a hard time letting go of my past, since I felt really "myself" in that relationship. Maybe it's not fair but I wanted to try and have a new relationship and also being honest about my struggles.

So a few months ago, I started to really feel that me and my bf are not really a match. Not in music, not in an intellectual level etc. A few weeks ago he accidentally hurt me during s*x and I lost my interest in continuing the act. He first apologized but then started to make me feel bad about stopping by saying "don't be like that, it just hurted for a moment"... then when I still refused to continue, he started to get angry and in the end he said "then fuck someone else". He also pointed out how much money he spent on me.. (I never asked for anything)

A few days ago we also argued about some bullsh*t and he said to me that my ex probably left me cause I'm always arguing. When I said it wasn't true, he said "then beg him to take you back".

Since I'm finishing university in a few weeks and I need to study in peace, I asked him to move to his mother until I graduate. The thing is, he leaves in a few days, but since I told him this, he started to act nicely and apologized for his behaviour.

I mostly think about breaking up but honestly, I'm somehow still not sure. Do you think he is going to act like this in the future? Cause I do..