u/UnderstandingMore286

So I've had afnan supremacy ce for a while now and while do enjoy the opening, I'm not a fan of the dry down. Been thinking of selling it to get hawas kobra or hawas black for a while now. Should I do it? I barely use it and I feel like someone else might enjoy it more than I do.

So I've had afnan supremacy ce for a while now and while I do enjoy the opening, I'm not a fan of the dry down. Been thinking of selling it to get hawas kobra or hawas black for a while now. Should I do it?

Dead ex, i hope you're doing well. I wasn't planning on texting you, for a while I considered doing this face to face but I had no choice but to text you and try to address whatever's going on. I mean no harm and I don't want to say anything that'd be hurtful, that is not really my intention here.

I just want to say sorry for the way things ended between us, for all the promises left unfulfilled, all the hurt that followed. I wasn't the best one to begin with, I know I wasn't the best boyfriend, I had my fair share of issues and I messed up countless times just like you but it's already been two years. I'm not reaching out to point fingers at you or make you feel bad.

The sole reason I'm doing this is because I know you're hurting, you think I'm the reason you lost our mutual friends, that I'm the reason they stopped talking to you, that I screwed up our relationship

I don't blame you for talking to people or venting, that's totally okay and I'm not the one who'd stop you from doing that but it never ends. The void, the pain, the emptiness. It only gets better when one accepts things for the way they are, for accepting people for who they were. I had my fair share of flaws. You weren't perfect either. I tried to fight it, constantly told myself the WHAT IFs but it doesn't change a thing or make it better. The thing is we both screwed things up what we had.

I'm sorry for my part, not being there for you as I should've been, for making you feel that others mattered more than you, or for whatever reasons you felt I wasn't good enough to begin with. But please for your own well being, try to forgive me and try focusing on your own life, your own goals and ambitions, things you wanted to do, because that's the only way it'll get better, not by constantly pulling yourself back into the rabbit hole of thinking about shit between us.

Now I do hope you'll percieve it in well intentions but if you feel like telling me that I'm not that important that you'd think about me, I understand and I'd also appreciate it if you don't say that because I didn't text you for a fight. I know we fought alot and we could've handled things better but we both messed things up.

You did try your best, so did I but sometimes it's for the better if things end. I wish you nothing but the best and I hope you actually heal from things and hurt I might've caused you.

Take care and bye.

So I dated a woman for 4 years. She cheated within the first three months and well I stayed for the entire span of 4 years hoping she'd change, but it only got worse. It was my naivety that treating her right would change her. Anyways I got to know today that she's with the guy she hated, and apparently she was seen being intimate with him

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Frankly, when I heard it, it was funny like I felt like laughing my lungs out. Part of me felt sad for a while, out of the habit of letting everything get to my head but eventually I did realize this is exactly what's wrong with her. She'd run to anyone just to fill the void inside her. She ran to me because of a guy before me just because I was trying to be there for her. She ran back to him while things were messy between us, she went to another guy because why tf not? and now she's with the guy she hated during the entire time we were together. I just feel sad for her. She's built her relations with people on whoever validates her and doesn't challenge her. She's lost all our mutual friends. People don't see her as a good person, or at least that's what I've heard, not that I care.

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Part of me sometimes still gets pissed off, kind of an ego thing atp honestly that I knew better and still allowed it perhaps because I wanted it to be her. Nevertheless I don't care if he keeps her happy or whatever, the thing is these kind of people always always end up losing people because they don't have a moral compass. They just go wherever the winds take them and wherever it's convenient. Take this as a sign in case you're struggling to move on that you deserve better, you know better, don't be so hard on yourself and focus on being the best version of yourself. You'll find better people, as long as you believe in it.

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Much love❤️

Not sure if I should sell it or not considering the amount I paid. It's not doing it for me. Not really a fan of the dry down tbh and I've plenty of other fragrances that I reach for more often.

I'm not sure if it's the right group to talk about this, but the pain is too much for me to deal with so deal with me.

So, me and my ex were together for 4 years. She was micro-cheating (texting other guys behind my back, lying to me about having any kind of connection or communication with them). The sad part is, it happened the first time within three months of us getting together and when I confronted her, she told me not to dig too much into it. Following on, she'd lie often and everytime I'd confront her she'd tell me I'm wrong for not trusting her. The entire 4 years were honestly painful and miserable for me. I kept giving all I had untill there was nothing to give.... And then the shoe dropped and she asked me it's better if we call it off. I tried once talking her out of it while she asked me to call it off and when she said no we can't make things work. I just agreed and left. She was outside my department the next day to talk (we work at the same place).

The next 6 months were full of mixed signals untill she eventually decided she no longer wants to do anything with me and told me nothing could happen between us. The funny thing is, all our mutuals have cut her off, they see her for who she is but I'm still struggling to get over it. I'm hurt, struggling, in pain. Everytime I see her, my heart drops in my chest, I feel like I'm about to faint, I feel claustrophobic, like the world is collapsing around me. I saw her the other day, she looked beautiful, more than when we were together, she looked happy and it pissed me off that how could she? How does she get to live a happy life, be content with everything, have her shit together when I'm the one still suffering, still trying to heal, still trying to get over shit while she just gets to thrive. It's unfair.

It's really unfair. Where's the justice. The karma. The WHATEVER GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. I want her to admit she fucked up, admit that the way she treated me was wrong, admit she's miserable. I want her to own to her mistakes. I know I'll never get any of it but it just sucks and hurts knowing I gave all of myself and still got left.

Y'all might not remember I posted about it being weak asf when I bought it in the middle of March.

Well it's May and it's still the same. I can't smell it after the first five minutes except for the mossy spicy dry down that's supposed to arrive hours later. The scent improved a little, maybe. Still smells like those citrusy cleaners mostly. Can barely get any pineapple.

Anyone else had this issue with 26 batch?

Hi. Happy birthday I guess. I hope you've been well, healing, being a better person, working towards things you've wanted to achieve.

I don't intent on typing a long note, didn't even consider writing to you but I was going through my notes app and found last remnant of our memories together, it was full of stuff I wrote for you over the years, important dates of different events, the details don't really matter tbh considering it's in the past. So I thought I'd wish you a happy birthday for old times sake.

I hope you've actually been well. Not just pretending and faking to be okay. I know you lost your friends and part of you probably hates me for it, and I know it must be difficult surrounded by people you didn't like once. I hope you've grown to like the people you've around.

I know you had a difficult life and part of the reason you're the way you're is because of everything you went through but I hope and pray you're trying to be a better person. I remember you telling me about how everyone leaves you and now that I look back at our time together, alot of it makes sense why they did. You just had a life that made you the way you were and the way people got treated because of it wasn't okay.

I hope you find someone who doesn't ever have to feel the way I did with you, who makes sure don't ever actually need someone else to keep you entertained while he's away, who actually changes you in ways you never thought, makes you into a better person, and keeps you happy. Part of me hoped it'd me but I knew from the start it wouldn't work. I stayed and tried. Guess it wasn't meant to be. I hope you've healed from whatever we had and are doing well.

Wishing you all the best once again. And don't bother replying. I'd probably block you again once I've sent the text because I don't want to go back or even give any space for talking between us two considering it is the best for both of us. May you prosper in every endeavor of your life and achieve everything you've ever wanted to.

As the title says, I hate my ex. She micro cheated on me for four years, never took accountability for her actions and kept me in trauma and didn't leave or let me leave. I should've left sooner but I didn't.

She claimed she loved me, that I'd be the only one for her but her actions never showed it. She always had someone lurking around, someone to keep her company when I was away. She wanted me to not do things she was herself doing. I was miserable and honestly I hate myself for staying.

My heart still drops in my chest every time I see her at work. It ruins my mood. It's been two years since we broke up. All of our mutual friends left her because they saw the person she was. But why can't I let go? Why am I still hung up on her. Why do I still feel like I wasn't enough? Why did she treat me so badly? Why did she leave?

I'm trying everyday to be strong, to show I don't care but I do. It hurts me every day knowing I'd have given anything for her but she just didn't want to stay for one guy. She ruined my perception of love and now I hate every woman there is.

She looks like she's got her life together, that she's happy. Part of me still misses her, wishes she'd come back and apologize but I know I'd never take her back. I guess I just wish she'd take accountability. She's already facing consequences of her actions so why am I the one suffering while she's living her life to the fullest?

As the title says, I hate my ex. She micro cheated on me for four years, never took accountability for her actions and kept me in trauma and didn't leave or let me leave. I should've left sooner but I didn't.

She claimed she loved me, that I'd be the only one for her but her actions never showed it. She always had someone lurking around, someone to keep her company when I was away. She wanted me to not do things she was herself doing. I was miserable and honestly I hate myself for staying.

My heart still drops in my chest every time I see her at work. It ruins my mood. It's been two years since we broke up. All of our mutual friends left her because they saw the person she was. But why can't I let go? Why am I still hung up on her. Why do I still feel like I wasn't enough? Why did she treat me so badly? Why did she leave?

I'm trying everyday to be strong, to show I don't care but I do. It hurts me every day knowing I'd have given anything for her but she just didn't want to stay for one guy. She ruined my perception of love and now I hate every woman there is.

She looks like she's got her life together, that she's happy. Part of me still misses her, wishes she'd come back and apologize but I know I'd never take her back. I guess I just wish she'd take accountability. She's already facing consequences of her actions so why am I the one suffering while she's living her life to the fullest?