My sexless relationship
I (20M) has been in a relationship with a (20F) for 4 years with 1 serious break up from my side due to the lack of s*x (roughly once every 3-6 months, with 95% of effort done by me). We talked it out and she tried but its now back to “normal”. I remember that when we started dating (both 16) it was great (having s*x every night, outside, in the car, just normal teenager stuff), after couple of weeks she started taking birth control and since then it just went downhill (I assume that’s what causes the lack of interest in s*x) we both has since gotten slightly bigger (30-35 % of body fat) I have supplemented my desires by m*sturbation (however it didn’t affect my ability to perform). Right now our s*x is: only oral which she doesn’t know how to do (she never made me finish) and then I make her finish with my hand or mouth, and then finish myself. The issue is that other then that it’s an absolutely perfect and healthy relationship. She doesn’t want to get off birth control and I don’t know what to do. What would you do in my situation?
I apologize for all my mistakes, English is not my first language and it’s hard for me to write this, I will be very grateful for any tips, opinions or criticism of me or anything relateble thank you all for your time and support
**TL;DR;** :I’m in a s*xless relationship that is otherwise perfect, what should I do?