Distinguish between an actual Muslim and a hadith-rejecting feminist kafir

When you are going to see posts of them with millions of views and hundreds and thousands of shares saying they think non-muslim men are better. (They date, they sleep with every other men)

And when you go out and get approached more by non-muslims and get fantasized by them then know it’s because of their propaganda (they have made it as if you as a pious Muslim woman is approachable for their filthy intentions).

These hadith rejecting kafir feminists aren't Muslims and they love what they are which isn't a Muslim.

You don't care to distinguish between a group of fitnah and actual Muslims and when it is going to spread between all of us you’ll see its harms.

It doesn't need kindness, it needs distinction between both groups.

A self proclaimed Hijabi does her crap, says how she thinks like that and does this as a Hijabi while all she is a woman with scarf and full of tight cloths and make up.

A woman who properly covers will not be same, and women of this group will not be doing wrong of same digits.

A woman who already genuinely covers properly and it is a compromise for her will never be same as these.

These fake Muslims and fake Hijabis (and fake pious Muslim men) are going to ruin everything for us if we don't distinguish between them.

And with all other harms it will also bring gender wars because apparently you see these people doing wrong and you think it is a Muslim as well, it is similar to every other woman or man I see.

“let me avoid marriage or else I may suffer”

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u/User-hussain — 2 days ago

Distinguish between an actual Muslim and a hadith-rejecting feminist kafir

When you are going to see posts of them with millions of views and hundreds and thousands of shares saying they think non-muslim men are better. (They date, they sleep with every other men)

And when you go out and get approached more by non-muslims and get fantasized by them then know it’s because of their propaganda (they have made it as if you as a pious Muslim woman is approachable for their filthy intentions).

These hadith rejecting kafir feminists aren't Muslims and they love what they are which isn't a Muslim.

You don't care to distinguish between a group of fitnah and actual Muslims and when it is going to spread between all of us you’ll see its harms.

It doesn't need kindness, it needs distinction between both groups.

A self proclaimed Hijabi does her crap, says how she thinks like that and does this as a Hijabi while all she is a woman with scarf and full of tight cloths and make up.

A woman who properly covers will not be same, and women of this group will not be doing wrong of same digits.

A woman who already genuinely covers properly and it is a compromise for her will never be same as these.

These fake Muslims and fake Hijabis (and fake pious Muslim men) are going to ruin everything for us if we don't distinguish between them.

And with all other harms it will also bring gender wars because apparently you see these people doing wrong and you think it is a Muslim as well, it is similar to every other woman or man I see.

“let me avoid marriage or else I may suffer”

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u/User-hussain — 2 days ago
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Women here

Do you incline towards being a housewife or working wife? and why.

If it’s due to some fear then describe that. if it’s something you like about work or staying home then describe that.

And lastly what would be a reasonable compensation or gift/blessing to change your mind? something if you receive then you would rather be a housewife instead of working or working instead of housewife. plus vice versa that if this goes wrong or you lost a perticual thing then you would prefer to change how you would want to live.

These can be anything from a monetary value to any other materialistic value to simply a quality of your husband in terms look, character, personality, or litrelly anything.

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u/User-hussain — 5 days ago

Women of this sub

Do you incline towards being a housewife or working wife? and why.

If it’s due to some fear then describe that. if it’s something you like about work or staying home then describe that.

And lastly what would be a reasonable compensation or gift/blessing to change your mind? something if you receive then you would rather be a housewife instead of working or working instead of housewife. plus vice versa that if this goes wrong or you lost a perticual thing then you would prefer to change how you would want to live.

These can be anything from a monetary value to any other materialistic value to simply a quality of your husband in terms look, character, personality, or litrelly anything.

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u/User-hussain — 5 days ago

Women why?

Do you incline towards being a housewife or working wife? and why.

If it’s due to some fear then describe that. if it’s something you like about work or staying home then describe that.

And lastly what would be a reasonable compensation or gift/blessing to change your mind? something if you receive then you would rather be a housewife instead of working or working instead of housewife. plus vice versa that if this goes wrong or you lost a perticual thing then you would prefer to change how you would want to live.

These can be anything from a monetary value to any other materialistic value to simply a quality of your husband in terms look, character, personality, or litrelly anything.

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u/User-hussain — 5 days ago
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Finding a spouse online is a fitnah and ISO system is a disgrace in the name of searching for a spouse

ISO system and finding a spouse on internet is like a duct tape on broken car door.

ISO system kills the natural way to finding a spouse where you or someone you know noticed someone or something about someone and then inquiry and you take it forward.

But here before you even talk to someone or think about considering them potential you have already judged them based on all the things mentioned in ISO, it’s like shopping and choosing (no wonder why so many people write their ISOs as if they are showcasing themselves, their qualities, and what not).

The way of finding a spouse by yourself online by contacting others is almost always nothing but two people chatting not caring about what is not apprioprate and that they should have had a mediator for them finding, contact, facilitating the talk if they like someone or they are simply looking for someone for marriage.

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u/User-hussain — 8 days ago

Finding a spouse online is a fitnah and ISO system is a disgrace in the name of searching for a spouse

ISO system and finding a spouse on internet is like a duct tape on broken car door.

ISO system kills the natural way to finding a spouse where you or someone you know noticed someone or something about someone and then inquiry and you take it forward.

But here before you even talk to someone or think about considering them potential you have already judged them based on all the things mentioned in ISO, it’s like shopping and choosing (no wonder why so many people write their ISOs as if they are showcasing themselves, their qualities, and what not).

The way of finding a spouse by yourself online by contacting others is almost always nothing but two people chatting not caring about what is not apprioprate and that they should have had a mediator for them finding, contact, facilitating the talk if they like someone or they are simply looking for someone for marriage.

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u/User-hussain — 8 days ago

Saw a woman

I was purchasing something and at shop I saw a niqabi who didn't speak.

CAN YOU IMAGINE A NIQABI BUYING SOMETHING WITHOUT SAYING A WORD? HOW LUCKY WOULD BE HER HUSBAND? I wonder the amount of effort and sacrifices her husband would be putting to makes her life joyful? not just his wife wouldn't be seen but wouldn't be heard by random creeps.

Such a beautiful couple it would be.

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u/User-hussain — 10 days ago

I don't want to live here

I don't want to live here, I am tired. I don't want to go out and witness shirk, I don't want to go out and see all these alchoholics who have no control over them, these women who have no sense of boundary and haya.

These men of bad mouths, these ungrateful and greedy people, these people who have taken animals as partner to god. I want to live in mecca and die in mecca. I want to live around Kaba and die around Kaba. It feels like my heart is bleeding.

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u/User-hussain — 10 days ago

Only want to marry a revert

I was looking for some input on this matter, if you believe there may be other paths/solutions I can take, or would it possible for me to find someone like that easily?

I’ve been thinking about lately that I only want to marry a revert, not out of some weird fetish but because I honestly don't want to deal with my own culture and culture of any other Muslim (or non-muslim), and people who are indulged in them.

I am tired of it and I want to start a new life with my wife, and build a family from there upon Islam.

I want to teach my wife, and raise a family based on principles that are pleasing to Allah in a new land that is cleaner.

And I find that marrying a revert, preferably from a western culture is best choice in this regard.

I am not very interested in polygyny and would love to start a new life with my wife in a place. And It seems the reverts are more suitable to that because they are usually starting a new life as Muslims as well.

I want someone who loves Islam deeply, and is constantly trying to improve, and while I am extremely jealous and would want her to be a niqabi, I am fine with her being a non-hijabi and then improving as long as she is true to that and good in other aspects.

And while I also prefer to be stay at home, I am also fine her working in the beginning for any reason.

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u/User-hussain — 15 days ago
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Only want to marry a revert

I was looking for some input on this matter, if you believe there may be other paths/solutions I can take, or would it possible for me to find someone like that easily?

I’ve been thinking about lately that I only want to marry a revert, not out of some weird fetish but because I honestly don't want to deal with my own culture and culture of any other Muslim (or non-muslim), and people who are indulged in them.

I am tired of it and I want to start a new life with my wife, and build a family from there upon Islam.

I want to teach my wife, and raise a family based on principles that are pleasing to Allah in a new land that is cleaner.

And I find that marrying a revert, preferably from a western culture is best choice in this regard.

I am not very interested in polygyny and would love to start a new life with my wife in a place. And It seems the reverts are more suitable to that because they are usually starting a new life as Muslims as well.

I want someone who loves Islam deeply, and is constantly trying to improve, and while I am extremely jealous and would want her to be a niqabi, I am fine with her being a non-hijabi and then improving as long as she is true to that and good in other aspects.

And while I also prefer to be stay at home, I am also fine her working in the beginning for any reason.

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u/User-hussain — 15 days ago

Your wife is a rizk.

There are millionaires who can't marry, and men who don't make a penny but are married to wonderful women.

It doesn't matter how possible you may find something, but just like you wont die without eating the last bite of food written in your qadr, you will not die without getting married to the spouse written as part your rizk.

And just like you will never certainly know about your food, you’ll never know when and whom you’ll marry and how.

Who will come, and leave.

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u/User-hussain — 19 days ago

Your wife is a rizk.

There are millionaires who can't marry, and men who don't make a penny but are married to wonderful women.

It doesn't matter how possible you may find something, but just like you wont die without eating the last bite of food written in your qadr, you will not die without getting married to the spouse written as part your rizk.

And just like you will never certainly know about your food, you’ll never know when and whom you’ll marry and how.

Who will come, and leave.

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u/User-hussain — 19 days ago

Your w!fe is a rizk.

There are millionaires who can't ma*ry, and men who don't make a penny but are ma*ried to wonderful women.

It doesn't matter how possible you may find something, but just like you wont die without eating the last bite of food written in your qadr, you will not die without getting ma*ried to the sp*use written as part your rizk.

And just like you will never certainly know about your food, you’ll never know when and whom you’ll ma*ry and how.

Who will come, and leave.

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u/User-hussain — 19 days ago