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I fear she is my doppelgänger…
I was looking back at old pictures and I thought I’d share my journey. I struggled with PCOS and the hormonal imbalance caused rapid weight gain. I have only noticed the difference in my face after looking at the first picture which was taken back in 2024. A huge part of my struggle was my diet and my eating patterns which was when I decided to do IF and consume around 1,800 calories. During this time I struggled with a lot of body dysmorphia and still sometimes do now. But IF has helped me tremendously but only if you do it right! I went from 76kg to around 52kg in the space of 3 years. The pictures I have shared are from 2024 to present.
For context we have been in a relationship for 4 years. Last year I caught him watching sexualised videos on TikTok for a few months, I picked him up on this stating I am not comfortable with him consuming this content and if I were to see this again I would end the relationship because I find it disrespectful. Fast forward to the past couple months I have noticed our sex life isn’t like how it was before. It was very him oriented and less frequent, once every month or so. I had a gut feeling that something was going on so I checked his reddit history and behold my gut feeling was right. I know I am an attractive woman but I don’t know why he would do that if he has me if you know what I mean. I told him what I saw and he said he will delete the app but I just can’t help the feeling that I’m not what he wants physically. The women he seems to be interested in do not resemble me what so ever and I can’t help but feel a type of way about it. Can anyone suggest a way for me personally to get past this?