Image 1 — With y'all's advice, my new gate
Image 2 — With y'all's advice, my new gate
Image 3 — With y'all's advice, my new gate
Image 4 — With y'all's advice, my new gate

With y'all's advice, my new gate

I wanted to thank all of yall who helped me fix the gate that was installed on my new fence. The contractor ran off and didn't even technically finish.

With y'all's advice I dug and moved over the steel post on the right so that both sides of the bracket would connect to the fence. I did continue with my plan to shift one picket from the gate onto the post on the left so that bracket would also be secured on both sides.

I then removed the middle horizontal piece and framed out the gate, installing the diagonal support the whole distance per your suggestion. I did add the middle part back as a hinge screws into it

And for some minor upgrades, I added my preferred vintage style latch and repurposed part of the catch bolt from the original latch to use as a lever to secure the latch once I pull the door shut. I also added the steel caps for the posts.

I'll be painted the silver screws on the hardware to match!

It's not perfect but thanks to yall I feel a lot more confident my gate will hold up and the fence will withstand the elements. So thank you so much!

u/Venaalex — 2 days ago

do you have a garden? what are you growing no

This year I've really focused on the outdoor space of my yard adding a large raised bed area where the soil couldn't be amended - I've got sweet corn, green beans, cherry tomatoes, chives, basil, peppers and flowers including marigolds, zinnias, geraniums, dahlias, sunflowers and four oclocks growing back here.

I've got Swiss chard, arugula, and mint growing elsewhere!

I also redid the entire front yard slowly turning it into a native garden instead of a lawn. Right now I've got some beautiful salvia lining the front walk way.

I love getting to spend time in the yard, how many of yall garden be it a large space or some herbs in your windowsill?

u/Venaalex — 8 days ago

need input on fixing my gate

The way this gate was installed isn't working for me and I have a plan on how I want to fix it. The gate is a week old and already sagging.

My plan (drawn in the third image) is to remove one picket from the left side cutting the horizontal braces and reattaching that to the steel post. Then to the gate itself add upright supports and two diagonals creating a K shape that will serve to provide load support for the hinges which are on the right. I will remove the awkward cross picket which is meant to be a handle and install an actual handle.

The more I look at it though the more I am bothered by where the gate hinges. Currently the steel post is only anchored with the u shaped bracket not screwing into anything on the gate side of the post as that would prevent the gate from opening. My plan will fix that on the left side but not the right. My concern is that I live in an extremely windy area and I would think you'd want the bracket anchored on both sides to achieve wind resistance? I don't know if this is true and this is where I could use your insights.

The fence is only 16 feet long.

If I remove and reattach a picket on the right side that will make the gate 34" wide, which does still work fine for me.

Thank you so much for your input

u/Venaalex — 15 days ago
▲ 140 r/NoLawns

working towards no lawn, so happy with this years progress

I started ripping up the yard in March of this year - this layout is phase one and over the next few years ill be working to add more native plants into this bed. And then I can work towards the future no lawn at all dream.

The salvia really burst to life, I am so surprised by how large they already are which makes up for the hostas that something has been nibbling on

I love sitting on my front porch and watching all the different bees, wasps, hummingbirds, butterflies, and dragonflies that buzz about the blooms

And yes the mulch is messy I have a pregnant duo of armadillos

Before photo: Sept 2024 when I moved in

Western Oklahoma zone 7b

u/Venaalex — 15 days ago

finally have a space I'm proud of, can't wait to see how it grows over the years

This section of my yard was an overgrown mess and the previous owner used it as a mass burial for all kinds of garbage - think 6 foot deep pits of glass - making it impossible to dig and plant.

This is still only my second summer in western Oklahoma so I tried not to scale up too much as I continue to learn about growing conditions but my goodness this little garden brings me so much joy.

u/Venaalex — 15 days ago

parents tried to teach me to share when I was little, I'm so glad I don't have to share when I don't want to as an adult

I have siblings, but they were much older and out of the house by the time I was a toddler. My parents enrolled me in daycare because I was very controlling over my toys and my things and they thought it would help.

Of course that was a long time ago, and I get along great with others but my goodness I am so grateful to live alone and have final say on how I share.

I'm in the process of getting a small swimming pool set up. I'm chronically ill, life is Tough Sometimes, and I intentionally moved where it's nice and hot for a lot of the year. So I bought myself a 10 foot pool big enough for me to float in. I've got the fancy sand pump and saltwater system all ready to go. I am SO excited.

And apparently so are all of my friends!

But I bought the pool for me myself and I (exceptions made for Edgar my skeleton and Willie the inflatable whale)!

Part of me feels really bad replying to them basically saying oh no this is not a pool for sharing, but truly it is not! It's not for other people's children. It's not for my friends to cool off in after a long hot day working outside! It's not going to be the pool party pool!

So thanks mom and dad for teaching me how to share, and thank you adulthood and autonomy for allowing to not HAVE to share.

*cheers*

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u/Venaalex — 16 days ago

Corn dinner club + the best bison burger ever

Made buffalo burgers for the first time and decided to really dress it up tonight and ended up with the best burger I've ever had.

Cooked the bison burger in the bacon fat, mixed up some homemade bbq sauce with some mayo to spread on both bun halves, picked some fresh arugula and chard from the garden, bacon of course and then served it with some corn!

What are yall eating for dinner/ordering in?

u/Venaalex — 22 days ago

Different options to remove the last bits that smell from cow skull

Hi everyone!

I've got a cow skull that was pretty much white and had no visible signs of tissue left. However the smell suggests there's some stuff left in crevices I'm not sure how to get to and between teeth.

Following your guide, I got the largest tub I could find to begin soaking the skull hoping this was help but I've run into a few problems.

I placed my large bin outside, missed the comment about leaving it in the open sun and didn't put a lid on it. My first problem is algae.

I read I could cover it and since the container is dark grey perhaps it would kill the algae. I'm not sure how true this was I went to inspect today, it's been about a week since I added the lid and it's still got algae but worse I have created a habitat for mosquitos.

I'm beginning to think due to the cows horns stretching the bin a tad a lid isn't going to sit tightly.

I am thinking the water soaking isn't my best option, should I take it out and scrub off the algae but I'm not sure where to go from there.

Appreciate any advice this is my first time processing bones.

u/Venaalex — 1 month ago

Can I solder this back together?

I really love this belt buckle, it wasn't very expensive and I'm not sure how to determine the metal type. I'm wondering if this is the kind of thing that could be repaired with a soldering iron?

The outside I assume is painted, and the inside where the break is appears to be a dark charcoal color that's kind of sparkly if that helps at all.

Thank y'all so much for your assistance, I really appreciate it.

u/Venaalex — 2 months ago

Hoping to get some ideas as I'll be helping send some places for them to look for houses.

Some context, my parents were both born in WI but when they had me ('97) they became more transient. My dad had before that also been all over with the military. Before their last move they were in Charleston SC where they had a great group of friends.

The heat and storm clean up as they were aging became difficult, so they decided to relocate to Wausau WI. They've been there for 6 years now and are really lonely.

My dad (75) is outdoorsy - got a boat and just sold it because he just wasn't taking it out. Wants to hunt but runs into issues with private land and not having hunting buddies. He didn't get on with the veterans club he tried or the Elks club. His ideal would be off the grid kind of life where he can hunt his own land to his hearts content.

My mom (72) is social but casual. She loves the library, enjoys museums, and would love to be a part of a community where she can spend time sitting on the porch with friends. My mom no longer drives. My mom is the primary motivator for them wanting to move as she really wants to live in a place she has more access to making friends.

They used to entertain with half a dozen other couples once or twice a month, that sort of coupled social group is something I think they'd both appreciate having back.

Access to a good healthcare system is important. They don't want to be near the Milwaukee area, and Madison isn't their speed. They're thinking small town or rural.

I'm hoping to hear ideas from yall about some small town options - places with farmers markets and maybe little seasonal festivities, music in the park, something that could provide the option to be close enough to town that they can walk to things. My dad won't be driving much longer.

I know they want very different things, but it would be nice to be able to highlight some options that would bring some joy back into my mom's life.
Thanks a bunch.

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u/Venaalex — 2 months ago

I have a box of broken dishes that would be really neat repurposed into mosaics, the mosaic sub seems like a no selling kind to deal.

I'm not trying to make a profit just get these into the hands of someone who would enjoy repurposing them.

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u/Venaalex — 2 months ago