u/VerbingNoun413

(Posted from an alt earlier but the sub doesn't allow throwaways)

For background, I am a lesbian and pretty much no doubt about it or inclination to define that further. I've had relationships in the past, as well as casual hookups. Definitely not asexual though HRT means my libido comes and goes.

Also autistic for what it's worth here but this is Reddit so that's par for the course. I've also been told that I have difficulty separating platonic and romantic feelings.

I'm wondering if I may be aromantic for two reasons:

1. Every close female friendship (I don't really have close male friends) has started feeling like a romantic crush, or at least something I've interpreted as one. A similar thing has happened after major, positive experiences.
2. There's been very little overlap between sexual attraction and what I'm interpreting as romantic attraction. I've had strong sexual attraction to people with no other interest and I've had infatuations with people I am not sexually attracted to and can't imagine myself with in that way.

Essentially, I'm wondering if I'm aro and just interpreting every strong, positive feeling as romantic because it's the closest approximation. Can someone alloromantic describe what romantic feelings are meant to be like?

I hate Death Metal.

Haven't seen this posted before and if it's mentioned in canon then I missed it.

It's clear that the Cloisters make no sense in narrative- they are just puzzles. You don't see Wakka in the Besaid cloister even though Tidus is going back and forth solving things and he went in immediately. The Kilika cloister is reset and intact when Tidus is pushed into it, despite Yuna solving the puzzles ahead. For that matter, how many summoners would have the agility to jump over the pit in Djose?

My theory is that the cloisters are summoned by the Fayth and unique to each group that enters. This is also why Macarena needed to be done on the way out- to ensure you battled Seymour.

For context my sister is pregnant through a donor, I'm going to be an aunt, and I'm so, so happy for her and her fiancée.

I want to be as supportive as possible, this is my first niece or nephew (she has banned the word nibling) and also I want to be supportive as a queer relative.

Any advice? Anything I should particularly avoid?

I missed a delivery today. I tracked it and it'll be redelivered tomorrow but ideally I want it today. Is it worth asking at the depot?

EDIT: Apparently I got lucky.

It was a parody of The Bash Street Kids but they were all Jesus.

Is there a reason the box says not to do this? Would it be unsafe to cook?