u/Waiting-inthe-Wings

i know i don't pass the best, but if you saw me on the street, what would you assume? i included some concert wear where i was expecting bigger lights, so i have makeup (pic 3)
generally speaking i have a more binary masculine style, but id like to pass when im wearing slightly more fem stuff too

ill be getting top surgery in dec, but any tips for passing other than that?

edit ^ *hopefully* getting top surgery in dec, thats the plan but either way its in the works bc thats one of the big things (pun intended) working against me rn

edit 2 : im also wondering whether i would be seen as male inside the mens restroom
also im gay, so idm being a bit more fem, bc i want to pass as a gay man not a straight one lol

my current plant setup isn't doing too well - i have green onions (those actually are doing very well), cilantro, oregano, parsley, and thyme. only the onions are doing well :(
i can't find any information to know what kinds of plants will grow better, because my system doesn't seem like a normal one? the water gets to the roots by evaporation, so they never touch plain water, bc the plastic cup they're in prevents that
i have plant starter, which i assume is the right thing to have to help them get nutrients, but i may be completely wrong
since my herbs are failing right now, are there any plants that might perform better? i was considering maybe jalapeños, but i don't know if those are too big or if they'd work well with this system
i also just don't know what i did wrong with these current plants, so if anyone has any ideas, that would be great

so, i just got this system from goodwill, it's a 2004 discovery kids aqua garden fountain, and it's meant for growing plants! from what i can understand, they get water from it evaporating into the cups that each plant and the beads are in! the green onions are growing great - i got most of these in yesterday, with the green onions and cilantro (top row) being 2 days ago. i also have greek oregano next to the onions, italian flat parsley on the back bottom, and lemon thyme at the front bottom! i'm not sure if im doing it entirely right though
there's no way for the water to get to the plants directly, so i dont *think* i need to get nutrients for the water? i know they're for sure supposed to go in the plastic cups, and i don't think any water is supposed to go in the actual cups

my main issue right now is that the non-onion plants aren't doing anything - and specifically, the lemon thyme seems worse than when i put it in. it seems more dry now, and im not sure what to do to help it :( i know this isn't the most advanced system, so im not sure if i just made a poor choice for the final plant
if that's the case, id love suggestions for something else to try, or for just something else at another point!! :)

thank you 🫶and my apologies if this isn't the right place for this, or if it isn't the right flair 🥀

so i live in the us, but i was never actually taught is geography on account of moving states
in missouri, its taught between 5-8 grade, generally speaking. my 5th and 6th grade year sucked and i didn't learn much
i moved to arkansas in 7th grade, and its taught in 5th and 6th grade in arkansas
i decided to make this map a while ago to make my best guesses of everything :) some of them are messed up solely bc i had nowhere left to put things and it was the last spot available, or last one that made sense (ie, i know alabama is not on the coast, but i didnt know what was supposed to go there)

im not sure if this is the right sub for this tbh

edit to note * this is an old map! like 3-4 months maybe? and i have since gotten a bit better and i have been working on it 🫶 pls try to have grace though as yall don't know the situation i was in or the availability of educational materials to teach it to myself
my mom didn't even know i never learned it, otherwise she would have made me learn on my own time in grade school