Can I get my abuser into a court mandated abuser intervention program with a protection order?

Is this possible? Or do I have to press charges for that to happen? Can I even press charges on someone for mental/emotional abuse? There’s also sexual/physical abuse, but most of it was mental/emotional abuse

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u/Warm_Discussion_5983 — 18 hours ago

Can I get my abuser into a mandated abuser intervention program with a protection order?

Is this possible? Or do I have to press charges for that to happen? Can I even press charges on someone for mental/emotional abuse? There’s also sexual/physical abuse, but most of it was mental/emotional abuse

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u/Warm_Discussion_5983 — 18 hours ago

Can I get my abuser into an abuser intervention program with a protection order?

Is this possible? Or do I have to press charges for that to happen? Can I even press charges on someone for mental/emotional abuse? There’s also sexual/physical abuse, but most of it was mental/emotional abuse

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u/Warm_Discussion_5983 — 18 hours ago

Holidays are hard without you

(My ex blocked me, and I spent the day with their family because my ex was abusive and doesn’t want them around to cause drama and because they can’t forgive them for abusing me)

It felt so lonely without you, it didn’t feel right without you, I know I shouldn’t miss you, I should hate you, but I just can’t sometimes, I feel so broken, why did you have to ruin us? Why did you have to ruin me? Why did you have to be so great? And pretend to love me, trick me? Why couldn’t you have actually loved me? And then we could have been together having a good time with your family, why did you have to treat me so horribly? Why did I have to lose you? Why couldn’t you have been someone good for me? I wish so badly that things could have been different, that you would have chose better, to treat me better, and not have thrown everything we had together away for what? Because you couldn’t handle being good to the person who loved you unconditionally? Because someone you can’t even meet in person was better? Because they didn’t hold you accountable for the infidelity, pain and abuse you’ve caused me? Was I just too hard to look at anymore? Looking at your mistake?

I don’t understand, and I don’t think I ever will, I just feel so hopeless now, like nothing will ever be good again, you aren’t here to fix things, and when I try to fix things myself they don’t work, but I know you fixing things doesn’t actually fix anything, it just loops my back into your toxic cycles, and there’s nothing can do now, I can’t help you get better do you don’t want to, and you’re just gonna move on and abuse the next person, there’s no hope for us left, there’s no hope for me, I’m just a broken person now, no one will love me like you did, I know the horrible things you’ve said about me, and they were probably true, so how could anyone like me

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Holidays are hard without you

(My ex blocked me, and I spent the day with their family because my ex was abusive and doesn’t want them around to cause drama and because they can’t forgive them for abusing me)

It felt so lonely without you, it didn’t feel right without you, I know I shouldn’t miss you, I should hate you, but I just can’t sometimes, I feel so broken, why did you have to ruin us? Why did you have to ruin me? Why did you have to be so great? And pretend to love me, trick me? Why couldn’t you have actually loved me? And then we could have been together having a good time with your family, why did you have to treat me so horribly? Why did I have to lose you? Why couldn’t you have been someone good for me? I wish so badly that things could have been different, that you would have chose better, to treat me better, and not have thrown everything we had together away for what? Because you couldn’t handle being good to the person who loved you unconditionally? Because someone you can’t even meet in person was better? Because they didn’t hold you accountable for the infidelity, pain and abuse you’ve caused me? Was I just too hard to look at anymore? Looking at your mistake?

I don’t understand, and I don’t think I ever will, I just feel so hopeless now, like nothing will ever be good again, you aren’t here to fix things, and when I try to fix things myself they don’t work, but I know you fixing things doesn’t actually fix anything, it just loops my back into your toxic cycles, and there’s nothing can do now, I can’t help you get better do you don’t want to, and you’re just gonna move on and abuse the next person, there’s no hope for us left, there’s no hope for me, I’m just a broken person now, no one will love me like you did, I know the horrible things you’ve said about me, and they were probably true, so how could anyone like me

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Holidays are hard without you

(My ex blocked me, and I spent the day with their family because my ex was abusive and doesn’t want them around to cause drama and because they can’t forgive them for abusing me)

It felt so lonely without you, it didn’t feel right without you, I know I shouldn’t miss you, I should hate you, but I just can’t sometimes, I feel so broken, why did you have to ruin us? Why did you have to ruin me? Why did you have to be so great? And pretend to love me, trick me? Why couldn’t you have actually loved me? And then we could have been together having a good time with your family, why did you have to treat me so horribly? Why did I have to lose you? Why couldn’t you have been someone good for me? I wish so badly that things could have been different, that you would have chose better, to treat me better, and not have thrown everything we had together away for what? Because you couldn’t handle being good to the person who loved you unconditionally? Because someone you can’t even meet in person was better? Because they didn’t hold you accountable for the infidelity, pain and abuse you’ve caused me? Was I just too hard to look at anymore? Looking at your mistake?

I don’t understand, and I don’t think I ever will, I just feel so hopeless now, like nothing will ever be good again, you aren’t here to fix things, and when I try to fix things myself they don’t work, but I know you fixing things doesn’t actually fix anything, it just loops my back into your toxic cycles, and there’s nothing can do now, I can’t help you get better do you don’t want to, and you’re just gonna move on and abuse the next person, there’s no hope for us left, there’s no hope for me, I’m just a broken person now, no one will love me like you did, I know the horrible things you’ve said about me, and they were probably true, so how could anyone like me

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[Mature Content] From the abusiverelationships community on Reddit: Am I overthinking or the erection was actually weird ?

The comments for an abuse subreddit were very disappointing (not my post)

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u/Warm_Discussion_5983 — 3 days ago