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Lost item-Swiss army knife
▲ 4 r/horary

Lost item-Swiss army knife

Context: A few weeks ago while on a cleaning spree, I somehow lost my Swiss Army knife. That thing was the most utilitarian and organized instrument in my life, and its absence has been felt. The last time I remember having it was when I was breaking down a bunch of boxes, and I put it down on my nightstand and thought that I didn’t need it yet, but I would soon.

It’s not like me to throw things out that I didn’t mean to, but it’s certainly not unlikely because as I said I was really on a cleaning tear. I’ve looked in every nook and cranny for it, torn my room up, looked in places it wouldn’t be possible and no dice.

Interpretation: horary is a medium I respect deeply but can’t seem to get a handle on, so bear with me. Both the querent (me) and the second house cusp of possessions are in Gemini, making them ruled by Mercury. So, I suppose in this case I would be the moon. The moon is in fall in Scorpio, in the 6h of daily routines. The thing that gives me a little hope is that Mercury is in the 4h, home. However, it’s making a square to my already fallen moon. I can’t if that means in my fervor to get my bedroom organized I threw it out of my room, or the fact that the square is applying means it’s somewhere in here, but I’ve made it very hard on myself in terms of finding it lol. Any interpretations would be appreciated!

u/Whoknows159626 — 1 day ago
▲ 4 r/horary

Will my former coworkers/friends and I find a way back to each other after falling out?

Context: a few years ago, I had a job where I worked long hours with a very tight team, and as often happens in those situations where you spend more time at work with a small group of people than your own family, we became very close. This is very common in the industry I work in and the nature of the work is very transient, so it’s also common to be best friends with someone one minute and then one of you is off to the next job and you may never see each other again. It’s always bittersweet but you get used to it and learn to value the time you spent together.

However, this time was different. We truly became like a family inside and out of work. I’ve never felt a connection to a group of people the way I did with this group, and several people said the same. I felt like I’d finally found my people. We were there for life events, heartbreaks, joys, all of it. Unfortunately, the company we were working for unceremoniously shut down our department and we were let go with no notice. But instead of each going our separate ways, we stayed close and other than not seeing each other at work everyday, nothing changed in our relationships.

However, due to circumstances I don’t want to go too much into details about in case someone happens to read this, we had a stupid fight that escalated, and just never got properly resolved. We did hang out after that and tried to mend things over, but that led to an even worse fight. It’s been about a year, I still talk to one person, a couple of others talk to each other, etc (there’s 6 of us all together). I hear here and there that so and so wants to make amends, or we ask how each of the others are doing, I’ve tried sending a few texts, but no movement. So, my question:

Will my coworkers/friends and I ever be able to make amends and be friends again?

Interpretation:

I wasn’t sure whether to use the 10H because we met working together or the 11H because we became friends and stayed that way years after working together. I ultimately chose to interpret the 11H but am open to suggestions on that. I’m Mercury retrograde in Cancer in the 2H, while their significator is mars in Gemini in the 12H of what’s hidden (including enemies, which seems foreboding). We don’t aspect each other at all, and I can’t imagine it’s a good sign that my significator is in retrograde. However, if I use the moon as my significator, it’s conjunct mars in the 12H (again, of what’s hidden) and making an applying aspect. The fact that it’s conjunct and applying gives me hope that maybe things could be worked out if we bring out what’s hidden (i.e. have a honest conversation about what’s on our minds) and bring it to the surface so that we can move forward. I don’t know if this has anything to do with anything, but Saturn is in its detriment in the 11H, so I don’t know if that’s an indication of restrictions in that area.

I don’t want to be too vague, but I’m honestly not quite sure how we got to such a bad place and it makes me sad, and from what I’ve heard through the grapevine I’m not the only one that feels this way. I know what the contents of the fights were certainly, but not quite where they came from. I’m still new to learning about horary, so I would really appreciate any insight into the situation, if I even used the correct houses, and if there’s any hope to a way back to each other.

u/Whoknows159626 — 1 month ago
▲ 4 r/columbia

31F and Lucky Black Cat Seek Apt for June 1

As the title says, looking for a pet-friendly apartment for June 1st. I thought I had something but it unfortunately fell through. Also open to meeting folks who are apartment hunting too to see if we’d be a match to look at places together!

A bit about me: I’m 31F, in gs studying human rights and sociocultural anthropology, and most importantly I have a very sweet, non-destructive, goofy cat who will be your best friend if you let him, so I’m looking for a pet-friendly apt.

As a roommate/tenant I’m very friendly, clean, responsible, respectful, and a nonsmoker. I like to have a few friends over for a nice dinner every now and again but otherwise like to keep my home as a peaceful sanctuary away from the hustle and bustle of the city, and have never been the type to bring the party home.

I have references available from current and past roommates and people I’ve subleased from that can attest to the fact that I’m a good roommate and tenant and have always paid rent/utilities on time while leaving the space just as clean as I found it.

I have a living stipend through my scholarship, will be working as a server, and have a guarantor if necessary.

Budget: $1900 at the very top but preferably around $1500-$1700. Willing to pay a bit more for the right place!

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u/Whoknows159626 — 3 months ago
▲ 13 r/prospectheights+6 crossposts

31F and Lucky Black Cat Seek Apt for June 1

As the title says, looking for a pet-friendly apartment for June 1st. I thought I had something but it unfortunately fell through. Also open to meeting folks who are apartment hunting too to see if we’d be a match to look at places together!

A bit about me: I’m 31F, a student (went back to undergrad later in life) studying human rights and sociocultural anthropology, and I have a very sweet, non-destructive, goofy cat who will be your best friend if you let him, so I’m looking for a pet-friendly apt.

As a roommate/tenant I’m very friendly, clean, responsible, respectful, and a nonsmoker. I like to have a few friends over for a nice dinner every now and again but otherwise like to keep my home as a peaceful sanctuary away from the hustle and bustle of the city, and have never been the type to bring the party home.

I have references available from current and past roommates and people I’ve subleased from that can attest to the fact that I’m a good roommate and tenant and have always paid rent/utilities on time while leaving the space just as clean as I found it.

I have a living stipend through my scholarship, will be working as a server, and have a guarantor if necessary.

Budget: $1900 at the very top but preferably around $1500-$1700. Willing to pay a bit more for the right place!

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u/Whoknows159626 — 3 months ago
▲ 8 r/brooklynheights

TLDR: 31F Brooklyn Heights fangirl and 🍀🐈‍**⬛ looking for a room. Move in: Ju**ne 1; Budget: $1900

First and foremost, I’ve always been in love with Brooklyn Heights. The gorgeous tree lined streets, the architectural preservation, the charm, the character, the promenade overlooking the water and the beautiful city. I could go on. It’s the first place I head to when I’ve had a stressful day and need to decompress; I’ll walk around and take in the peace and the charm and it always calms me. It’s always been my dream to one day call it home and become a member of the community.

So, as I find myself having to move rather suddenly—come June 1st I have to be out of my current apartment—I thought now was the time to shoot my shot.

A bit about me: I’m 31F, a student (went back to undergrad later in life) studying human rights and sociocultural anthropology, and I have a very sweet, non-destructive, goofy cat who will be your best friend if you let him, so I’m looking for a pet-friendly apt.

As a roommate/tenant I’m very friendly, clean, responsible, respectful, and a nonsmoker. I like to have a few friends over for a nice dinner every now and again but otherwise like to keep my home as a peaceful sanctuary away from the hustle and bustle of the city, and have never been the type to bring the party home.

I have references available from current and past roommates and people I’ve subleased from that can attest to the fact that I’m a good roommate and tenant and have always paid rent/utilities on time while leaving the space just as clean as I found it.

I have a living stipend through my scholarship, will be working as a server, and have a guarantor if necessary.

Budget: $1900 at the very top

If anyone is seeking a roommate or knows of someone who is and I sound like a match, please send them my way! And since I’m already shooting my shot, if anyone knows of any crazy unicorn 1 bedroom deals, or could direct me on how to find them myself, I would also be very interested, though I understand that’s much less likely.

This was long so if you read to the end I appreciate you! Any leads or suggestions would be very much appreciated 🙏

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u/Whoknows159626 — 3 months ago