Transracial adoptees: Anyone else feel ignored and/or used all the time?
At this point in my life, I feel it is definitely racially motivated because I'm the only non-white in my 'family' thus I am the only one treated this way. I'm never taken seriously, and/or anything I say is outright ignored. And when a relevant issue comes up later, they all turn to me like it's my fault that I didn't tell them anything even though I had. Or all my life growing up and still now, I am used to do things for everyone like a slave. Oh you aren't doing anything? Go pick up sticks or wipe wood. Yea I'm not joking about wiping wood. Sounds abhorrently stupid because it is since my AP long ran out of real things for me to do for them so they are pulling anything out of their ass at this point
Meanwhile the most recent achievement is my cousin who graduated at the same time as me and is taking time off between his life of school before transitioning to working until we die, to travel and do things he wants to do. 'Oh wow good for him!', 'Such a hard working kid!', 'He deserves it!', etc etc. Turns to me, 'since you're not even trying to apply to jobs you can go drop off more of my dry cleaning and pick up the last load' and the next order after the next and so on. Obviously all I’ve been doing is applying for jobs since I graduated despite this rundown market. Cousin gets job out of nepotism and family connections
This has to be some type of bias and favouritism because biological relative nonsense blah blah. I'm looked down on and treated like a slave my whole life. 'Oh don't worry about that, [Whole-Regret2346] will help pick it up for you/clean this up'