u/WildMeet6638

23 f I have fat around my cheeks and I don’t like those chubby cheeks my face looks fat because of the baby fat but I have a skinny fat body which means I’m not skinny or not fat I’m medium but the thing which I hate is the face fat I don’t like when I smile it makes my cheeks looks big and also tell some exercise if you know how to reduce it

So we met through Snapchat and we both had same vibes I started to like him but obviously I didn’t wanted more than friendship with him even he had soft corner for me I was attached to this guy but one day we had a fight and after that everything changed because of some misconception our friendship ruined from that day I still didn’t give up I put efforts and all I wanted to fix this and be like before but from his side it was nothing he had forgiven me but I still feel like he’s still upset with me and I begged him to stay with me because I was so much attached to him and no matter what I do he just don’t talk to me like before and not only that I’m hurting myself so I decided today that I am going to unfollow him and cut off the relations I’m getting emotional while writing and I wish we have never met but anyways we will be strangers again I really do t want to do this but I got no other options than saying goodbye to him 🙂

Why do I like these non chalant , avoidant kind of guys and why are they so damn attractive

So recently turned 23 and I don’t know what to do if you are a young or old now please tell me how to act I feel like I am a child but at the same time I feel like I’m old

So we went to temple tour with my family and I had no other slippers to wear so I wore flats thought it was my moms old flats and wore it but guess what happened next when we were at the destination spot and we were outside temple giving our footwear’s at the footwear section and one of my relatives saw the flats and was shocked who wore this flats again and everyone were laughing so the other relatives said she wore it so actually I don’t like my relatives that much so what happened is the flat was actually that relatives she wore it and the backside of the chappal was also torned it was single layer it didn’t had another layer but i thought it’s flats that’s why it’s so thin and everybody was laughing at me it was very much embarrassing I was only thinking about that incident the whole trip and I’m actually embarrassed because it was that relatives worn chappal and I wore that dirty chappals 😭😭

So we met through Snapchat and we both had same vibes I started to like him but obviously I didn’t wanted more than friendship with him even he had soft corner for me I was attached to this guy but one day we had a fight and after that everything changed because of some misconception our friendship ruined from that day I still didn’t give up I put efforts and all I wanted to fix this and be like before but from his side it was nothing he had forgiven me but I still feel like he’s still upset with me and I begged him to stay with me because I was so much attached to him and no matter what I do he just don’t talk to me like before and not only that I’m hurting myself so I decided today that I am going to unfollow him and cut off the relations I’m getting emotional while writing and I wish we have never met but anyways we will be strangers again . 🙂

So my armpits are dark and looks really bad has a pimples in that areas also my armpits itching me very much from last few months is there any remedies to overcome the itchiness and how to clear the darkness in armpits

And I don’t know how take responsibility of her marriage I mean whatever the preparation brides sisters have to do i can’t do like that I am a very shy introvert girl and thinking of all that scares me off I don’t even talk to my relatives I have also stage fear and my sister has told me to dance on her wedding and I never danced on anyone’s wedding on stage so that one thing and I have to look on the preparation like jewellery, makeup , parlour and guests how am I going to do this all sometimes I feel like just not to do anything and be the side character but I can’t you have to be the centre of attention because u are brides sister and I have seen in my cousins marriage how their sisters were moving and treating their guest and I’m not that kind of sister I don’t know how will I be there

And I don’t know how take responsibility of her marriage I mean whatever the preparation brides sisters have to do i can’t do like that I am a very shy introvert girl and thinking of all that scares me off I don’t even talk to my relatives I have also stage fear and my sister has told me to dance on her wedding and I never danced on anyone’s wedding on stage so that one thing and I have to look on the preparation like jewellery, makeup , parlour and guests how am I going to do this all sometimes I feel like just not to do anything and be the side character but I can’t you have to be the centre of attention because u are brides sister and I have seen in my cousins marriage how their sisters were moving and treating their guest and I’m not that kind of sister I don’t know how will I be there

I have noticed this since my childhood that whenever I have been nice to people they don’t show the same kindness back I have been treated like shit even after being nice with them people ignores me and don’t give the same energy back to that I just stop talking to them and never talk to them again and then they think that I’m rude but I don’t care but the thing is why am I always get so much hate for no reason if I have been nice to people? But when some mistake happens by you people only remember that one mistake but forget the good things you have done for them and when you have supported them at their lowest point it just doesn’t matter to them but they will remember the wrong u have done to them so now my only question is what am I supposed to do because it’s too confusing why I am hated when I have been kind or why am i treated like clown ? When all I do is be nice .hence I deserve to be treated respectfully from the opposite person when I am being respectful and kind to them.

So my sister has bf and he is our family friend and also has a very good job and well settled but my dads side has agreed at some point but mom has some problem but the main thing is I am feeling very jealous and not so happy plus not only that I have even manipulated my mom by saying bad about him and his family my mom already knows about it but I did more and I don’t know why I’m doing this I’m just against of their marriage I don’t know I just can’t see her happy it’s making me jealous I feel like I will not get as good husband like her bf what if I won’t get much deserving guy than her such thoughts are crossing my mind

That we stopped talking now again we were talking for sometime then again we fought and again we are not talking actually he is not talking to me like he used to I kindoff miss him and want him back but he doesn’t reciprocate my feelings but also he likes my stories and comments but that’s it how to know if he is also missing me and how to get him back?

As a shy person I have heard from lot of people saying why is she so shy she is very shy blah blah and tbh it actually affects me and I don’t like it but why does it bothers to other if I’m shy ? They ask my sibling why is she shy ? Why cant she talk but I just can’t get close to people easily and they all keep saying me that overcome your shyness don’t be so shy be bold as if I’m doing it intentionally I just can’t do it I have tried overcome my shyness but I just can’t open up properly why does they see it as problem