u/You_think09

Hi, I (25F) met this guy(26M) through strict date to marry app and every thing was vibing, everything is aligned, caste and all!! He seems and feels very promising but he is just not available and i don’t think so, i have high standards. I am good with texts and like one call in a month. As soon as we are vibing but idk he is just not available. I confronted him 2 times and he has been really good with me. Like saying all the right things talking about forever. I just have this hunch ki he might be exploring options out there. What should i do? Should i end it because of my overthinking? As again i will confront him he will say some nice things and i know still won’t be available.

I also know this hard and fast that no guy is so much busy that if you are looking forever with someone then you won’t be just available.

UPDATE GUYS - He said he just slept early 🫠 Am I really overthinking stuff here?

Sometimes i feel if i would be having 1 lakh laying around somewhere, so many of problems would be solved, any opportunity to earn or to get that loan without any interest could have literally solved so many of my issues.

Idk felt depressed after getting salary today, how can i get so much out of control for my expenses, i literally don’t have any control on myself. I will forever be in debt in my life.