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For context I’m 25 amab NB and rather androgynous but not alt looking like most NBs I see meaning i don’t have piercings rather light If any makeup long but uncolored hair and such. And I’ve found no one is interested in me after i stopped looking extremely feminine or masculine I used to get lots of matches and messages from my fellow queers but as soon as I went androgynous they dried up completely even cis men on Grindr stopped messaging I didn’t even think that was possible! I really dislike being seen as ether gender but I’m tempted to be again just so it’s not so hard to find people and it’s getting really lonely and really want a partner🥲

I’m in a relatively small town area in central Oregon for the past 6 years I’m 25 and dating has been hell here exclusively long distance. I just got dumped for the same reason the 3d time in a row by someone I had amazing chemistry with and was very into me because she couldn’t handle long distance🥲 and I’m sick of it but I’m struggling to find queer friendly places to meet people. Are there good ways to find these places I’ve been scouting the internet and Reddit and grindir and have found nothing and online dating sucks unless you’re interested in cis men Wich I am not any advice would be helpful

I was looking through my old accounts and realized almost every single person on there i have lost connection or contact with at some point for whatever reasons except some direct family usually getting overstimulated and not talking to them anymore for months or years i just hate how easily I’m overwhelmed by people and how poorly i communicate my feelings it causes me to have no one who stays long term I’m relatively low support needs but this is one thing I truly struggle with even now I’m really struggling to find the words for what is happening with me it’s already hard enough to understand myself let alone explain it

I’ve been keeping guppies in this tank for a long time about two years. I have a lot of fry and all seem perfectly healthy but the last six months or so all of my male fry. end up dying early suddenly, leaving me with only one male in the tank that I got because I had no males and 20 or so females. Could my male genetic lines be bad? If it helps my ph is 7.5 my gh is 120ppm and my kh is 80ppm with all nitrogenous waste products being undetectable

I’m adding this to venting since as a gay man they have been a big problem. I’ve been dealing with severe hemorrhoids for years now there painful and frustrating and I’ve had them removed and treated so many times and new ones form and I always wondered why I was so prone to them in spite of all my good habits only to find out today that it’s because of my EDS how did not one doctor look at my profile and not put 2and2 together 😡. Admittedly I don’t think it would’ve helped but still. Anyone else deal with this issue and find a solution?

I cannot believe I need to say this but the amount masc bottoms who send me ass pics with poop crust or dingel berries is insane to me. How hard is it to wipe your ass I also get missing some every great once in a while but taking a pic seeing there’s shit on your ass and sending it anyway…🤯 am i the only one who deals with this maybe because I’m in a small town or something or is this an everyone problem