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Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

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Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

I went from writing too much to not writing at all and it is getting on my nerves now. I have always struggled with consistency but when I get into something, I just get too deep into it and when I am out of it, I find it awfully difficult to get back.

I am trying to befriend a fellow writer to stay in writing zone for a bit if not long so that I get some writing done. I haven't written in a long time so just planning to either get back to my old projects or write something new. I mostly write romance.

I am just hoping to check in with someone every day for our daily writing goals. I am 29F if it matters.

Please feel free to reach out if someone is interested.

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Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

I went from avoiding voice calls because apparently, I hated (still do) my voice (not too uncommon, is it? Haha) to actually preferring them over texts for some reason which happens to be my health issues.

Hello there! I am 29 and from India.

I have some problematic health issues and things have been pretty rough lately. Since I've got a lot of free time now, I thought I'd get to know some people. I've also figured out that calls really help distract me from my pain and discomfort and even if it's temporary, I find it incredible.

I do not have any particular preference for topics as such. I feel it is best to let conversations flow naturally.

I am a software engineer by qualification but currently too sick to work. Some of my interests include vegetable gardening, music and Asian dramas (mostly thrillers).

I'd prefer to have a brief conversation over text before calling. Feel free to reach out with a small introduction if you think we could have a conversation or two.

Have a good day/night ahead. : )

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Trying to find the lost art of patience!

People who can text back within seconds when they're available, hold a conversation when possible and don't mind waiting for a day or two to hear back or take a day or two to reply themselves for whatever reasons.

Some of the things I'd be interested in talking about... gardening, asian dramas, TV shows and movies (preferably thrillers), music, writing (fiction), conspiracy theories, self-sufficiency, forgotten skills, any of your and/or my other hobbies and just life in general.

Oh, even on the days when things feel too overwhelming, I am absolutely okay with only good morning and good night messages if that's all you can manage. I remember reading this somewhere that when life is rough (which it in general happens to be for a lot of us), a simple (preferably regular) good morning message can keep you going if nothing else in your life seems to be going your way at that moment.

Due to some messages that I have previously received, I do have an age preference now. | 23-35 |

Feel free to reach out with a small introduction. : )

Thanks for reading. I hope you're doing great. Have a good day/night ahead..

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Trying to find the lost art of patience!

People who can text back within seconds when they're available, hold a conversation when possible and don't mind waiting for a day or two to hear back or take a day or two to reply themselves for whatever reasons.

Some of the things I'd be interested in talking about... gardening, asian dramas, TV shows and movies (preferably thrillers), music, writing (fiction), conspiracy theories, self-sufficiency, forgotten skills, any of your and/or my other hobbies and just life in general.

Oh, even on the days when things feel too overwhelming, I am absolutely okay with only good morning and good night messages if that's all you can manage. I remember reading this somewhere that when life is rough (which it in general happens to be for a lot of us), a simple (preferably regular) good morning message can keep you going if nothing else in your life seems to be going your way at that moment.

Due to some messages that I have previously received, I do have an age preference now. | 23-35 |

Feel free to reach out with a small introduction. : )

Thanks for reading. I hope you're doing great. Have a good day/night ahead..

Trying to find the lost art of patience!

People who can text back within seconds when they're available, hold a conversation when possible and don't mind waiting for a day or two to hear back or take a day or two to reply themselves for whatever reasons.

Some of the things I'd be interested in talking about... gardening, asian dramas, TV shows and movies (preferably thrillers), music, writing (fiction), conspiracy theories, self-sufficiency, forgotten skills, any of your and/or my other hobbies and just life in general.

Oh, even on the days when things feel too overwhelming, I am absolutely okay with only good morning and good night messages if that's all you can manage. I remember reading this somewhere that when life is rough (which it in general happens to be for a lot of us), a simple (preferably regular) good morning message can keep you going if nothing else in your life seems to be going your way at that moment.

Due to some messages that I have previously received, I do have an age preference now***. |*** 23-35 |

Feel free to reach out with a small introduction. : )

Thanks for reading. I hope you're doing great. Have a good day/night ahead..

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Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention.. I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

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Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention.. I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

What are your current hobbies? How did you get into those?

What were your past hobbies? Why did you end up leaving those?

Are there any hobbies that you are considering to explore in the future?

If you were to give up everything in your life to have one thing (it could be anything), would you make that trade or would you rather choose to do without it? If you do choose to make that trade, what's that one thing that matters so much to you for you to leave everything else?

When and what was the last time when you thought about giving up? How did not giving up change you as a person? Did it actually make you stronger like they say what doesn't kill.you makes you stronger? Bouncing back after hitting the rock bottom certainly feels much harder and painful that it is made to seem.

Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

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Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

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Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't.

I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

We've all had once beautiful friendships that faded for different reasons. That doesn't necessarily mean we've forgotten them.

Do you ever remember old friends you've fallen out with, lost touch with or simply stopped talking to... for whatever reasons but the memories of that friendship still live somewhere in your heart?

Hello there! I am looking for some casual and decent conversations. I believe friendship is more of an invisible process where we talk to people and it lasts if we vibe in one way or another and it doesn't if it doesn't. I believe ghosting is really looked down upon but in some scenarios, it might not be that bad. How could you possibly know if you'd get along with someone or not without talking to them for a bit and can we really blame each other if we don't vibe?

I am 29 (she/her)

Some of my interests include vegetable gardening (just trying to become a little more self-sufficient), music (the only constant in my life), animals (not pets but love feeding strays), birds (they seem to have a thing for me too hahaha)

I am into Asian dramas these days... mostly thrillers (of all kinds).

We don't need to have anything in common. It's great if we do though but that's not mandatory. I am curious about a lot of things in general so it shouldn't be hard to find topics to talk about.

Another thing that I must mention... I have a bunch of health issues so my life is kinda chaotic. I don't expect quick replies. I can't manage to always respond quickly either. If that works for you, feel free to reach out with a small introduction!

Thanks for reading. Have a good day/night ahead. 🙂

I have a bunch of problematic health conditions but I have been trying to push through anyway. It has been particularly rough since 2026 started and I feel awful for not being able to do much so I want to find an accountability partner to keep things a bit more serious. I am not able to do much alone.

My priorities are working on my writing projects, gardening, keyboard and my health... consistent walking and exercise routine. I know I am more likely to fail for several times in a row but I gotta start somewhere and take it slow than doing nothing.

Oh, and I also need to declutter a lot.

Hoping to find someone here. Feel free to reach out.