I dislike my chest so much, I can't stop thinking about it

Lately, I've even been waking up from sleep worrying that my chest will get bigger. I'm 16, so I'm scared that it might still change as I get older. I'm currently a B cup, but even now it feels huge to me.

I really don't want it to get any bigger. I hate having to wear bras, and I don't like feeling like I constantly have to think about how my body looks. I don't understand why some people want a larger chest when, for me, it mostly causes discomfort and makes me feel self-conscious.

I don't want to have children, so I don't personally feel like there's any benefit to having a larger chest. It genuinely feels like there's something on my body that shouldn't be there. I wish I could be completely flat.

I'm 168 cm and around 49–50 kg, so losing weight isn't really an option and probably wouldn't make much difference anyway.

I think about this constantly, and it's starting to affect my sleep and everyday life. I also really dislike the feeling that my body might make other people perceive me in a sexualized way. I just want to feel comfortable in my own body without feeling like I'm being looked at as an object. Which could happen, if it got bigger.

Is there anything that can safely reduce the size of the chest or prevent further growth at my age? I know surgery isn't something possible at my age, but I'm really struggling with how strongly I feel about this.

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u/_normal_name_ — 3 days ago
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I hate my breasts so much, I can't stop thinking about it

Lately, I've even been waking up from sleep worrying that my chest will get bigger. I'm 16, so I'm scared that it might still change as I get older. I'm currently a B cup, but even now it feels huge to me.

I really don't want it to get any bigger. I hate having to wear bras, and I don't like feeling like I constantly have to think about how my body looks. I don't understand why some people want a larger chest when, for me, it mostly causes discomfort and makes me feel self-conscious.

I don't want to have children, so I don't personally feel like there's any benefit to having a larger chest. It genuinely feels like there's something on my body that shouldn't be there. I wish I could be completely flat.

I'm 168 cm and around 49–50 kg, so losing weight isn't really an option and probably wouldn't make much difference anyway.

I think about this constantly, and it's starting to affect my sleep and everyday life. I also really dislike the feeling that my body might make other people perceive me in a sexualized way. I just want to feel comfortable in my own body without feeling like I'm being looked at as an object. Which could happen, if it got bigger.

Is there anything that can safely reduce the size of the chest or prevent further growth at my age? I know surgery isn't something possible at my age, but I'm really struggling with how strongly I feel about this.

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u/_normal_name_ — 3 days ago

Can I return a bra If I exchange it for a cheaper one? - on sale

hey guys!! Yesterday I bought a bra from victoria secret, it was on sale and cost about 18€. Size 32B. But today morning I returned it for a different one (without trying it on) cause I changed my mind. The new one was 26€, 32A also on sale. But now I tried it on, and it is too small, so I need to return it AGAIN. Its just so uncomfortable I cant breathe. I will go to a different Victorias secret store than I was to in the morning cause its just so embearrasing....but the thing is, I want to return the 26€ one for the previous one - for 18€. Does anyone know if I can return a bra in exchange for a CHEAPER one?? Or if its possible o exchange it just if its the same price?

PS: yeah I shouldnt have returned it the first time and I really regret it

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u/_normal_name_ — 22 days ago

Im scared of ww3 but I want to feel safe in my country

Ive posted it in one other subreddit already but I wanted more people to help..Im 16yo. I've been having nightmares of missiles flying etc and it keeps me up at night all the time.

Russia-ukraine, Israel+Usa-Iran..and recently even Germany raised their safe levels to high-risk..I'm from Slovakia. But I'm very scared that one day there will be missiless flying. I really want not to worry.

Cause right now I'm very safe but I mean, what if usa will attack all europe? And China will get involved..in my country, we don't have any military base for them to even destroy, but they could still attack us, right? I just have a bad feeling that something horrible will happen. *I just want to feel safe in my country. Yes they dont have a reason to attack such a small country but..*

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u/_normal_name_ — 29 days ago

I'm scared of WW3 occuring.

16yo. I've been having nightmares of missiles flying etc and it keeps me up at night all the time. Russia-ukraine, Israel+Usa-Iran..and recently even Germany raised their safe levels to high-risk..I'm from Slovakia. But I'm very scared that one day there will be missiless flying. I really want not to worry. Cause right now I'm very safe but I mean, what if usa will attack all europe? And China will get involved..in my country, we don't have any military base for them to even destroy, but they could still attack us, right? I just have a bad feeling that something horrible will happen.

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u/_normal_name_ — 29 days ago

Rate me out of 10 & what should I change?

Advice welcomed on anything but skin, Ive already been to a dermatologist. Thanks!!

u/_normal_name_ — 1 month ago

How can I improve my looks? [18F]

I know the name on the paper is upside down, sorry about it

Please do not include in the tips anything about skincare, I have a skin picking condition. Otherwise every advice is welcomed. Thanks!

u/_normal_name_ — 2 months ago

I made a cover of the light behind your eyes. Use headphones!!

No hate pls🫶🏻🦢

I focused on singing rather than guitar but I thought of posting it here

u/_normal_name_ — 2 months ago

What do we think of this haircut? [18F]

Im looking for a glowup so Im thinking a new haircut with layers and those whimsy bangs? My hair usually has more volume, but I took those photos 3 days after washing my hair. (I wash them otherwise every day)

u/_normal_name_ — 2 months ago

Would this hairstyle (1st photo) suit me?

Im looking to "glow up" for summer so Im thinking about a new haircut, would bangs and this style suit me? I cant decide. Thanks!!

u/_normal_name_ — 2 months ago