u/a_dua2025

Age -21 years gender-male

Me and my gf did our first and last Intercourse on 3rd day of menstrual cycle on 24th December 2025. It was done using condom. Now from the month of January I have been fearing what if she is pregnant. She is getting Bleeding every month on 21st Jan 17th February 15th March 10th April 6th may 10th june 7th July 7th August. All are pad filling Bleeding. She also did 4 urine pregnancy test all negative.

Actually the fear subsided after her April Bleeding. But what happened next was we met again on 2nd may. But as the fear of intercourse was there so I decided not to indulge in any intercourse not even a protective one. So I decided to stick to foreplay only like mutual masturbation, oral sex, breast touching, handjob. This is what we exactly did. On 2nd may, I made sure that there no genital-genital contact between us. I ensured that my penis didn't even touch her vulva. I made myself sanitized my hand after Every touch and also did the same for her. Even when she was sitting on my thighs I made sure her genitals don't touch my genitals anyway.

All this was fine. **But one instance she was lying beside me naked and I was facing the roof. She was rubbing my genital part with her hand. Her legs were closed at the time of ejaculation. I ejaculated in the air. Like how semen behaves , it got scattered here and there on the bedsheet. Some fell on my lower belly,some on her hand and some on her outer thigh of the top leg. I cleaned that area immediately. I have attached the picture of the position we were in.**

This was one of the two times I ejaculated on 2nd may. Another time we both were fully dressed and was in the same position. Now even without doing piv intercourse and no anal sex and no genital-genital I am fearing what if something happens to her. She got her bleeding on 6th may, 10th june 7th July then on 7th August. She is telling me and making me understand this is not the way one gets pregnant. I know that but in reddit many people says without piv intercourse people get pregnant, cyclic regular monthly Bleeding then also people pregnant and urine pregnancy test negative then also pregnant.

Now amid all this I am thinking what if something like that happens to me. She is not anxious at all. She is completely fine. **But I am thinking: what if the Bleeding is not her periods but subchronic hematoma or decidual Bleeding? What if she used water instead of urine for the test as she might be tensed to do the test? What if I met her in between 24th December and 2nd may and I have no proof of that ( but she told me at every meet we clicked pics and it is all stored in my phone)?**

I am myself in a dilemma thinking is it my mental issue problem or should I get her checked. Now she is telling me" I did everything for you to make you convince. I explained to you the situation we were in, I did two urine pregnancy test, I am showing you my period pics. She is also telling me if anything happens to me , I will be the one who will be facing the consequences so why are you thinking I will use water instead of urine to do the test. Today I can hide but tomorrow I can't and look what we did on 2nd may there was no intercourse at all and no genital-genital contact also. Now will I not even touch you as well. You have to believe me otherwise you will become mad."

I don't know what to do. I need all of your suggestions. Please help me. I feel like crying 😭. I feel extremely lonely.

1st test was done on 6th june (35 days after sexual encounter) and 2nd test was done on 9th June ( 38 days after sexual encounter) . 1st test was done using second morning urine sample and second test was done using first morning urine sample.

Now after doing the first test I left the urine sample in the mug ( which I used for collecting the urine sample) till 8th June. On 8th June, I threw the urine sample out of the mug and used it again for collecting first morning urine sample on 9th June. I may have rinsed the mug with water on 8th June but I don't remember. In case I didn't rinse it with water on 8th June and just simply threw out the old urine sample from the mug and used the same mug for collecting first morning urine sample on 9th June, is the test completely reliable?

And please tell is there any faint T line or something?

I really need your opinions. Please help me. I did pregnancy tests 35 days ( on June 6th) and 38 days ( on June 9th) after sexual encounter. I am sharing the result. Is there any more need to test? The sexual encounter was not pentrative intercourse and not genital-genital contact.

There is no issue of faint T line after 21 days right? All these are negative?

My gf and me met on 2nd may. There was no penetrative intercourse and no genital-genital contact. She was lying naked beside me ( facing me) and I was facing the roof. She was rubbing my genital part with her hand. Her legs were kept one upon the other or her upper leg was kept over my thighs at the time of ejaculation. Now I ejaculated in the air. Semen gets splashed everywhere. Mostly it fell on my lower belly and her hands. Some semen droplets fell on the blanket and on her outer thigh of top leg. I cleaned it immediately. At first I thought pregnancy don't happen like this. But reading some articles on internet and reddit people say without intercourse pregnancy possible. Obviously I didn't ejaculate directly on her vulva or vaginal opening. I ejaculated in the air but imagining what if the semen reached there.

Her next scheduled Bleeding started on 6th may ( 27th day of her menstrual cycle). Her next Bleeding started on 10th june ( my senior scolded her as I already had an ocd about pregnancy from our first protected intercourse on 24th December 2025, so she couldn't sleep properly for many days). Her next cycle again returned to 27 days ( 7th July). Each Bleeding continued for 4 days. Now this cycle her period is late like Today is her 31st day she is getting some cramps and having sleep disruption that she generally gets before her period. But no flow yet. She already did a urine pregnancy test using preganews standard kit on 6th june ( 35 days after the encounter using second morning urine sample) and 9th june (38 days after the encounter using first morning urine sample). I will post the Internet pic of our position at the time of ejaculation and some Pics of her Bleeding alongwith the test pic.

And one thing she sat on my thighs much before I ejaculated but I made proper separation between my genital part and hers. it was also brief and she was most likely wearing clothes.Please tell me is there any concern for pregnancy? And her late period is it normal? Her expected date was as per flo 4th August and as per google Gemini 5th August.

Gender- male age -20+ years. Me And my gf met on 2nd may. There was no penetrative intercourse and no genital- genital rubbing. She was lying beside me naked and I was facing the roof . She was facing me. I ejaculated in the air . Her legs were closed. Most of the semen fell on my body. And some semen fell on the bedsheet and here and there including her outer thigh. So is there any concern for pregnancy from this act?

She had her bleeding on 6th may till 9th may. Then her Bleeding was from 10th june to 13th June ( a hectic cycle devoid of proper sleep exactly in the middle of the cycle). Her next Bleeding occurred from 7th July to 10th July. She took multiple xl pads in each bleeding. I am sharing the picture of her Bleeding also. Please tell is there any concern for pregnancy from this act? She also did a urine pregnancy test on 6th june (35 days after encounter using preganews standard kit) but it was using 2nd morning urine sample she drank tea and 2 sip of water 40 mins before the test . It was Negative. She also did another test on 9th June ( 38 days after the encounter) using 1st morning urine sample. But the problem was she used the same container for collecting the urine. She told she washed it with water on 8th June.It was negative too. Please tell is there any concern for pregnancy from the act of 2nd may?

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Actually my gf's last period was on 6th may and it continued till 9th may. She had normal cramps and clots. She took 7xl pads and 1 regular pad in total in that 4 days Bleeding. Now just exactly 3-4 days before her expected Ovulation day one of my seniors scolded her and she was very sad for that reason. She was extremely unhappy and she didn't even sleep properly for 2 or 3 nights. And this was in the weekend. She had a hectic schedule in the weekend following her dancing and singing classes. Also there was a function in her family. So she had to wake up early in the morning of Monday which was her expected Ovulation day. Even on the Ovulation day, my senior scolded her and she didn't sleep properly may be 3-4 hours sleep. Waking up in the morning she had to go to her tuition classes. So her sleep was disrupted due to this.

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Now her period was expected on 1st June (27th day) but it came on 10th june(36th day) exactly 35 days length cycle it was. We met on 2nd may and that was the last meeting of ours and we did no penetrative intercourse and there was no genital contact between us. She told her june Bleeding was bit heavier. She had to take 11xl pads in total in 4 days. She had leg cramps during the Bleeding. Actually I don't know whether her Bleeding light or heavy or moderate. I am sharing one of the pictures of her pads where she used 2 xl pads one upon the other. Please tell me is it light or moderate or heavy. According to her it is not light Bleeding and it is normal. Please answer.

Everyone is aware about my condition through my other posts. I did no penetrative intercourse and no genital to genital contact even. I am not writing in details. It was the 23rd day of her menstrual cycle on 2nd may when we met. 4 days after the incident her Bleeding Started i.e., on 6th May . It continued for 4 days. It took her 7xl pads and 1 regular pad in total. She had cramps and clots as well.

Flo showed period will be on 1st June 26 days after 6th may. But she is already 2 days late. I understand that she ovulated late. And the reason was she was very sad regarding as one of my seniors scolded her very badly. She didn't sleep well for some days. She even told me that see my period will be late.

And here it is. As a boy with ocd, even 2 days late is looking alot. God please help her have her Bleeding 🙏. I request all I know I might sound wrong but if you are not mature enough to handle sexual relationship please don't go for it. Choose abstinence. Even after getting one period I am thinking this much. I need some help.

Even you can see my other posts where anxiousness haunted me for almost 5 months and is still haunting me. I hope the picture I shared is not any kind of early pregnancy bleeding. If anybody have any idea please share. And it is looking black as she clicked the picture very late. She has been wearing this pad for almost 8 hours as she was outside. It was leaking also.