I want to break up with her.

Almost 1 month pa lang kami in a relationship and 1 month dating stage. But every time may misunderstanding kami, gusto niya na lagi makipag break. Dahil jan, sobrang na-a-anxious na ako tuwing gusto niya makipag usap ng seryoso. Top 1 na agad na nasa isip ko na makikipag break na naman siya. For context, galing siya sa 3yr relationship and last year sila nag break. While ako naman, this is my first every serious relationship since situationships lang talaga experiences ko.

In short, this is my first time taking a risk to be in a committed relationship so I want to hold on to this a little longer. That's why I always beg her to be more communicative and tell me what I can do to make her stay.

Pero, i'm fearing that it's starting to affect my mental health. I often get panic attacks pag nag-i-isolate siya and hindi nag rereply. Napag usapan na namin yung last na away namin and promised each other to improve ourselves. But, the feeling of anxiety still does not go away. I don't know what to do because I think this is my own problem na. Nabasa ko sa tiktok na maybe I have an anxious attachment issues.

If nakaranas na din kayo ng gantong situation, how do you handle the stress? Please help.

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u/abernathy007 — 2 days ago
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can't use the app

anybody else who can't also use the app? tried clicking the "use this template" button but it won't budge. i also tried the start a new project but the button won't also budge...

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u/abernathy007 — 10 days ago

thoughts about hoe phase?

i'm dating this girl for a week now and we've reached the point of discussion where we share about our past relationships.

sabi niya hindi niya daw alam kung kaya niya ba tanggapin yung hoe phase ko... i was very heartbroken cause i really liked her.

kayo ba? would you also do the same?

i'm still upset and sad about what happened but i think valid naman yung naramdaman niya and i don't really blame her for that.

hayyy

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u/abernathy007 — 1 month ago

debriefing our third date

  1. you picked me up at my place even though it's raining cats and dogs! brooo

  2. you sacrificed getting soaked just so you can give me your rain coat. wth ?

  3. you laughed at all of my corny dad jokes ...? seriously, are u okay?

  4. you ran away from the police. 10/10 no notes.

  5. first photobooth. first pic together. first running together in the rain.

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u/abernathy007 — 1 month ago

i'm so smitten... what the heck?

what did you do to me? last week, i was just swiping my heart away with all the dating apps and the r4rs, but now? i'm making all these lists of things to do with you!! what did you put in the ice cream we've ate on our first date ????? i'm so smitten and restless!! if this is a dream, i'd never want to wake up ever.

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u/abernathy007 — 1 month ago

at my happiest!

our second date at baywalk!

i'm so mesmerized by your entire beauty... your glowing face due to the headlights of the passing cars, how your eyes lit up with my jokes, how your softest hands lingers with mine.

oh how my heart aches for you!!

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u/abernathy007 — 1 month ago

I stopped myself from telling you how pretty you are

This is just our first date. But you already caught me off guard with your pretty smile, sparkling eyes, and your gentle personality.

I stopped myself to not scare you off and just let things flow naturally. I have a tendency to feel everything so deeply and people often get overwhelmed with those. So, i am letting you off the hook for now with all my outstanding feelings.

You inspired something special within me and I plan to keep that burning as long as you will let me. God, you're even making me a poet once again. I hope i'm not putting you in a high pedestal by saying these things...

But i'm so excited for the upcoming days i'll have with you.

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u/abernathy007 — 1 month ago

Hatid na kita pauwi.” Grabe, ganito pala ’yon 🥹

As someone na nasa sapphic dating scene, never pa talaga akong naihatid pauwi after a date with a girl kasi sanay ako na sa mga lalaking ka-date ko lang yun nararanasan.

Kaya kanina habang pauwi na, hindi ko halos ma-process na "huh? ihahatid? sa bahay?" kasi parang ang foreign concept na ihahatid ako ng babaeng ka-date ko 😭

Tapos first date pa lang ’to ha???

Ganito pala feeling pag nakakaangat na sa buhay HAHAHAHA EME!

Bare minimum ba ’to? Siguro. Pero let me have this one 😭🫶

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u/abernathy007 — 2 months ago

help! i badly need to get a referral

hello po sa mga employees from BPO and tech companies (Accenture, Optum, Concentrix, Infor, etc.)

I’m currently a BS Computer Science student and an aspiring Software Development Intern. I’m looking for companies that are accepting interns with allowance. 🙏🏻

OJT Requirement: 300 hours (can be extended if needed)
Preferred Company: Multinational company
Preferred Role: Software Development / Software Engineering Intern

If your company is hiring interns or accepts referrals, I’d really appreciate any leads. I can send my resume right away.

Thank you so much!

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u/abernathy007 — 2 months ago

Walk-in Friendly Companies Around BGC, Makati, and Pasay?

Hello beautiful people!

I'm an aspiring soft dev / proj manager intern looking for companies to apply to for my ojt requirements. Saan po kaya magandang mag apply for walk ins? Any feedback or suggestions are appreciated thank you!

PS. especially companies that value leadership experience hehe

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u/abernathy007 — 2 months ago