u/anaph0rs

I’ve had a bad week and found out that the prospects of me being able to carry my wife and I’s child are not good. She’s never, ever wanted to be pregnant so this is a very hard time for us. I feel like people react as if I have a de facto surrogate and therefore shouldn’t complain so intensely about having fertility issues. I would never make her carry our child when the idea of being pregnant is something she’s incredibly uncomfortable with. So me not carrying makes it unlikely we would ever have a child together. Can’t I just be allowed to grieve this??

anybody down?? I’m 30 and married if those are factors that contribute to your interest ✨

I had a shit summer and started eating meat again but I’m taking advantage of the new season to recommit to being a vegetarian 🌱 🥕🫜🥕✨ what are your go to meals?

also curious if anybody ever successfully manage to go full vegan without triggering their ED? Being veggie is so much easier to deal with for me

mine is that despite being non-believing in every regard I kind of do believe that deja vu means you’re on the right path ✨

I'm watching it from Granada ✨ anybody else watching/reflecting/manifesting??

will 100% come back

• Black nail polish
• White converse
• mascara
• beach waves
• Matte foundation
• Bralettes
• Mesh panels in workout clothing
• Ripped jeans
• arm parties
• Studded clothing
• Juicing
• Breakfast bowls

will be left in the past

• Purple lipstick
• Freakshakes
• Neoprene
• Chevron print
• Bright colored skinny jeans
• galaxy leggings
• Cheap ass plastic daisies
• Flannel
• Long christian girl autumn cardigans
• Aztec print and India/Thailand inspired Elephant motif
• Slogan t shirts ala Wildfox or Zoe Karssen

I was a victim of a crime back in 2018 - as part of my healing process I requested any information from my case and was sent some internal notes from that time about two weeks ago. In reviewing them I’m really struck by how misogynistic the language used to describe me was and I find a lot of it not alright given the seriousness of the crime I was a victim of. It ranges from using the phrase “He then chucked her out of the flat” to describe being pushed down a flight of stairs to including paragraphs about whether or not I found the perpetrator attractive. Given that the whole document is a sparse 13 pages an entire paragraph dedicated to this strikes me as not alright. I was lucky in that in my case the CPS’ case was strong enough to convict without me needing to appear but I worry that the way I was characterized in these documents could have been used against me had it come to that. Another example “Aggrd is concerned and hysterical about him tracking her down due to her rare surname” this is in the context of having reported a real instance of stalking threat to the police (In a different jurisdiction) a few weeks prior. I was 22 years old when all of this happened to me. Of course I wasn’t the most put together person about all of it but why not leave it at “Aggrd is concerned…”

Anyways, I just want to know if I should report something like this or if it would make no difference. I would just like the police to think before characterizing female victims like I was.

I live in Vienna, Austria and I just don’t like it. I like my apartment and I think the groceries are good quality and the buildings are pretty but none of that makes up for what miserable cunts the people are. It’s just compounded for the years I’ve lived here to the point where I can’t handle it anymore. People get insane here when you criticize the culture in that respect but oh my god, the people here are so absurdly proud and pedantic. They’ll blame you for absolutely anything. It’s affected my mental health so badly at this point. I dropped my keys on the UBahn yesterday at someone’s feet and when I bent down to pick them up the woman at whom’s feet I dropped them (not moving them at all so I had more room of course) smirked and scoffed at me. It’s just so abnormal. Usually that would be something I’d just shrug off but I’m so browbeaten by having moments like this at least 2-3x a day. And god forbid you ever mention this on Austrian/Vienna subreddits.

Loveee

In March I gave in and upgraded from an iPhone 11 to a 17 and 90% of the reason was because I couldn’t stand how dim the screen had gotten. Even at full brightness it was so much darker than it should have been.

Now I’m three months into owning the new one and I’m having the same issue. The hard drive isn’t too full so I have no idea what could be causing this. I’m so frustrated that I got a new phone and have run into the same issue so looking for whatever advice anybody might have.

I have an emotional and an actual hangover because I don't know how to combine the person I spoke to last night with the person I experienced for all of my life. She sounded so young and sweet on the phone and she was more lucid than I've ever heard her and I told her so much about my life and it was all I ever wanted in a mom. She had/has a severe mental illness and so it's hard to know if it'll be the same if I talk to her again which scares me. She's been through so much in her life but I suffered a lot because of it and last night I got the sense she doesn't even remember the bad things. I spent the last decade thinking I would never speak to her again. I wish she could have been like this all my life.