u/angellerde

I hope this is the proper sub to share this. We live in toronto and recently moved into a new home. It's been less than a year and we have had a good relationship with our neighbours so far.

I would say over the last two or three months, we noticed our neighbours shifting a water storage container near the fence which we believe is our property. When we purchased the home, the realtor also let us know that half the fence is ours and half is theirs. There is no fence dividing the sides of our home and theirs. We were super confused by their recent actions that we went and pulled the survey records and images from Google also support (their side is painted in a different colour from ours) throughout the years of how the division was done.

Last month we approached them to kindly move their water container because it was actually sinking into the ground and creating a slope in the ground which is causing water to be diverted into our basement. This is resulting a leak through the walls which was not previously there.

Their response was that they are adamant that our city provided paper work is wrong and they almost teared up the paper we showed them.

What can we possibly do in this situation? We want to resolve this because we are not the kind of people to argue years over this stuff and our next step would be to build a fence to eliminate any future disputes. We are not sure what to do.

Copy of our survey - https://bashify.io/i/y6yKo9

I am a bit excited but didnt want to do it too soon. Are you guys planting your veggies outside yet or waiting some more? It's my first time doing it outside over here so I am a bit nervous.

I have an original document and below all the English text, they have written the Portuguese version of it. Will this need to be translated?

This is for spouse sponsorship.

Hey guys,

I absolutely adore bougainvillea and I know they will not survive the weather here so I was wondering if those in a similar zone knew of plants that have a similar look and will survive our weather if left outside.

Much appreciated, Thank you.

Rest assured there are no spoilers here!

Seher:

There is a lot of flek being given to Seher and the way she acts around Mahid. She seems confused about her feelings but still clings to Mahid and others say that it is not correct. I feel like a lot of you are forgetting what it truly means to be a 16 year old + someone who has lived such an isolated life.

Kauser (Seher's Mom):

In my eyes, I feel like she has lived under her mother's umbrella. Her mother may want best for her, but truly she has shaped and manipulated her emotionally. Her mother's constant crying and wanting her to follow things her way otherwise it means she doesn't love her mother? I think it will affect how she will be as an adult. I am not saying her mother is a bad person but you must take into account how it can impact a young child.

Mahid:

Mahid has things that impact his thoughts and behaviours due to childhood trauma. Despite the things he has faced, he seems like a semi-decent human. His stance on life is clear. He is not someone that manipulates others and is selfless when he wants the best for someone. I believe this is the quality that pulls Seher towards him because he doesn't expect burden her with expectations or seek great accomplishments from her by manipulating her emotionally.

Age Gap:

My personal opinion on someone that was forcefully married off at the age of 16(turning 17) to someone that had just turned 23 years old would have been that they either separate or divorce until she had reached an age where the younger person could think with a mature state of mind. During that time, that younger person should decide what they want to be or who they want to be with (regardless if it ends up being the same person they were married off to). Everyone has a right to choose who they want to be with. I would be happy with the show if Seher is able to choose without her mother's emotions blocking her thoughts, or her father's force and conditions. If she wants to end the marriage? fine. if she wants to stay with Mahid? well thats fine too- so long as its her choice.

About the topic of becoming a doctor:

She's only 16, she still has to pass her schooling and study for another 10-12 long years. She has big goals and dreams but allow her to work through them one by one. Not saying she won't make it because I know she will, she is shown as such a bright student and I have high hopes for her.

Final thoughts:

I hope Seher is able to truly think for herself and show us her maturity whenever she feels is right for her. Whatever she decides to do, I will support her so long as its truly what her heart desires and not a choice she is making to appease her family or other people. At her age, she is allowed to be a little selfish.