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15+ years of digital art but I’ve hit a hard wall. (Full aphantasia + ADHD). Looking for anyone who relates or works like this.

Before reading.. please be gentle i have wanted to post again here after years and i didnt do it because im scared from people being harsh.. know that it took me so much time to gather courage to ask for help...

Hey everyone. I’ve been a digital anime-style artist for over 15 years now. I used to be really proud of my work, managed to build a decent following on Instagram, and even took real commissions. But for the last three years, I’ve been stuck in a brutal burnout loop and complete artistic paralysis. I feel like an absolute alien in the art community, and I'm posting this because I desperately need to find out if there are other creatives out there who share my exact wiring or if I'm just fundamentally broken.

My main issue is that my mind's eye is nearly blank. I have hypophantasia. When I watch traditional art tutorials, every single one of them tells me I have to learn anatomy by drawing 3D construction boxes, memorizing muscle insertion rules, or mentally rotating geometric shapes in a void before I sketch. Every time I try to force my brain to do that, it completely lags out and gives me an intense headache. Because of my ADHD, my working memory is terrible, and trying to hold all those abstract, hidden rules stable in my head while looking back and forth between a separate reference screen and a blank canvas completely drains my dopamine. It triggers severe task paralysis, and I end up giving up before I even start.

My entire life i have been using procedural learning method without knowing until now. It has been my default way since i was a kid, from learning english by speaking with others rather than the usual educational way at school (grammar) to playing video games with high mechanical skills without investing much in theories. I have always been bad at anything with conceptual or abstract learning like physics and such which is why i loved art a lot and it was my only subject that id get A with effortlessly.
Except now... because i fell into a trap where i have been hearing lots of different opinions about learning art from youtubers or even here.. i became paralyzed with fear. I wanted now to only do the right thing.. the right path but when i tried for the first time to learn art in the way that i rarely do.. like studying it by understanding theories... no matter how much i tried i always failed.. didnt matter if i watched different way of teaching the theory i would always never understand it.

I stopped for the first time 3 years ago and i dont want to.. art is a big thing in my life.. without it i feel souless. I have been trying years to find answers by understanding myself more but its still difficult for me to start. Its sad that i became someone who would die to wake up in the morning to sit and draw im his tablet to someone who cant even bare to look at it now.

I hope i can get the help i need.. i feel like im getting closer but all i know is i need my own method of learning art to the way my brain is wired. I was told that in order to improve i need to learn theories and stop depending on my method of doing things.. sadly when i tried that i burntout and been in a state of confusion where i hated art so much

Does anyone else with low visualization or ADHD traits work this way? Can you actually reach a high professional level using external software scaffolds and visual-reactive tracking instead of abstract mental geometry? I just want to know if my method is a valid way to exist as an artist, because I would rather keep drawing until the day I die, but the isolation and the fear of doing it "wrong" is keeping me completely frozen. Thank you.

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u/ao1ken — 1 day ago

I need help or some hope to my situation

I dont know what to say but it does not matter if you have big dreams or passion if your genetics or brain wont help you reach it because of limitations...

Neither does changing what you always loved to do to something else will help too because you only want the only thing that you worked hard for.

Sadly im getting bitter and bitter each day seeing artists that can work in a way i will never be able to.. why ? Because their wiring and hard drive is able to do so.

I have always struggled in my entire life to make things work.. even in school i never understood why my brain cant handle things that are complicated...

It seems a reoccurring pattern in everything i do.

I reach a certain level then i never get past it.

I learnt that my brain cant get past the l
"Above average phase"

Thing is all i knew or researched about is probably because im neurodivergent adhd and aphantasia.

I hardly give up on the things i care about which is why i have been drawing for more than a decade now and im so stubborn.

But i reached a state where nothing i can do matters.. legit

No therapy no medication no will power no mentors worked..

Anyone would see this and say "he is just defeatist and will blame anyone but himself"
I wish that is true because if i didnt move or try to understand myself and never gave up on my dreams for +15 years then i would just left it for good long time ago.

I do care
But at this point it feels like a joke... like an invisible wall that i cant comprehend and move past it.

This made me super depressed and suicidal recently because i started to feel whats the point of life if im like this..

It hurts that everything i loved is now something that reminds me of the impossible dream i want to reach.
Every artist i see is a reminder of how inadequate i am...

I really feel alone in this.. i cant even seem to find a community or answers that can actually help...

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u/ao1ken — 2 months ago

Does it even get better..?

I dont know if this is the right place but, i hate how just being different or whatever can make you not succeed in life.
Like sometimes i envy people who are smart or not neurodivergent because im like if i did the same effort even though i try my best i wont reach to what my fullest potential like them.
It feels like you are limited and its has been my life like that
Average
Thats all maybe above average

Grades? B+
Art which is my main thing i do .. still average
Games? Average

Thing is no matter what i do i cant go over the limit, so whenever i see someone who is not limited im like.. yeah whats really impressive? The fact that their brain wiring enable them to be smart? Like genetics?

Why do i even exist and try when everytime i just cant understand neither what the fuck is going on and why am i like this and why i cant figure it out no matter what i do..
Therapy, meds, mentors, friends, ... still cant figure out what can i do to become not just average in the things i love and am passionate about

Im sorry i just wanted to vent it out..

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u/ao1ken — 2 months ago
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I hate how unfair my brain is

I dont know if this is the right place but, i hate how just being different or whatever can make you not succeed in life.
Like sometimes i envy people who are smart or normal because im like if i did the same effort even though i try my best i wont reach to what my fullest potential like them.
It feels like you are limited and its has been my life like that
Average
Thats all maybe above average

Grades? B+
Art which is my main thing i do .. still average
Games? Average

Thing is no matter what i do i cant go over the limit, so whenever i see someone who is not limited im like.. yeah whats really impressive? The fact that their brain wiring enable them to be smart? Like genetics?

Why do i even exist and try when everytime i just cant understand neither what the fuck is going on and why am i like this and why i cant figure it out no matter what i do..
Therapy, meds, mentors, friends, ... still cant figure out what can i do to become not just average in the things i love and am passionate about

Im sorry i just wanted to vent it out..

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u/ao1ken — 2 months ago

Hello, i heard this phrase a lot in the art community and tutorials but for some reason it never clicked for me, just confused me.

I asked grok and his answer was this

"Why this resonates so much with aphantasia (and you)
• People with strong mental imagery can “see” the object in their head and try to reproduce that internal symbol. That often leads to stiff, symbolic drawing.
• You literally cannot do that. With full aphantasia, you have no internal picture to fall back on. So your only real option has always been to look at the reference and draw what’s actually there. In a way, you’ve been doing the “draw what you see” method naturally your entire art life."

Do you think its true? Idk i mean it make a bit of sense because i really had nothing in my head to lean into when i draw...

I just want to know what do you think about this phrase and if its actually not directed to people with aphantasia

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u/ao1ken — 2 months ago

just hate how hard it is... hard to understand whata wrong witn me. Hard to make choices in life and just frustrated witn myself in general.

I just wish i die at some point im tired of living.

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u/ao1ken — 2 months ago