u/arreyyy

Pata hai aaj kya hua

It'll be three years this July 18th since this girl became mine, and this year feels really special to me because, in the previous years, I couldn't really do much due to some personal issues.

This year, I finally planned everything properly. I've been making handmade gifts, writing letters, and getting her a customized crochet doll. I imagined so many little moments in my head, like how I'd surprise her, how I'd give her the gifts, and how she'd react. I was really looking forward to spending the day with just her.

The thing is, she has a best friend who's moving out of town at the end of July. They're extremely close, and there's a very good chance they won't be able to meet again for at least two years. I know her too, and she's a really sweet person. I completely understand why my gf wants to spend time with her before she leaves.

The problem is that both of our families are really strict. My gf is only allowed to go out once every couple of months, and my situation is even more complicated (can't really say why). I honestly don't know if I'll get another chance to meet her this year. This July might be my only chance to see her, though next year things should be much easier.

She suggested that all three of us meet sometime between July 20 and July 30.

There we go. 😭

I currently have no other option.

If I go, I feel like I'll end up being the third wheel because they'll naturally want to spend time together before her friend leaves. I completely understand that, and I don't blame either of them. But man... all those dreamy nights imagining our anniversary, only for this to happen.😭and I am damn sure that day would be awkward asf

TL;DR: Planned my dream 3rd anniversary with my gf for months, but now it turned into a 3-person meetup because her best friend is moving away, and I'm kinda heartbroken.

I don't mean that everyone suddenly became rich, but it felt like a lot of middle class families were genuinely improving their lifestyle. More people were buying smartphones, cars, bikes, TVs, ACs, and other technology. It felt like people had more confidence to spend money and things were moving forward.

Ever since 2020, I don't know, it just feels different. I'm not saying India isn't growing anymore because the economy obviously is, but it feels like we've been in this weird phase where things aren't getting noticeably better for the average person. Prices have gone up, salaries don't seem to keep up, and it feels like people are just trying to maintain what they already have instead of moving ahead.

I don't know bruhh 😭,we have been in relationship for 3 yrs now,july 18th would be our anniversary...and it's a very special moment for both of us.....I couldn't do much in previous years cause of my strict family (they don't know about us)it's very hard to hide anything from them and neither I wanted to take a risk.This year i planned very well,how the day should go..places we would visit..,i made her a lot of handmade gifts , letters,gonna buy a custom crochet doll😭.

And then she dropped the banger,her best friend is moving out of town due to some reason and prolly,chances of them meeting again over the next two years are none..I know her friend,she is a very sweet person and I completely understand my gf's situation.

However,my own situation is kinda complicated,both of mine and my gf's family is kinda strict and only allow us to go out one every two months,on top of that due to some personal things,I won't be able to meet her again this year.So recently my gf has made up plans that we 3 would hangout on the same day.Ohhh mann...😭I was dreamin about this day for months,how it would go..how she would react,those special moments between us...and this has turned into a group hangout 😭 and I have to join them now cause I don't wanna hurt my gf.

But the thing is that, I am damn sure i would end up being a third wheelie and yhh I prefer that cause I don't wanna make that girl feel left out.I am just disappointed asf..tbh.

And should I give her the gifts infront her friend..like wouldn't it be awkward.?. anyways yhh

Tldr :- I’ve been secretly dating my gf for 3 years, and I spent months preparing handmade gifts for our 3rd anniversary . But my gf GF just invited her bestie who is moving away for two years to join us, turning our rare date into a group hangout. Because of my strict parents, this is my \\\\\\\*only\\\\\\\* chance to see my gf for the rest of the year, so I have to go. I’m completely disappointed because I’m going to end up being a third wheel, and I have no idea how to give her my personal gifts without making it awkward for her friend

I have a photo of me and him.Thats it.

Prolly never gonna meet him again.

I wanna gift him something before he leaves